A man born between May 21 and June 21 has a light attitude to life and numerous connections in society. Easily won the location of the fair sex due to charisma, innate charm and the ability to make non-trivial compliments. But a woman to get such a man is not easy. However, knowledge is power. Understanding the characteristics of its complex nature will help to find the key to the heart of a representative of the sign of the zodiac.
Characteristic
The Gemini man has a lot in common with the related foundational element of air. It is also light on the rise and agile, is in constant activity. It is difficult to find him at home: Figaro here - Figaro there. Going from ship to ball is about him. Such a pastime, as if the twin man is not worth the special effort, and even, on the contrary, is a great pleasure.
Constantly in search of fresh emotions and sensations, such a person and himself incessantly gush forth with ideas. He is valued at work for his creative approach. With ease, you can brainstorm with him in a team: he will always throw a couple of dozen different ideas that will have to be implemented by less resourceful, but more diligent and responsible colleagues.
The mental abilities of most representatives of the mark are much higher than the average. The patronage of Mercury gives their minds a lively orientation, due to which there are no unsolvable tasks for them: they will find a way out of any situation with ease and grace. They are multi-tasking and easy to switch, but they often abandon their plans and rarely bring things to the end. This property prevents them from achieving significant success in their careers. Therefore, they are often in the position of rank and file employees with a reputation as a not very responsible, but brainy employee.
You can change the state of affairs if Gemini finds a job he likes related to constant business trips, negotiations and communication without a lot of routine and paper work. He has good qualities of a negotiator and a seller, because he can convince anyone thanks to his eloquence.
Adventurism and the ability to shine in society are attractive to women at first. The twins are gallant gentlemen who can easily win anyone they like. However, they will not waste time on too complicated and inaccessible prey. They have too many different activities to spend on one person. In addition, it imperceptibly can grow into affection, which the Twins do their best to avoid. Strong deep feelings are not for them. It is much more interesting for such men with each woman to experience their novel and their history in all their many-sided feelings.
With all the external lightness, Gemini is a complex sign due to its duality and diversity of subpersonalities that are inside such a man. It easily changes your opinion on any issue and is alien to constancy. Find a woman for a long serious relationship, even if he wants, it will be difficult. Such men themselves are quite jealous, but they always give cause for jealousy. Few would agree to tolerate their flirting with others, the constant lack of home and superficial attention to family matters.
Most often, such men make friends with women. In the men's circle because of their carelessness and irresponsibility, they are often considered to be unreliable people and pustobrёh. However, the twin woman will not be in a hurry to help.Small requests and completely disregards, shifting them to the mercy of a fortunate set of circumstances. Serious request for help will fulfill, but without much enthusiasm. Gemini man believes that the ideal relationship should be completely disinterested.
Concepts such as mutual aid and mutual assistance are alien to him: he himself quite easily copes with many things or simply forgets about petty annoying misunderstandings, and he demands the same from others.
What kind of girls does he like?
It is difficult to please a twin: he will not say with accuracy what kind of girl he needs. In any case, to behave with him should be very open and free. Deliberate attempts like will not lead to success. This man is too clever to succumb to traditional female tricks in seduction. At such attempts, he only sniffs contemptuously and turns his gaze in the opposite direction.
He is impressed by women with a large share of adventurism in character, constantly ready to leave the place and go to meet unexpected adventures. Therefore, women in tight mini and heels will not be his choice. They will not be able to withstand his pace of life and respond to the invitation in an unusual and interesting evening. A girl with a Botox on his face, too, will cause only sarcasm, because he loves frank, emotional interlocutors with a sense of humor, who can laugh to tears without fear of "losing face".
Of course, Gemini will like a well-groomed girl with a good figure. But it may not be beautiful in the generally accepted understanding. Much more important for this sociable air sign is the ability of the companion to communicate. To achieve the position of Gemini, you need to be ready to speak easily and naturally on various topics. At the same time, it is not at all necessary to deeply understand particularly complex issues. It is important to listen to the man who will set the right direction for the conversation and emotionally give feedback.
It is much more necessary to understand the essence of things than the details of the topic about which there is a conversation.
Signs of love
To understand that a Gemini man is in love is, at first, very difficult. A colleague and comrade are quite sweet and amiable with many ladies, who, because of this, take a good attitude for easy flirting. It is difficult to really like him, especially for a long time to interest him.
If you still managed to achieve his inconstant attention, you can guess about the Gemini's love with some signs that give a lovelace with his head. The lover will try to spend as much time as possible with the object of adoration and may at first even forget about his many friends and hobbies.
