What to give for 12 years of marriage together after the wedding?

The anniversary of marital relations - one of the main family holidays. Each house is marked in its own way according to traditions, budget and its own wishes. Many do not celebrate solemnly non-circular dates. But the couple do not forget to sit in a quiet family circle or remember the best moments of marriage alone. Twelve years of marriage is worth spending a memorable day. The holiday is good when it is in the shower. And to share their emotions with loved ones or save for two, the heroes of the occasion decide for themselves.

The 12th anniversary of living together is called nickel. In ancient Russia, it was not celebrated exactly twelve years after the wedding, but they waited from the cherished marriage date for another 5 months. But modern traditions reinterpreted this rule in such a way that it was convenient for reference and significant in numbers.

To be able to save a marriage in 12 years is not an easy task, which is far from being achieved by all couples. Only truly loving and wise unions survive all crises and retain the strength and closeness of relationships. Joint years harden feelings and help spouses with the help of each other to get an education teacher, raising children, a psychologist, building relationships, an accountant, distributing a family budget, a builder, building his own house. They are fit to present a diploma on multilateral exposure and jewelry cut marriage.

Nickel distinguishes strength, brilliance and stability. Relations in a close-knit family are inherent in his physical qualities. If the spouses respect and protect each other, the relationship will not fade with time. Without putting them to the test and stress, you can keep the marriage as strong as nickel.

The 12th anniversary of living together has a few more titles with an interesting story. Some nations call it silk. This is explained by the fact that silk is considered a noble and durable material, which is always highly valued and does not know wear. The strength of a silk thread is comparable to wire. So the relationship of the couple during this period can not be broken by negligence. In order to break the harmony in marriage, we need very weighty reasons, which, like a shears, will be able to break the trust and connection between the spouses.

And the inhabitants of the United States twelfth anniversary of the wedding day is called the pearl. Among Americans, it is believed that such a significant date can be compared only with precious pearls. This is the same miracle of nature, available for owning not everyone.

In China, one of the symbols of this wedding anniversary is considered the "king of flowers" - the peony. It symbolizes nobility, love and happiness, promises abundance and reverence. A lush blooming flower attracts good luck, and no less revered in the West. In ancient times, it was used in medicine, and among the Greeks it was treated as a talisman, promising longevity.

However, whatever the name assigned to this date, the number of years lived is worthy of praise and congratulations. The couple have already checked their feelings, their union is strong, the house is cozy, children are growing up and many plans are ahead. But the relationship must continue to follow with the same attention, but they can lose their appearance and inner beauty, having ceased to be precious to both.

A nickel wedding has its own traditions and established rituals, and the peculiarities of the celebration are associated with them. In the old days, spouses celebrating the 12th anniversary of their marriage received dirty dishes from their guests. The hostess had to clean the pans, pots and spoons to shine. If she coped with the task, the family was expecting well-being in relationships and in the house. Lazy wife ritual cleared problems in marriage.

Over the 12 years of marriage, the couple have already acquired niche household items or dishes made of alloys with nickel in the composition. The hostess with such a solid experience should keep them in order, maintaining the brilliance and purity.

Modern hostesses on the eve of a memorable date polish all household utensils from teaspoons to five-liter pans to shine. They sincerely believe that after such cleansing the dishes and the family will face a clean future. In carrying out this task in strong families, wives help their wives. This is not considered a gift to the wife of the faithful. Mutual assistance and support in any business is a guarantee of a happy and long marriage.

This date is usually celebrated not in large companies, but in a close circle of close family of people. The husband and wife go in the morning to places that once became a landmark for them. For example, they visit a church where they were povenchany, a park or a cafe where the first date, the meeting place and the first kiss took place. Often spouses spend a family photo session, starting at the walls of the registrar and ending at home. If a celebration is scheduled for the evening, the spouses can be met with the traditional shedding of coins, promising them well-being in the future. Better get a nickel trifle. It will be very symbolic and beautiful. However, guests are not forbidden to accompany the couple to the places of pleasant memories.

