32 years of marriage: what kind of wedding is it and how is celebration celebrated?

32 years of marriage together is a serious date. Spouses in full tried out their oaths "in joy and in grief," and can share their family life experiences with others. It is great if the family celebrates each date, but on the whole it is customary to organize a big holiday on anniversaries: 5 years, 10 years, and so on. The article describes in detail the name of such a wedding, which celebration is better to arrange and that it is recommended to give to your loved one on this day.

It seems that the thirtieth anniversary was just recently celebrated and after the fortieth, but another one has crept in between - 32 years married since the wedding day. In the people it is accepted to call this term - a copper wedding. It seems strange that there is copper between the silver, pearl and golden anniversary. In fact, our ancestors greatly appreciated this material for its properties. For example, copper is valued much higher than tin, while tin anniversary also exists.

The name "copper" symbolizes the strength of marriage and at the same time flexibility in relationships. After all, it is these characteristics of this material. The anniversary is celebrated in order to hint that conjugal life is reliable and durable. We must not forget to work on relationships always. In this way, after 32 years together, the husband and the wife should be able to negotiate, be more flexible in questions and seek compromises.

Another explanation. Copper symbolizes healing properties and beautiful appearance. Even in ancient times it was used for treatment, and now it can be found as part of many medical preparations.

Every nominal anniversary emphasizes certain traditions and ceremonies. To carry them out or not is a matter for everyone’s discretion. In general, the 32nd anniversary is not the date on which it is customary to hold a magnificent reception. It is enough to celebrate the event in the circle of close people, some couples prefer to devote such a day to each other.

Perhaps the first rule, try to make this day romantic for yourself and your soul mate. Romance exists after 32 years of marriage. To forget about the holiday, to quarrel and be offended at each other is not worth it. According to belief, quarrels on this day will lead to conflict relations for the whole year.

Our ancestors, who put the family at the forefront, conducted a series of ceremonies that have survived to our days. Some ceremonies are quite simple and pleasant to perform.

1. The symbol of the copper anniversary, as you already understood, is copper. Previously, they gave jewelry made of copper. Now the copper elements can serve as decorative items or cutlery. For example, figurines, vases or items in the design of the table. If you buy jewelry, you can safely wear it on this day, and copper is often used in buttons or other accessories on clothes.
2. In ancient times, husband and wife gave each other copper coins as a symbol of family well-being and financial prosperity.
3. On the door it is recommended to hang a copper horseshoe with the arms upwards. Usually, the shoe brings good luck to the house.
4. You can adopt the tradition of other nationalities. For example, the French give each other rings and hearts made of copper wire. They are worn with real wedding rings until the end of the ceremony. It adds to the tenderness of the holiday.
5. Another, already modern tradition, is associated with memorable places for the couple. All day you can walk around the city and make a kind of excursion into the history of the family. A great option to tell the children how and where their parents met.

When the event is decided to celebrate, then you need to resolve the issue with the gift. The easiest option is to give your wife or husband, then what is really the need. These can be any items; you should know that there is a need for such a gift. Anniversary is a good excuse to fulfill the dream of the second half. If there is no specifics, then you should not choose everyday options, the gift should be memorable.

For women, choosing a gift is easier.

• You can hand the jewelry with the addition of copper. It must be selected to taste in special stores or made to order.
• Individual household item. For example, your wife is a coffee lover. Why not present a good coffee machine or a beautiful Turk?
• It is worth choosing a new perfume for the woman he loves. Today there are services that allow you to collect a bouquet of smells yourself, thus, show your warm attitude.
• Flowers - a nice gift with and without reason. Choose a perennial plant in a pot, so that it is long pleasing to the eye.

For the male half, there are also a few ideas.

• An accessory that emphasizes status is suitable for a businessman. These items include: glasses, cigarette case, business card holder, expensive cigarette lighter, watch or belt. It is best to buy such things with individual design and engraving.
• If the husband is a connoisseur of alcohol, it will never be superfluous to replenish his collection with a bottle of high-end wine or whiskey.
• Gadgets for repair, fishing or hunting. This decision will be relevant if your other half has long wanted some expensive "toy", but denied herself that.