Such a man is quite straightforward in expressing feelings and after a short time he will say about them: he will sing songs to you and make various compliments. His sophisticated fantasy can truly hit an amorous lady's heart. Whether to answer him reciprocate, it is worth thinking, after weighing the chances for and against this, most likely, transient novel.
Gemini is fairly easy on money, so his beloved woman will fall asleep with gifts when funds are available. And even if financial opportunities are limited, the man Gemini will find something to surprise. Representatives of this sign themselves like to have a good time.
A wide circle of dating will allow them to easily get a pass-ticket or bonus tickets to an interesting event.
Behavior in love
Relationship with a man Gemini is light and pleasant for the one that is similar to them in spirit and way of life, and in a relationship values freedom and independence. However, decency and maximum honesty are also of great importance to him. Such a guy will be impressed by a rather active, self-sufficient girl with an independent character and her own point of view on everything.
Often, Gemini companions suffer from mood swings. A nice and sociable man could suddenly become distant and cold the next day. It may not even be a girl. However, they are incapable of staying in a bad mood for a long time and, especially, withdrawing themselves.
It is easy to touch a twin man with inappropriate comments or ridicule. They usually do not forgive offenses and seek to avoid a society of caustic tongues of women. In this windy man there is something of a peacock: he appreciates and loves skillful compliments. It is important that your admiration be sincere and not turn into flattery. You can praise the mind of Gemini or their ability to successfully organize joint rest. In response, you will also receive a lot of pleasant words.
Usually at the beginning of a relationship, such guys overestimate girls, giving them all possible possible positive qualities.
They sincerely admire their choice. The difficulty is that to replace the ardent love as quickly comes disappointment in the partner and cooling.
What is he married?
Twins husband - not the best option for a quiet family life. Even after settling down and acquiring offspring, such a man is not likely to calm down. This does not mean that he will change, but rather seek ease and rest for the soul from the family routine on the side.
Such a man is practically useless in everyday life. Responsibilities around the house tire him. It is necessary to remind several times even of what is really important to do. At the stage of falling in love, Gemini will even be able to donate his time and spend part of the weekend for joint cleaning. However, one should not be surprised if his ardor quickly diminishes, and in twenty minutes you will find him for a more pleasant experience.
Caring for children is also not included in Gemini’s plans. They prefer to shift all the minor and serious concerns of raising children to his wife. A spouse can sometimes spend time with grown children and even take them with them to an adult company. However, to watch them at a party in this case will have to either the welcoming owners, or again his wife.
But with such a husband do not get bored. Sad evenings in front of the TV, boring rare sex and familiar scolding while watching football - this is not about them. You will spend evenings whenever possible outside the house.
If it is difficult to realize, then he will go to have fun without you, without feeling any guilt at all.
Compatibility
Gemini fit a very small number of women. Bearing the glory of Lovelace, he is often limited to rare, fleeting connections. Only a few zodiac signs will be able to really interest and make a harmonious tandem with such an anemone for a long time. The rest should work well on their weaknesses in order to become really necessary for this bright representative of the strong half of humanity.
- Aries woman may have excellent chances of conquering this man. Aries also appreciate noisy companies and talk about everything in the world, they like to constantly move from one place to another in search of news and emotions. This will be decisive in the initial phase of the relationship. A common idea or a business project can also combine them. Together, these companions can move mountains and achieve great success. Disagreements can begin when Aries wants to translate relationships into a more serious channel than infrequent meetings and social chatter. She will not accept a supporting role and will want evidence of affection. The twin was accustomed to exchanging himself for too many less important things, his attention would simply be missed. However, if desired, the couple will be able to find a common language and agree.
- Taurus woman may be suitable for the age-old stagnant Gemini. If he is tired of a succession of alternating empty faces and noisy companies, such a companion will be able to give him the opportunity to enjoy a comfortable stay in a cozy family nest.If they meet at a rather immature age, they can only build a short-lived relationship on the patience of Taurus. Their thinking and life values are too different. A girl who loves quiet home evenings cannot constantly force herself to run after the guy Gemini around the parties. And he will not tolerate jealousy and attempts to tie him to the house, because there is still so much new and interesting outside of him. Life is too short to lock itself in four walls, even with your beloved.
