Etiquette rules for men

Etiquette for men - these are certain rules that the best representatives of the stronger sex, gentlemen, are guided by. Previously, in relation to the lady, speech and manners, it was possible to determine the representative of the nobility. These rules were considered mandatory for all those who entered or sought to enter high society, since ethics played a very important role.

At the present time, everything is different: men no longer consider the rules of behavior important, but in vain. Manners and looks are a “calling card” that represents you to those around you: people perceive other people as they serve.

Eau de toilette or eau de cologne is an indicator of the taste of the representative of the stronger sex. This is a very important part of the image of a man who takes care of himself. The choice of toilet water, cologne, deodorant, lotion for shaving should be approached as seriously as possible:

• Aromatic remedies for the representatives of the stronger sex are very different. It is also worth noting that some modern manufacturers began to specialize in the production of perfumes for men.
• When selecting hygienic and perfumery products, it is necessary to take into account that odors must be properly combined. Gamma aromas should be one.
• Mixing different perfumes and odors is not recommended, but many men still do it: for example, using shaving lotion first and then toilet water or cologne. If you are used to doing so, it is worth picking up fragrances that belong to the same perfume line.

• The same perfume can be selected a maximum of twice a week. Do not add flavor during the event (for the fair sex this rule does not apply).
• At home you should not use toilet water or eau de cologne before eating and cooking.
• Use aromatic means in the heat should be as careful as possible: in the summer it is usually enough just deodorant. As for the dense and woolen things that are commonly used in the cold - it should be borne in mind that they absorb very well the aromas from perfumery and the smell of tobacco. Such combinations are considered by many to be quite repulsive.

The wardrobe of the modern representative of the stronger sex is most often different. An important role is played by the harmony of appearance, and not a butterfly and tail coat. Every detail of the image should be carefully thought out (especially if the costume is a classic). The fact that you prefer a free style in clothes does not mean that the image should not be harmonious.

The use of jewelry and cumbersome jewelry etiquette for men is not welcome. Some men think that it is possible to demonstrate to others around their status or wealth, but usually their reaction in the end turns out to be quite the opposite.

Shoes are a very important part of the wardrobe. The main rule: shoes or shoes should be clean. Not only women pay attention to how the shoes of the stronger sex look.

Varnished shoes can be worn only in certain cases.Suede or matte leather is more suitable for meetings with business partners and dates.

In business, a certain hierarchy is always taken into account: in this area, differences between the sexes are slightly blurred. At the door and at the entrance to the elevator you need to skip the head forward. Regardless of whether it is a lady or a man. As for the greeting: subordinates should greet first.

A business person must have business cards. If you are communicating with a potential partner, it will be much more substantial and more appropriate to give him a business card than to look for paper in order to write down the phone number.

Business meetings need to be prepared in advance. It is recommended to take care of the compilation of a small questionnaire: you can maintain your business reputation, save time (the interlocutor and your own).

When communicating with a business partner should behave benevolently. You can use a handshake (regardless of whether you communicate with a man or a woman). Express possible agreement with a light nod.

The choice of clothing suitable for the restaurant depends on the level of the establishment, the persons with whom you go there, the reason for the visit:

1. If you are going on a date, you can wear a regular classic suit (in this case, it is allowed to do without a tie).
2. If we are talking about a gala banquet, you will need to prepare a tuxedo or evening dress.

The restaurant should be aware of the basic rules relating to cutlery:

• Do not lift a dropped napkin or appliance. Returning the woman the object that she dropped, the man only shows that he does not know about the rules. You need to call the waiter and ask him for a new napkin or other device.
• You can not use toothpicks in the restaurant, even if they are on the table.

A new guest should be greeted (and one should stand up). Greet with another man should handshake. If the fair sex came, you should help her sit down, pushing for this chair.

When dealing with ladies, a gentleman should remember the main rules:

• In society, it is accepted that the lady should go on the right side. It turns out that a man should strive to go to her left. To the right of the ladies, only the representatives of the stronger sex, connected with the military sphere, walk: in this way they can salute.
• If the lady slipped or stumbled, support her by the elbow. However, only she can decide whether to take your arm.
• Do not smoke in the presence of the fair sex until she resolves.
• At the exit and entrance to open the door to the woman. A man must pass the lady forward.
• It is necessary to secure a woman, going down the stairs or going up.
• At the exit from the elevator, the gentleman passes the fair sex forward, but comes in first.
• A man should leave the car first. Then you will need to go around the car and open the door to help the lady get out. If both the woman and the man are passengers, they should be in the back seat. First a lady should get settled, then her companion sits down.

• A gentleman should help a lady take off her outerwear, as well as serve it when a woman leaves the premises.
• If the fair sex is, you should not sit down (including in public transport).
• To meet with a woman should not be late. We must try to come in advance, because the lateness of a man can put her in an unpleasant position. If an unforeseen situation arises, you will need to warn about it and apologize.
• Ladies need help carrying large bags, heavy objects.Usually this does not apply to light fur coats, handbags.
• In male companies should avoid frank talk about women.
• During the conversation, the representative of the stronger sex should not keep his hands in his pockets, fold them on his chest.

If you want to meet a lady in a public place (in a shop, on the street), remember that this is permissible, but only if you have a good reason for such a step. Few women like the senseless “pick-up”: this behavior is usually offensive for girls.

Do not call the woman, do not pull her by the sleeve. Before you speak, you need to ask for permission. Tell us why you want communication. The compliment, said to the place, will also help to make a good impression, but it should be borne in mind that it should not be associated with vulgarity.

Even if you want to know everything about a strange girl at once, you do not need to start with a question regarding her marital status. Offer the lady to hold her a little, try to engage in easy and relaxed conversation. If a woman does not want to give a phone number, ask if she has a desire to communicate in another way - for example, through social networks.

It is a lot of rules of a good tone, but it is necessary to remember that naturalness also plays an important role. Do not strain yourself trying to comply with ethical standards of behavior: behave as freely as possible. So you can endear people. It may seem to someone that the rules of good tone and naturalness are incompatible, but this is not so. You just need to remember them, learn how to use them, and then everything will turn out by itself.

For more on the rules of male etiquette, see the following video.