14 years together are a term worthy of respect. Indeed, in this case, marriage, indeed, can be called strong and unshakable. How nice it is to celebrate such a significant time in the company of beloved relatives and friends, accepting congratulations and gifts from them!
Why precisely agate
14 years is an important date in the life of each couple. Let it not so many years, but for marriage it is a significant indicator. He testifies that these years the spouses shared all the joys and sorrows, ups and downs, happy and difficult moments. For such a long period of jointly spent time, they managed to study each other well, to adjust their life, life found stability. For this reason, the fourteenth anniversary of marriage is called the agate wedding, because agate is a semi-precious stone, symbolizing well-being, health, stability and happiness. The colors of the veins in agate have white and dark shades, so clearly describing the joyful and difficult moments in the life of each pair.
Having overcome the difficulties of life, the couple can go on to meet the new happy years. Since agate is rich in diversity and an infinite number of patterns, spouses can enjoy infinitely long studying each other. This stone guarantees the prosperity and well-being of the family couple, therefore, as a rule, it is customary to give gifts from agate so that it becomes a talisman and guardian of the family.
In most families, the celebration is celebrated in the circle of relatives and friends who come with valuable gifts, so it is very important to take care of their choice in advance.
Gift options
It is necessary not only to expect gifts from guests in honor of the holiday, but also the spouses themselves must surprise each other with something interesting. The wife and husband should make a choice in favor of a gift associated with agate, so that the gift was symbolic.
The list of gifts to his wife is quite varied, including:
- a ring with a stone that will not only decorate the wife’s hand, but will also constantly remind you of this happy day;
- original earrings will give joyful emotions to its owner;
- a pendant or a pendant is a great step towards elevating the mood to your soulmate, and together with a chain will be an excellent option;
- the brooch will be perfectly combined with any clothes;
- luxurious necklace will be a stronghold of love and strength of marriage, because it is collected from pieces of the main symbol of the celebration;
- bracelet will be a great addition to other jewelry spouses;
- jewelry box is necessary for any jewelry and costume jewelery owner;
- A hairpin is also useful for a woman with long hair.
When choosing a gift from agate, one should pay attention to the wife’s color preferences, so that the present is not easily kept on the shelf, and decorates its owner, bringing her great pleasure. Given the variety of colors and textures of agate, the choice will be easy.
The selected item should be beautifully packaged, because women are very sensitive to the gift packaging.
If you pick up anything from agate for a man, the list will be reduced. You can choose the following gifts:
- cufflinks that are sure to attract attention (if possible, you can order handmade jewelry, then they will be stylish and unique);
- a ring with a stone will please any man, but it is better to choose a ring with black agate, since it will protect the man and become his talisman;
- tie clip is a stylish accessory, especially in addition to agate cufflinks;
- bracelet, the choice of which should be preferred dark shades;
- stand for pens of agate;
- amulet - in his selection should also pay attention to the color.
Such gifts can be exchanged husband and wife. It is worth paying attention to the options that friends and relatives of the couple need in order to make the holiday a success. In this case, there is no need to give objects containing stone. The main criterion for selection should be utility.
So, the choices are:
- bed linen will be an indispensable gift and will please the couple;
- tablecloth - a necessary accessory of the holiday table, the hostess will be pleased;
- dishes are a very useful gift, especially for couples who often like to gather relatives and friends at the table;
- household appliances are a perfect gift for a married couple, but it would be better to ask the spouses about the missing items of household appliances in advance, this will help avoid failures when choosing;
- cushions with couples;
- a trip for two;
- certificate for a photo session;
- certificate for dinner in a restaurant with an unusual menu that matches the taste preferences of the couple;
- photo album, consisting of the most important moments of the couple's life;
- pair warm socks - also romantic option for fans of similar gifts;
- figurines;
- tree of happiness;
- clock, matching the style of the apartment pair interior.
Agate wedding: traditions
There is a belief: for the subsequent joint life of spouses to be even happier and brighter, they need to perform several rituals. These ceremonies must be performed in the presence of relatives, who will also gather information from this event.
In order to attract health, happiness and luck, the husband and wife must perform the following actions after the guests distribute gifts:
- give each other gifts (according to tradition, jewelry is considered the best option);
- you must immediately try on the jewelry, while the husband and wife should help each other;
- drink the same drink from one glass;
- study the pattern on agate and tell the guests about it, ideally spouses should see the same thing.
This list can be supplemented with other traditions developed by different couples in different families. The older the heroes of the day, the more interesting traditions they have to observe. Well, if these rites pass from generation to generation.
Guests at the festival
In order for the event to be very fun and enjoyable, a couple needs to gather a circle of guests from their closest relatives and friends. It is not necessary to call a lot of people, on this day there should be those with whom the family most often communicates and maintains relationships, because these people will be sincerely happy for their spouses. They spent 14 years side by side with a couple, they know about many joyful and sad moments that the family went through and was able to overcome all difficulties for the sake of love. How much fun the celebration of fourteen years of marriage between spouses will take, how beautiful and happy their whole future life will be.
Celebrating the anniversary celebration is another way to “dilute” everyday life, invite a lot of guests and please each other with attention and presence. After all, the secret of a long, happy and strong relationship is that loving people constantly charge each other with positive emotions.
14 years old: a festive evening
What will be the festive evening of the heroes of the occasion, it is up to the spouses themselves. It can be bright, cheerful, filled with guests and decorated with balloons and confetti day, accompanied by noisy music, endless dances and funny guests jokes. It is possible that the couple will want to be alone on this day in order to fully enjoy each other's company.If the first option takes place, the couple needs to take care of the cultural and entertainment program for the guests in advance so that they feel comfortable and cozy, and also have fun. The event must be captured in the memory of everyone for a long time. Having prepared music, games and jokes in advance, the spouses are guaranteed to receive a charge of positive emotions and sensations, they will amuse the guests.
On this day, with happiness and warmth, not only the husband and wife, but also all the guests who will also witness this unforgettable event should be overwhelmed. It is necessary to prepare in advance spiritual, sincere toasts, which will also raise the spirits of all those present. If someone reads verses on the subject of an agate wedding, it will be a great addition to toasts and congratulations. How many tears of joy spill on a touching holiday!
When a couple prefers to retire and not to make a magnificent celebration with the participation of relatives and friends, she will have a great celebration together at a romantic dinner, having booked a table in your favorite restaurant. Revise photo albums, remember the past, feel nostalgia about the past years - this is romance! Ahead of the family are waiting for the same unforgettable feelings and emotions, so it's time to outline and outline future plans. The best solution for the continuation of joint life will be the analysis of the mistakes made, which can be avoided in the future.
It is very pleasant to spend time with grown-up children, who will also share the celebration of this significant date with their parents. In this case, you can arrange a celebration for the whole big family and get out with the children in an exciting place where you have long wanted to go. Why not embody the most courageous desires and not to please the younger generation on such a festive day?
An agate wedding is a small part of a long, happy marriage, in which there will be many more important, unforgettable, touching moments. It is important for the spouses to give each other kindness, tenderness and love, then the family will boldly overcome all life difficulties and obstacles.
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