- Female twins could be the perfect option for a family union. She is just as smart, flirtatious, sociable, loves various companies and does not like to sit still. For such a pair of good relations are free, where partners do not limit each other, or guest marriage. They meet two or three times a week to have a great time and make love, and in the morning they go about their business, spending evenings with their many friends or pursuing their favorite hobbies. But not everything is so simple, because over time even close friends settle down and make families, the club circle of interests thins out. Not everyone is ready after thirty to continue to sit after midnight with the tireless Twins. The stumbling block could be the appearance of children in the family. After all, for a man, most likely, nothing will change. But the active wife will be forced to completely change the usual life and sit in the four walls. At this stage, such alliances, as a rule, are destroyed. It would be more correct to involve a Gemini man in caring for posterity. Over time, he may become involved, and he will like it.
- Cancer woman Often becomes the companion of the impermanent mark for life. Such a pair is often puzzled by the absolute opposite of everyone in it. Most often, the marriage is kept on the patience and forgiveness of the woman of Cancer. She is so much in love with her secular, interesting and attractive husband that she is ready for anything, just to be able to be close. Such a spouse will patiently take care of all the household chores, including nailing. After all, such annoying misunderstandings should not distract the husband from the great pans. Mutually beneficial interests may also bind spouses. At the same time, everyone living under the same roof will still rotate in the world of their own interests.
- Female lion easily be able to win a Gemini due to its natural grace, intelligence, love to be in society, diverse interests and elegant appearance. He will be attracted by the external independence of the Lioness and her manner of dealing with people - free and a little condescending. At first, they can even become wonderful friends in the same company, because both of them like to ironicize other people's shortcomings. However, neither he nor she will be allowed to laugh at himself. The boat of love in this alliance can break the jealousy of a Gemini man to a more successful, financially independent and purposeful girlfriend. In order to maintain relationships, a woman Leo will have to become wiser and not flaunt her success. Achievements can be praised in another circle, and at home to show a soft feline side.
- Virgo woman Absolutely different from Gemini, a more disharmonious relationship is difficult to imagine. She will be annoyed by the inconstancy and frivolity of a man, because, in her opinion, it is impossible to rely on anything and, in general, it is difficult to predict the mood vector of the Gemini. A moderate in everything, a correct and responsible woman will not be able to constantly play the role of a mummy for this reckless youth. She also wants care and a solid male shoulder, which you can, without doubt, rely on. She is too smart and determined to wallow in household life, carrying all the duties of the house on her. Her companion with a constant desire for freedom will often experience lightning and jealousy flashes. Such a clash of characters will bring nothing good to relationships.
- Woman scales may be a suitable candidate for the role of wife for Gemini. She loves traveling and easily finds topics for communication. It may be affectionate, but unobtrusive, sometimes moving away from the satellite and giving such a respite he needs to be able to get bored again. The only problem in their relationship may be the amorousness of a Gemini man and his penchant for flirting with other women. May concern Libra and the irresponsibility of her husband and too easy attitude to money. If the Gemini really appreciates his spouse, he will be able to correct these features of his character. Then their union can survive for many years.
- Scorpion woman will be able to give a man a vibrant relationship and an unforgettable novel. A twin will not be bored with such a passionate and interesting lady. They have many points of contact, but there is one serious point, which reduces all success in the relationship to nothing. This is the extreme jealousy of Scorpio, which will constantly be fueled by the behavior of a male Gemini. He will not be able to constantly make excuses and prove his loyalty. Moreover, by nature, he can not belong to the same lady. Scorpion, most likely, will not be able to close his eyes on the ease of relations with women, so it is precisely the inconstancy of Gemini that will lead to the end of a relationship, perhaps quite stormy, with scandal and smashing dishes after the next adventures of a man.
- Female archer Gemini will become just a soulmate: they are both optimists, merry fellows, entertainers, lovers, it is interesting to spend time and opponents of the routine in all its possible manifestations. They can combine a common hobby or work in related fields. Partners equally strive for freedom and can even live without a stamp in their passport for many years. They decide to marry only for very serious circumstances, such as, for example, the birth of a child. In this pair may be treason, but it can not greatly affect their union. They are too good together to part because of minute weakness. Like no other, Gemini man can understand the woman of Sagittarius. An important rule in their relationship: instead of an emotional clarification of relationships, use constructive dialogue. Then many problems and insults can be avoided.