On the festive table must be present cutlery made of nickel silver or with a nickel sheen. You can repeat the marriage ceremony, simulating a trip to the Wedding Palace. A pair of nickel rings, an improvised veil on the bride's head and a flower in the buttonhole of the groom's suit is done. So many pleasant emotions can be experienced again! If there are disagreements and old offenses between wife and husband, it's time to forget about them and start life from a new stage. Unfading love will confirm the kiss of spouses to the cries of “Bitter! "

Husband and wife will not just celebrate the joint date, but also take care of the gifts to each other. It can be not only material values, but also spiritual surprises. For example, you can spend this day together, ending the holiday on an incredible night. The anniversary of 12 years is called silk, that is, the name itself orders to purchase new silk underwear for the family bed and try it on the fortress.

Fragrant flowers and candles, quiet romantic music is all that is needed to create a special atmosphere. Feel free to try something new, open up to each other from unknown sides. There is a chance that this very night will change life for the better, marking the beginning of a new happy phase.

Her husband traditionally presents flowers as a gift to his wife. The most relevant for this anniversary, of course, are peonies. Air bouquet looks very elegant and symbolic. It is worth knowing what the shade of a peony means and make up your original bouquet with overtones:

• pink speaks of respect for the family and promises material well-being;
• red expresses love, passion and devotion to the senses;
• purple is a symbol of protection and constancy;
• white is the color of stability, sincerity and tender affection;
• yellow - harmony and harmony in relationships.

If the wife likes to grow flowers, peony seeds will come in handy. But tools for gardening should not be presented as a gift on such a significant day. It is better to hint your beloved about care otherwise. For example, by presenting a subscription to a beauty salon or inviting you to dinner at your favorite restaurant. Going on a trip on the weekend - also a great option for a festive pastime.

Not less benefit will bring a joint walk through the park on horseback, a trip to an amusement park, where the swings and merry-go-rounds will let you forget all adult problems for a while and relax your soul. Two movie tickets for a touching melodrama followed by a visit to a cafe with ice cream and dessert will sweeten the celebration. You can experiment as you want, because on this holiday only the spouses decide how to spend the day.

The husband also should not feel deprived of attention and surprises. Men's nickel products strike the imagination with different variations. Choose something special for your life partner is not difficult. The most traditional gifts are trivial, but enjoyable:

• ring with nickel-plated sheen;
• Melchior tea cup stand;
• brilliant flask with an inscription;
• T-shirt with recognition of the best qualities of a loved one;
• frame for sharing photos with the finished general photo in the center;
• Named metal mug for hiking and hot drinks;
• coffee thermos on the road;
• briefcase or comfortable backpack;
• fashionable accessories;
• modern gadgets.

True true friends will never forget to send family congratulations and gifts on such an event date. Original poems may well pass for a gift, if you present them beautifully and solemnly. Perhaps they will be so appropriate that they will be the most memorable gift of this day. You can even beat the most banal gift in verse:

Giving you this set

Chur, you shouldn't beat him.

Only tea in it needs to be drunk,

Marriage your folded to appreciate!

***

I present you a portrait.

Let him hang for many years

In your bedroom on the wall,

Recalling me!

From myself I give glasses,

So much more became

You have reasons to note

The best events together!

***

Let the candlestick this marvelous

Do not stand idle for a long time.

Better use actively

For a family of development sensibly ...

Let as in the candlestick candle

It will be hot all the time

Your mutual love!

Give tenderness again and again

With each other without a trace.

Without “Bitter! , Only sweet.

***

Take to memory

Wall Clock,

But do not count

Minutes for love.

We give you a coffee machine,

In the morning themselves

Delicious coffee served

Straight into a warm bed

And everyone was jealous!

Do not interfere with the family and something from small household appliances, furnishings, beautiful plaid, tablecloth on the table or souvenirs for decor. From traditional things as gifts you can list:

• a set of cutlery from nickel silver;
• silk clothes (bathrobes, bed linen);
• nickel plated pans

You can reconcile a gift with relatives and throw off something global that the family dreams of. For example, give them vouchers for holidays in a good overseas resort. Or a home theater for sharing movies. And also the general gift will be good - a new bedroom set or a dinner group from a table and chairs.

Children also usually contribute to the process of congratulations.Of course, they do not earn money yet, but they are quite capable of saving out of pocket money or doing something with their own hands. Very touching look cards with the decor of silk ribbons. And also parents will be touched by a self-made flower vase, a poster with words of wishes. Older children can bake a simple pie or make salads. You can pamper your parents with breakfast or hang balls with numbers 12 everywhere. What is done from the heart is always valued above all.

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