What to give for 11 years of marriage together after the wedding?
Creating a family should be approached responsibly, building it on love, mutual understanding and respect. Having common goals and trusting each other, you can get a strong and prosperous union. A steel wedding anniversary is an indicator of well-being. And let 11 years is not a round date, everyone who has crossed this temporary boundary of a joint life aspires to celebrate it. After a decade of marriage there are many reasons for pride and celebration.
Therefore, it is worth to gather a family at the big table and celebrate the steel wedding as it should be. You can build new plans, enjoy these achievements, give each other attention and pleasant surprises.
What is the name of the anniversary?
Steel wedding 11 anniversary of the legal marriage was called for the fact that this metal is able to reflect all the blows. Bullets and cold weapons are cast from it. For so many years the family union has gained strength steel. He as a sword can hit anyone who attempts to violate its integrity. This is a steel shield covering from all adversity, a scalpel that removes painful splinters from a relationship, a needle stitching wounds.
Date 11 years of living together fanned by ancient and modern traditions. It is useful to get acquainted with them both to those who have just got married, and to those who are preparing to step over the ten-year mark in legal ties. One of the Vedic rituals dictates a couple on a steel anniversary with the rising of the sun to go to the natural source and bathe in it. Returning to his dwelling, they will hoist a metal horseshoe on the front door. It is imperative to act together. Husband hammer nails, which gives him a wife.
Stabbing nails symbolic, it means the bond relationship. It is believed that the performed ceremony will protect the family from adversity.
Modern tradition looks more like a sign. On the table you need to put a vase with eleven roses. If they stay the same number of days, the family will live happily in the future. Husband need to try when choosing a bouquet, because it will depend on the prospect of marriage. Another sign - to see in the number of guests a couple who lived in a successful marriage longer than the heroes of the occasion. Those wishes that say a happy couple to the owners will surely come true.
Variants of gifts to his wife and husband
On the eve of the solemn event, the couple is worried about gifts for each other. This is no less important part of preparing for the holiday than drawing up the menu and the list of invited guests. The anniversary gift is not just a tribute to tradition, but an expression of gratitude to one's half for sharing joys and difficulties. A gift from husband to wife is a separate topic for discussion. Favorite man is free to wish himself something special as a gift from his woman. Usually in a couple it happens - the spouses share their desires and try to please in their performance. If the husband wants to get a surprise, you should cook it.
First of all, steel is associated with cold weapons. Therefore, the spouse can give a collection knife or sword. He can proudly place the gift on the wall in the office as a reminder that his wife considers the pious defender of the family hearth. However, for a peace-loving woman, presenting such a gift may be unacceptable. In this case, you should pay attention to the more peaceful areas of life, choosing one of the following:
- steel model proprietary pen for writing;
- a set of cigarette cases, lighters and ashtrays;
- steel-knit umbrella;
- watches with steel bracelet;
- thermos for hot drinks;
- flask for strong drinks;
- stylish key chain;
- glasses in a frame from steel;
- clip for banknotes;
- car accessories with steel case;
- a walking mug engraved with metal;
- the tools necessary in life, or a set for a car.
Any item of use or decoration (accessories, electronics, etc.) made using steel can serve as a gift to her husband. A bicycle, a scooter, an electric scooter - all this will appeal to an active young man and bring a variety to his leisure. A lover of books can be presented with a desk or floor lamp, a fisherman with tackles, a masterful man with adjustable wrenches, and a car enthusiast a canister of steel. There are many options, you need to select the most suitable one, taking into account the interests of the faithful.
It is difficult to congratulate my wife in accordance with the symbols of the anniversary, but you can move away from stereotypes by fulfilling her long-standing desire. If this is not known, choose something pleasant:
- a gift in the form of a pierogue for pointing marafet;
- favorite flavor in large volume;
- a set of jewelry with 11 stones;
- certificate for 11 beauty treatments;
- romantic vacation trip;
- horseback riding in a cart or on horseback;
- automobile race in a cabriolet with a “breeze” along a country road;
- dinner by candlelight or by the fireplace in a secluded house by the pond;
- a balloon flight.
Women live emotions, to surprise them is not so difficult. And the pleasant moments are a reliable contribution to the family treasury of valuables. Give your favorite pleasure, and she will certainly reciprocate.
What give friends?
When it comes to gifts from friends for the wife and husband, they are best done paired or shared, so that they can use the thing both equally. There are several particularly successful options that should be noted.
- Portrait of spouses on canvas, imitating an oil painting. For this you need a photo of them, but you probably will find this with family friends.
- A set of crystal glasses, so that the spouses have more reasons to celebrate joyful events with sparkling wine. Crystal also subtly hints about the careful attitude to each other.
- A mirror in a beautiful steel frame to reflect the happy smiles of a loving couple.
- Safe for those who have values or the makings of wealth.
- Metal tray with engraved keepsake for romantic breakfasts in bed.
- A set of kitchen utensils with steel shine.
- Chopping boards with funny wishes for spouses for each of the next round date.
- Stand under the umbrellas, so that the corridor was dry and comfortable.
- Household appliances with steel casing (electric kettle, coffee maker, blender, juicer, multi-cooker, etc.).
