30 years of marriage: what is the wedding and how to celebrate the anniversary?

Each year, the spouses lived together, has a certain name, signs and customs. What is the name of the thirty-year anniversary of marriage? What is customary to give spouses on the anniversary? How her thirty years of marriage are celebrated, and what to give to the newlyweds, you will learn in this article.

During the long years of marriage, the couple experienced a lot in marriage: they learned to appreciate and understand each other, to forgive small weaknesses and big weaknesses, they ate together more than one pound of salt. Approaching this date, matrimonial life grew stronger day by day, overcoming the challenges of destiny, and love, like pearls, became stronger and more beautiful. The children have already grown up, perhaps they themselves became parents, and the "newlyweds" have the opportunity to pay attention and show a reverent attitude towards each other.

Thirty years of marriage together is called a pearl wedding. This is a special day not only for newlyweds, but also for close relatives, children and grandchildren. Pearls are often identified with white color, but there are many shades, each of which has its own special meaning:

• white It means virgin purity, purity, loyalty to a loved one;
• pink - Future plans, support and care;
• blue - hopes and dreams, dreams that have come true, and those that are destined to come true;
• green - health, energy, inextricable link with nature, family harmony;
• Orange - vitality, breathing deeply, the realization of all hopes;
• Gray - years that lived, and those that are destined to live together;
• red - true love, understanding and intimacy;

• bronze - loyalty and devotion to each other;
• golden - family values ​​and traditions;
• brown - the tenderness and warmth of relations between spouses;
• the black - life path, which is destined to pass.

Not every relationship stands the test of time. Most of them are broken on the coastal cliffs of domestic turmoil, material problems and showdown. Only sincerely loving people maintain mutual understanding for many years, and then, after years, there is a great opportunity to celebrate the 30th anniversary of living together. Repeat the marriage ceremony, pronounce the oaths of loyalty and seal the first toast to the solemn "Bitter" kiss. Each family chooses its own way, according to family traditions and material wealth.

Each anniversary of family life has its own name, corresponding traditions and ceremonies. Following folk beliefs, special rituals are held on the day of the pearl wedding, which will help preserve the warmth of relationships, mutual understanding and harmony in the family.

One of the most famous rituals is marked by throwing pearls into running water. Before dawn, spouses must go to the nearest river or stream and throw one pearl into the mirror smooth surface, uttering the words of an ancient conspiracy. The meaning of such actions is to attract love and well-being to the family for another half a century. Exactly as long as the noble pearl lives. Upon returning home, the couple approached the icon, recited a prayer to the Most Holy Mother of God and asked forgiveness of each other for past offenses.

There is another famous Orthodox tradition that came to us from our wise ancestors. In the evening, on the eve of the pearl anniversary or the morning service, it is customary to go to church to put up three candles. The first candle is put to the Virgin Mary with a prayer for the preservation of the family, the second is to Jesus Christ with gratitude for a long family life. The third candle is placed on the Holy Trinity with the request for protection and health. Of particular importance is such a tradition for a couple crowned in accordance with the Orthodox rite. It is believed that she protects spouses from illness, trouble, gives wisdom and patience.

Another tradition has pagan roots. It is believed that during this ritual, parental wisdom is passed on to the next generation. He looks more like a wedding contest, but with a certain admonition. For the ceremony will need a few coins, a pen, a small ribbon and a saucer. The saucer is placed on the floor a few meters from the pair, and their legs are loosely tied with a rope. The task of the pair is to reach the saucer. But before that you need to get a coin in the saucer. Coins from a saucer are collected in cloth or paper with pre-written wishes, and stored as a family amulet.

Modern European traditions brought their zest to the celebration of the thirtieth anniversary of marriage. After the first toast, in the glasses of champagne, throw one pearl and drink to the bottom. Pre-prepared vows of love will hold the ceremony together. Then from this pearl make jewelry and wear as a symbol of loyalty between the spouses.

The celebration begins with the presentation of gifts, congratulations and pleasant surprises. You can arrange a joint viewing videos or family photos. In this case, the couple will share family traditions, funny stories and pleasant moments, which for three decades have accumulated an infinite number.