- Capricorn Woman it will be difficult to even get acquainted with Gemini. She is too absorbed in work and does not like to waste precious time on idle chatter and uninteresting "parties." She has specific goals in life and material interests. A twin cannot tolerate any manifestation of materialism or materialism in people, attachment to convenience or things. To be in comfort is good, but it must be carefully and consistently created by someone else’s hands. Capricorn will soon get tired of playing the role of a mentor and mentor who is trying to rationalize a restless man. It is easier for her to find a partner with similar views, which will immediately solve a lot of mutual problems. However, with great love, such relationships have a chance to exist, if Capricorn is less picky to the partner, and the Gemini man at least outwardly shows readiness to become a little more serious.
- Aquarius woman Perfect Gemini. They have similar ideas about how relationships should be built: from hanging out to sharing responsibility. No one will be bored in their home, and they themselves may be infrequent visitors to their own homes. Love for the new and the unusual, travel and adventure, can make them not live at home for six months. Such a pair can come together for work, such as two guides or the captain of the aircraft and the stewardess. These are absolutely equal partners who give each other complete freedom and do not require anything from their other half. If they have feelings, the relationship will develop fairly quickly and be able to go into something serious, even marriage for life.
- Woman fish unpredictable and mysterious, like the dark bowels of the ocean. It is impossible to assume with absolute precision how her relationship with a representative of this zodiac sign will develop. As far as Gemini is an extrovert, Pisces are often introverted. They find it difficult to talk about their experiences and let someone into their deep inner world. At first, Gemini attracts such mystery and understatement in a woman. However, later he will see a certain detachment of the beloved, her touchiness and the striving of thinking inward. After all, the Twin needs constant contact and admiration! It will be difficult for them to find a common language and come to a mutually mutually resolving the issues that torment them. As long as the Fish suffer and wait in silence, such a man will just quietly slip away from the difficult relationships.
Tips
There are no universal recipes for creating harmonious relations with Gemini. They are too many-sided and unpredictable. Each girl herself can more easily understand what her chosen one needs.
However, some things are better known about relationships with a Gemini man in order to avoid initial misunderstandings and unpleasant surprises.
How to win?
To win such a smart and charming man is the easiest way to independent and direct behavior and a lively mind. An optimist appreciates excellent companions more than frankly erotic ladies. His sensuality is not in the first place. Although in the intimate life, he loves diversity and experiments within the limits of what is permitted. To seduce for one night to a pleasant woman is quite simple, but to really attract real interest to yourself is difficult. If the goal was such, of course, an attractive man with a complex character, to conquer it will require a lot of work on yourself.
To charm a man born under the constellation of Gemini, you can play with him. The man gossip will appreciate the subtle intrigue in relationships and intellectual traps. After spending the evening with him, you should not wait for the satellite to start yawning. Suddenly leave first, ending a date at the most interesting place. Curious Gemini can be interested in and hinting at some mystery or intrigue known only to you. This must be really important and worthwhile information, otherwise the man will be disappointed and once and for all will lose confidence in the schemer and cheater.
Conquer his heart will be able to comprehensively developed, easy to lift, interesting and popular girl. It must meet its many requests: good, but not defiant; have a developed sense of humor; like his friends; do not demand much and give full freedom.
How to hold?
To keep such a non-permanent representative of the stronger sex is not at all possible. Therefore, women who love constant attention to themselves should not waste their nerves on the hero-lover. He will be in constant search of adventure. This does not always mean physical contact and treason. So much the worse for his constant companion, because another woman will be able to hook her intellect and light character much more than just a gorgeous fatal beauty.
You should not take tricks to hold a Gemini man. The wise pet of Mercury will understand such actions and will try to escape without further explanation. But some detachment can play in favor. With a long enough relationship, if you spend together every day, it is useful to completely disappear from his life. The twin will be unusually surprised and confused and extremely happy about the same sudden return. Moreover, it is satisfied with rather vague explanations about the sudden absence in his life. It is important not to overdo it and not to leave too long, otherwise it may again get carried away by suddenly turned up interesting girl.
Regarding the Gemini, the law is more correctly applied to anyone: in order to keep a man, you need to let him go.In this case, of course, you should observe a middle ground.
Otherwise, he may perceive your absence in his affairs and life as indifference and, in turn, will lose interest in such a person.
How to return?
Return Twins, if they part, is difficult. You can make up after a while. To do this, let your man cool down and not show his eyes for a while. Good indirect ways to try again to spark interest. He does not need to know that you are suffering. It is better to demonstrate that everything is in order in your life, but your loved one is in very short supply. You can occasionally mention this common acquaintance. Perhaps if the reasons for the gap were not too serious, your Gemini man will be bored and decide to return.
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