These are traditional and simple gifts. Wanting to surprise friends with creativity, you will have to try to find something unusual. For example, you can make a box with an engraving "Wedding Dreams". At the time of presenting the gift, invite the spouses to write their dreams on pieces of paper and put them in a box. In a year they will be able to check how successful they have been in fulfilling their cherished goals. The photo album, framed in "steel battens", will be a symbol of 11 years of marriage and will collect the best moments in a year.
Of the most daring presents, you can mark bedding with a pattern of poses from the Kama Sutra, and of the nice ones - bathrobes with a similar design and inscriptions in the spirit of “My One” and “My Precious”. Personalized T-shirts with a photo collage from the family archive, a video about the life of a couple - all this will amuse the heroes of the occasion and create a fun atmosphere at the celebration.
You can also present a mini-safe in the form of a weighty book volume, a housekeeper with a thematic family story, a cartoon for spouses, a frame in the form of a metal tree for photos of all family members. A bouquet with ribbons of steel color or in a mesh imitating metal will be useful. Any surprises are welcome and have the right to translate into reality.
Friends can teach and poems, instructing them to read to someone with an expression. An interesting option - to distribute the line among themselves. Congratulations in poetic form it is possible to replace some toasts.
You have blessings for happiness in full:
The house is bright, sweet wife,
Smart kids grow up,
Friends come to you with joy.
Be a wonderful family
Before the anniversary of the Golden!
***
You how many years ago
Gently look into the eyes
Opposite each other…
Spouse and spouse.
Lad in your family reigns,
And not annoying life.
All your merits.
What else can you say ?!
Bitterly! Stay together
Not one hundred years, but two hundred!
***
We lived together, did not torment,
Babies, they made a house for themselves.
Happiness understood the secret
For 11 years!
Share it with us,
True friends.
Keep your senses fresh
And fast pulse from passion!
***
Flew 11 years
And there are no happier couples!
You managed to keep the hearth
And continue to appreciate and love.
You want one to wish:
The number of babies multiplied by five!
***
Years of birds fly by
And I want to say in connection with this
You simple wish:
Let mutual understanding
Helps you on the go
Happiness to find a lot!
***
Husband wife pour a hundred grams
And wave it out of the glass itself.
In eleven years
For care and love!
Spouses can also prepare for each other the wish lines, choosing the right words or using ready-made rhymes.
I do not get tired of enjoying you,
Over the years, good, like brandy,
I can't breathe with you
As a coveted beauty maniac!
***
In you, beloved spouse,
Found an outlet and a friend
Reliable rear and light in transit
It's easy to raise children with you -
You're the best mother ever
You know how to believe, understand.
I kiss your hands
In the name of dear family!
***
Darling, after so many years
I call you gently ...
You are my light in the window of life
My ocean is boundless good!
***
Don't stop surprising
To protect me from everyday life
From all problems and all adversities.
My love for you is growing!
And all 11 years together
I like the status of the bride.
So good with you near
I do not need anything else!
It is nice to hear the words of wishes from relatives and accept gifts, but in the process of celebrating the 11th anniversary, you can also reciprocate with your friends. Roll up a noisy banquet with music and competitions for guests. Let everyone feel joy and share the celebration with spouses. To think up reciprocal symbolic gifts to your friends will be a very good move from the hosts of the event.
It may be small magnets, made to order. On each, make comic inscriptions about family life or pictures from the everyday life of the married couple. You can use cartoons from the Internet or just make your miniature photo on a magnet with the inscription "11th anniversary". Of course, you can sign a photo more creatively, for example, the phrases “husband and wife are one Satan”, “you and I are equal to the family”, “where he is, and there I am.” Guests will take with them a piece of memories of the celebration, they will be pleased that they have not been forgotten.
What presents should be avoided?
Not all gifts are equally good, even if made from the heart. There are some things that are not very appropriate as gifts for anniversaries and holidays. For example, a husband should not give his wife kitchen utensils for 11 years of marriage. Even if the beloved dreamed of a new pancake pan, there would be another day to present it. On your joint date, cosmetics and travel with a romantic spirit will delight the keeper of the hearth much more.
Underwear and socks for the spouse is also unacceptable to give on the anniversary of the relationship. These are items of daily wear, very intimate things, not suitable for special dates. Even if the linen will show off the original inscription on the type of "my macho", as a pleasant surprise on such a day it will be inappropriate. It is better to leave this gift until February 14, in addition to the main gift. Do not try to give your husband a relaxing massage, better become yourself for the evening a charming masseuse with gentle and dexterous hands.
Friends also should not give spouses underwear or watches. The first will be calculated as an invasion of personal space, the second will hint at the elapsed time or its transience. Books, if unknown preferences of readers, are also not suitable for giving. They will lay down on the shelf to collect dust, and not bring new knowledge to the spouses. Do not give disposable items on meaningful dates.
A pleasant impression is easily spoiled by an awkward congratulation or a bad wish. It is better to read the finished text from the postcard than to wish not to bother each other or not to look left. Know how to fill the holidays with pleasant little things and be generous on a large scale.
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