The issue of gifts can be a problem not only for husband and wife, but also for invited guests. First you need to understand that the gift is meant for the couple as a whole. Choosing something that will be interesting to both.

First, you can beat the symbolism of the anniversary and present something copper. It can be samovars, a set of dishes or a beautiful set of cutlery, large mugs, identical decorations, boxes and other decorative elements. Of course, it is better if the host family likes such ideas, and they will find use for the gift. Very often you can find unique gifts in a single copy in the hand-made stores in your city.

You can not get attached to the copper theme and donate a book, a painting, a music record and much more. Here, man is limited only by fantasy.

You can try to fulfill the dream of a married couple and send them on a trip, or write down for a joint dance workshop, for example. Such an offer is worth making to all invited friends and donating tickets for a cruise together.

If you know a couple for a long time, a self-made greeting will evoke a storm of emotions. These can be: a newspaper, poems, video, a song or an album with photos and a slideshow. Usually, such gifts cause very warm feelings, even tears are remembered for a long time. The whole year the family will be able to watch videos, for example, to add new episodes.

Another gift is to arrange the celebration itself. Often, people do not want to celebrate the date or even forget about the copper anniversary.In this case, you can make a surprise holiday, having spared the time and nerves of the heroes of the occasion. Of course, you need to try to find out the wishes of the husband and wife and bring them to life. The task is not easy, but the result is worth it.

When buying a gift you need to remember that its value is not important. The attention and your attitude to the heroes of the occasion matters. Do not try to solve this question more quickly. Think about what this family really needs, husband and wife, and present it. Even if it is something insignificant, the fulfillment of desire is priceless.

The 32nd anniversary of the time span is not far from 30 and 35 years. By the way, their name is pearl and coral, respectively. In the world, it is often customary to celebrate anniversaries on a large scale, so the copper anniversary usually does not get celebrations on a grand scale. This is not a reason to abandon them if there is a desire. There are 3 main directions for the development of the holiday of the 32nd anniversary.

• Arrange a day for two. Beloved person is pleased to hear the warm words of love and gratitude in his address, as well as get breakfast in bed. In the evening, you can quietly and family celebrate the anniversary, having a romantic dinner just for you. If you decide to devote all day to each other, then you need to go to the spa, entertainment center or go further and give each other an anniversary trip. This holiday will be remembered for a long time.

• Absolutely opposite option - a magnificent holiday. Because of its uniqueness, this anniversary can be a good occasion to make a second wedding, not everyone manages to walk on the same wedding 2 times. Children will be happy when they see their parents' wedding. The interior is better to decorate with copper elements, as a symbolism of the event. Be sure to have a cake on the holiday table, so that all life in the future was sweet. So that the guests did not miss during the celebration, you need to come up with various funny contests. Sometimes, for example, people borrow wedding contests and compare their current answers with the past. Such a holiday will certainly leave a mark in my memory, I want to repeat it every anniversary.

• Last but not the worst option - celebration only with the closest people. These could be relatives, children, and, for example, witnesses who were at your wedding in their youth. The celebration will be filled with memories, there will be a warm, cozy atmosphere. The room where the event will take place must be decorated with balloons. You can hang on the wall photos of spouses and family members. Humorous greetings in the form of a wall newspaper or large cards can be placed between the balloons. On the table should be your favorite dishes and drinks. Be sure to pick up a festive tablecloth and put flowers in vases.
• Family picnic - A good solution for such a case. You can spend the day with adult children and friends. The table should be set on the river bank or on a beautiful lawn. Fruit vegetables and kebabs will become its decoration. The celebration held in the fresh air, will be remembered by all those present. Songs performed to the accompaniment of a guitar will be a gift to spouses.
• Another tip, do not spare money and spend money on the photographer. Capture this day in photos or video for vivid memories.

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