What to give for 21 wedding anniversary?

Family life fills our everyday life with the warmth of loved ones, various concerns, moments of happiness and many more interesting things. Time flies by. Only the tenth anniversary was celebrated, then the twentieth anniversary, they did not have time to blink, and not a round, but no less important date — 21 years from the date of the wedding — was on the nose. A large number of interesting facts and traditions are associated with this date.

Being married for 21 years is a lot of work, because during this time the couple is experiencing a lot of wonderful moments, and not bringing special joy. It was opal, being a durable natural material, became a symbol of this date. Primary, this stone carries a negative energy, which can bring discord in family relationships. However, under appropriate conditions, it can become a fastening component in the family, make the spouses more indulgent to each other, so that in quarrels they can quickly come to a compromise.

Most often, after the twenty-year anniversary of living together, which is usually celebrated magnificently and loudly, opal wedding is preferred to be celebrated in close family circle with the closest relatives and friends. Give while they like something small, but memorable.

Almost everyone wonders why it was opal that became the symbol of this anniversary, because by its nature it does not love man. According to beliefs, he brings only sickness and trouble. But in family life, he bears a completely different thing - firmness of intentions, transparency of thoughts, empathy. This is exactly what is happening in the family of people who have been together for 21 years: the spouses are hard in their relationship, do not hide anything from each other, and in difficult moments support each other in every way.

It was said in beliefs that only falling into the hands of people who sincerely love each other, this mineral changes its negative orientation to the opposite. In principle, it can also happen in life: the relationship will either become even stronger or completely disappear. They say that it is for 21 days that the transformation of an ordinary stone into a precious one takes place. The same thing happens with love, which in 21 years from love turns into a strong family bond.

Many interesting traditions are associated with this date. "Newlyweds", celebrating twenty-one years of marriage, should definitely buy this gem. On the day of the celebration, the opal should be wiped with a handkerchief of white color, which should be dipped in vegetable oil: this washes away all the negative energy from the stone. It is believed that by the opal wedding, each spouse must get what he wanted, regardless of the cost. Even if the purchase is very expensive (jewelry, car), it will become a symbol of strong relationships in everyday life.

In order for happiness not to leave the house, you need to wear something with opal (earrings, ring, pendant) for yourself during the day or put a small piece of stone in your clothes pocket.

Twenty-one years of the wedding comes after a bright porcelain jubilee, on which it is customary to collect many friends and relatives. Opal wedding - a good reason to spend time with your soulmate.

• Restaurant or cafe. This option is the most popular, but not as interesting as the rest. However, any woman even occasionally wants to “walk” her most beautiful clothes and high-heeled shoes that cannot be worn every day. Why not do it on such a momentous day as the 21st anniversary.

• Joint training. Today, the so-called pair master classes, in which lovers or just friends can create something interesting through joint efforts, are rapidly gaining their popularity (it all depends on the direction). This may be the creation of any crafts, cooking a delicious dish or just a dance workshop. In any case, only positive memories will definitely remain of such a pastime.
• Home comfort. Since most of the family time is spent in the same four walls, many simply do not consider such an option to spend a festive day. And in vain, after all, a quiet family evening can be supplemented with appetizing dishes and tasty drinks, as well as pleasant music and soft light of aroma candles, after which you can review your home video archive or just enjoy a good movie.

• A little ride. One of the most interesting gift options for both husband and wife, and vice versa, is a joint journey. If the financial side allows, it can be a rest for two abroad, a tour of Europe, or just a trip to the country. Whatever it was, such a gift will be remembered for a long time. The main thing is to prepare in advance: buy tickets, take a weekend at work.

• Walk on the nature. If the street is not minus 25, then this option is no less interesting among the rest, and most importantly - it is budget. Spouses can either go to nature on a barbecue, or just go to the park and admire the surrounding nature, taking with them a basket with food and a blanket.
• Theater. In the infinite daily bustle of people rarely think about their spiritual enrichment. Therefore, such an event as a wedding anniversary is an excellent occasion to attend a mass cultural event, and even together. Depending on preferences, this can be a visit to a theatrical performance, or an opera or ballet performance. Under any circumstances, you must familiarize yourself with the repertoire and purchase tickets.

Such a significant event as an opal wedding, in any case, is not without gifts. And most often, the presentation of gifts is not limited to spouses who congratulate each other. Everyone understands that children and family friends will not be able to ignore such an event.

For children, such an event as the anniversary of the parents' wedding is no less important than for themselves. Everyone wants to teach his family not just a trinket, but a truly memorable thing. For example, you can:

• make a collage of family photos in chronological order, starting with the joint photos of the parents, where they are still very young;

• Recreate the time of marriage to the parents with the help of a script that can be both developed by yourself and found ready on the Internet;
• arrange dinner for two in a cozy restaurant, pre-booked a table and pay for it, you can still additionally order musicians who only brighten up the evening.

Those who are not supporters of creative gifts can consider even simpler options that will suit not only children, but also family friends:

• decoration with opal for each spouse: paired rings, earrings - for the spouse, cufflinks - for the spouse;
• tickets for a cultural event: a ballet or opera performance, a concert of symphonic music, an exhibition;
• photo album filled with family photos;
• a bottle of aged wine;

• set of expensive bed linen;
• anything from electrical engineering;
• set of high-quality dishes.

Husband wife can present:

• jewelry with a precious stone, in this case with opal;
• gorgeous bouquet of flowers;

• handmade chocolate products;
• certificate in SPA;
• going to a restaurant;
• set related to the passion spouse.

A wife can give a husband:

• cufflinks with opal inserts;

• a set associated with the passion of a loved one;
• a good set of tools;
• grill;

• any sports equipment.

In any case, whatever gift was chosen, the main thing on this day is the attention that should be given to each other. This day will be spent outdoors, in a restaurant or with a family - it does not matter, the main thing is unforgettable memories that will remain with the spouses throughout their family life.

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