Gifts from children should stand out against the background of other surprises and show sincere attention to parents, thanks for giving a life, appreciation for helping to raise grandchildren. Children can prepare stories about family trips and the first parent meeting. Sharing memories of how my mother was called to school or her reaction that she would soon become a grandmother.

Traditionally, pastel colors or light shades should prevail in the clothing of the heroes of the occasion. The groom's clothes should have elements of rich pearl tones: a cream scarf, a white shirt, an ivory-colored jacket.

For women fit gentle turquoise, pink, blue shades. A newly-made bride can wear a satin dress, decorate it with a scattering of pearls or beads.

On the thirty-year anniversary of family life, it is customary to invite children, grandchildren, close friends and relatives. Celebration of this level is celebrated in a restaurant, cafe, in the country or in nature. It is very good if there is a river, stream or lake nearby. This will serve as a reason for celebratory ceremonies: you can throw coins into the water for wealth and well-being.

Each of the guests at the festival will want to say warm words, to make a toast, to participate in the competition. To each of the moments of celebration remained in the memory, invite a professional presenter. If a large number of small children are planned for the holiday, it is advisable to invite an animator. And then the little pranksters will not get bored, but will be involved in contests and entertainment.

Many couples adhere to modern trends: they throw a champagne glass over a pearl, drink it “on brotherhood” and break it behind their backs.The apogee will be a gentle kiss, in which the invited guests count to thirty.

If it is not customary in your family to celebrate holiday dates in a big way, then you can do it among close relatives. A few hours spent in a warm family atmosphere will certainly bring a lot of positive emotions for the anniversary participants, their children, parents and grandchildren.

In such a company you can spend time in the home kitchen, looking at family photos, videos or children's drawings. You can go overnight to the country, go fishing or just walk around the park as a family. The main thing is a family, good-natured atmosphere.

Choosing design for the holiday, you must take into account the preferences of both heroes of the occasion. If the maritime theme is close to the newlyweds, then you can rent a yacht or decorate the hall in the best maritime traditions. Active modern spouses can offer a party in the style of "Pirates of the Caribbean" with strange fish, vases in the style of sea animals and luxurious shells.

For three decades spent together, the spouses have accumulated a lot of memorable photographs, videos, objects. Having collected an impressive collection, you can equip a peculiar corner of lovers, decorate with balloons, flowers, and add an album for guests. In the album, guests can leave their best wishes, congratulations in verse and prose.

Garlands of balloons with pearlescent glitter - a great decoration for the holiday. They can be placed at the front door or decorate them with an arch, near which to place the table of the anniversary.

Recently, decorations with paper pompons have joined the fashion trends of holidays, and flowers of gentle tones are appropriate at any celebration. Fresh cut flowers can be simply arranged in vases or made with candles and flowers.

Drapery chairs with ribbons and cloth in pastel colors will complement the image of the room and create a certain style and color.

If the celebration takes place at home, then you can give magic with the help of LED ribbons or garlands, and glasses of the newly-weds decorate with artificial pearls.

It is desirable to arrange a festive table in the style of sea elements. You can decorate with white, pink, blue satin tablecloths. In the middle of the table, you can set a composition of flowers, candles, shells, decorate it with various ribbons, beads, artificial algae. The symbol of marital happiness will be a pearl tree, which is set on the table of the anniversary.

When choosing dishes for a pearl wedding, you must start from the venue of the banquet and the preferences of the hosts. Attention should be paid to the children's menu if there are small children on the guest list.

In the case when the celebration is planned at home, in the country or in nature, you can restrict the buffet. In any case, it is recommended to include in the list:

• dishes of sea and river fish: fish steaks, shashlik of sturgeon or rapanov, fish pate, stuffed pike, aspic fish;
• seafood salads: Caesar salad with shrimps, cocktail salads with octopus, mussels, rapana and seaweed;
• fish pies, pies, baskets with fish pate;
• rolls, sushi and other seafood dishes;
• desserts with a scattering of pearls of different shades, symbolic figure “30”, figures of the bride and groom.

Wedding cake is an essential decoration of each event, it is decorated in the form of a sea shell, decorated with starfish, filled with glaze of light colors.And of course, the symbol of the evening will be cutting the festive cake.

Holiday Cake Ideas:

• cake in the form of two shell valves with two pearls inside;
• cupcakes decorated with hearts and a loose confectionery pearl;
• dessert in the form of a large mirror pearl;
• can be depicted on the cake seashore with starfish;
• the traditional “Golden Fish” with a pearl in its mouth will be the decoration of any holiday.

Long since pearls are considered a symbol of fertility, good luck and wealth. His magical properties are known: he is able to protect against bad weather, poverty, and a raging word. Therefore, pearl jewelry also acquires a sacred meaning, become generic talismans, passed down from generation to generation, symbolizing well-being and loyalty.

The thirtieth anniversary of family life is one of the most important anniversaries. It is believed that over the years they lived together, the spouses built strong relationships, proved their loyalty, learned to listen and hear each other. Of course, this did not happen immediately, I had to go through hardships, misunderstanding, separation, but all the problems were solved thanks to patience, a sense of humor and the ability to forgive each other’s small weaknesses. And now it's time to show your loved one a sincere attitude, and present a gift in honor of the anniversary of their life together. It is believed that a gift for a pearl wedding should coincide with the theme of the event.

A bouquet of your favorite flowers from your spouse with words of gratitude and congratulations will be the opening of a festive evening. Then you can make pre-prepared speeches, toasts or poems. This will be an emotional moment and touches the guests.

Jewelry is considered a traditional gift for a spouse. Jewelery with pearls will not suit a rare woman, they are considered classics of jewelry art, they conquer with their grace and tenderness. From time immemorial, they have been called "tears of the sea", and traditionally presented to the spouse as thanks for their years together.

Among the variety of jewelry in jewelry stores you can choose:

• pearl earrings; white or yellow gold ring;
• gold or silver bracelets with a scattering of pearls;
• hairpins, mounts or comb for hair;
• pearl brooches inlaid with precious stones.

Long since pearls are used as a decor on clothes and footwear. It will look original bag or case for the phone with embroidered white or pink beads.

For her husband, a gift made by hand. This can be a photo album with family photos. It needs to be decorated in a marine style, decorated with pearl beads, sequins, flowers from ribbons, painted using decoupage technique.

You can order a family portrait from a professional artist or purchase a painting by numbers depicting the heroes of the occasion. A good solution would be to make a film showing the main events of the couple, with musical accompaniment from the favorite songs of the spouses.

A classic gift for a husband will be a clip for a tie or cufflinks with pearls, but make sure that they fit under the clothes, then the spouse will wear them with pleasure. Accessory for the car is a perfect gift for any man, especially if it was presented by the beloved spouse in honor of the anniversary of family life.

A gift for the thirtieth anniversary of living together to parents does not require certain conventions. When choosing a surprise, you can focus on:

• tickets to the theater, cinema, concert of your favorite artist, circus show;
• certificates in a massage salon or beauty salon;
• interior items, paintings, vases, kitchen sets;
• collectible drinks.

Choosing a gift for parents, it is necessary to build on their preferences. If they are lovers of travel or holiday cottage, then there will be no problems with the choice of a surprise. Difficulties may arise if you do not know what kind of reaction your close people will have after receiving the gift. Then you need to choose neutral gifts made with your own hands. This may be a candlestick, a collage of family photos, cutting videos. Children can make a musical surprise, sing a favorite song of grandparents, paint a plate or a pair of glasses with their own hands.

A joint photo session at the celebration of the anniversary will cause a lot of positive emotions. You can capture the touching moments among friends and relatives. This will attract the attention of guests, bring variety, and make the evening unforgettable. If the venue allows, you can:

• take a picture on the background of the number "30";
• lay out the figures of flowers, garlands, toys;
• write on the river bank a symbolic date or the names of lovers;
• write on the helium balloons the names of the heroes of the day, and after the first toast and pronouncing the conjugal oath to launch them into the sky;
• take pictures in the clothes of the Renaissance or disguised as pirates.

The original photo will look, where the spouses are holding photos from previous anniversaries.

Not every couple, by their 30th anniversary, is able to maintain mutual understanding, to preserve love and original feelings. But if the spouses celebrate this date, it means that they were able to withstand all the trials with honor and deserve to celebrate a long-awaited event on a grand scale. Having passed such a long way, you can be sure - this is the beginning of a new stage of mutual love.

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