Who statistically changes more often: men or women?

In society, men’s treason are more often discussed, their details are relieved, and sometimes a man is exposed as a real hero, while female adultery is not the most popular topic for discussion. A woman who has betrayed her husband is condemned by society, and these facts themselves rarely become national wealth. And therefore the question arises involuntarily - who changes partners more often: men or women?

Do not think that the traitors are mostly men. Women also do not remain in debt. This is the conclusion reached by the experts of the Daily Telegraph, who have refuted all the facts of statistics. They published their own data obtained through a large-scale anonymous poll. Their results showed that 2 out of 5 women ever cheated on their husbands or elects, while only 3 out of 10 men decided on adultery.

About half of the women who, on condition of anonymity, confessed to treason, said that this would happen at a party in the club. A quarter admitted that they had (have) an affair with a work colleague, a third admitted that attention signs from outsiders lead them into an inspired and playful mood, and 10% of unfaithful wives said that this is their life principle, which is that life is not worth spending on monogamy.

Previously, it was believed that women who are self-sufficient, working and wealthy are changing. But the latest data from sociologists suggest that female treason does not know such a thing as security or social status - housewives change no less than a business woman. Up to 90% of traitors admitted that having sex on the side helps them get rid of negative emotional overstrain.

What women are prone to treason her husband.

The lady, marrying, had her ideas about a man, built her expectations and illusions. Family life has put everything in its place, and the husband was not so prince, as it seemed in the registry office. A woman who considers herself to be deceived is subconsciously ready to replace her partner. However, she does not always seek to destroy the marriage, because the husband can be very convenient and comfortable for a life together.

If feelings for the spouse are lost, and the courage to break off the relationship is not enough, or there are other reasons to remain married, the need for tenderness, love experiences, disclosing one's sexuality is still there. In this case, adultery often becomes a salvation for the female psyche, and often it all ends in a stormy romance on the side and the collapse of the existing marriage.

Especially if their level of education is higher than that of their partner. Sooner or later, there is a split in such a pair - there is nothing to talk about. A woman seeks personal growth, and her less educated partner only laughs at her, does not approve of her aspirations. A lover who will support personal growth and development becomes not so much a sexual partner as a true friend. Sex is attached to such adultery on secondary grounds.

A woman whose every hour of time is not scheduled has more time for dating (including on the Internet) to flirt on the side.

The first ones are still too frivolous, the second ones are already wise enough and took a little from each of the previous points - they were educated, disappointed, a bit bored of the routine and moderately tired.

These are, as a rule, women who have seen how a mother changes partners, justifying her friends, who easily get involved in and change men, as well as women who have had a rich sexual experience before marriage.

Women go to adultery, usually not even for sex. They want to be welcome, loved, want to be admired, not getting it in the family. They want trembling and passionate feelings, rich emotional experience, understanding, communication, they want to catch every word of them, appreciate them.

Men are polygamous by nature. That is why to demand that only one woman dream of a man and dream of reality is not worth it in principle. However, there is not only a natural desire to have a large number of women, but also education, religion, principles, personal character traits. And they are the limiting factor. Psychologists distinguish several main types of men who do not have so much influence of external factors, and therefore they have the most betrayal.

Externally, a man is like a man, but in his heart he remains an eternal child, at best, as a teenager. He is keen on games, not averse to devoting his free time to friends, he often goes in for extreme sports and has a rather respectful attitude towards his wife - like his mother. The more the wife, given the infantilism of her spouse, puts bans, the more this thirty-year or forty-year-old “teenager” rebels and is not averse to finding a girlfriend on interests on the side. But such men are not in a hurry to break up the marriage.

This category includes men for 40 years who got married quite early and did not have time to experience all the pleasures of life before marriage. By the age of 40, there comes an understanding that if not now, then hardly ever. They sincerely believe that the wife is not going anywhere, and therefore easy flirting on the side is quite acceptable. He does not dedicate his wife to secrets - protects her and her nerves.

Such a man has only one real passion - the passion of adventure. He does not know how to live peacefully and measuredly, he definitely needs to find an adventure and tickle the nerves. His motto is “Not a day without adrenaline!” He may be a good husband, but family life quickly bothers, it becomes fresh for him. Treason needs him as a cure for boredom. With all this, he is not looking for easy ways and often gets very risky novels - for example, with a friend of his wife or his friend's wife, so that it is more dangerous and exciting.

Such men give birth to a wife in order to officially show everyone - he is the owner, the winner, but he does not in any way depend on his spouse. Moreover, it is his property, and therefore such men, with new victories on the love front, do not hide this from their friends and do not even disguise themselves before their legitimate wife. In principle, they do not see anything wrong with their behavior. But betrayal by the spouses will never accept and will not be tolerated.

Typically, the marriage of such a man has long existed only by habit or coincidence. Passion and love is not, the wife is not desirable. But divorce is troublesome, and sometimes unprofitable both for him and for his wife. Therefore, people live, but to call it a family is very difficult. Such a man brightens the bleakness of gray everyday life with an adulteur. A man may not even have one mistress, he does not feel guilty before his wife, and therefore does not hide much, his wife guesses much, but prefers to remain silent.

Such men are tormented by doubts.The wife is good, but suddenly there are better women on the side? He checks, searches, but he is too cowardly to declare it as his right, and therefore he lies and gets out. In his heart he hopes that his wife will not stand one day and will go away herself.

Such men are usually married to very authoritarian and powerful women, who even manage to make sex a tool for managing their spouse - they still need to be earned. Treason for them only the satisfaction of their sexual desires, relaxation. They usually do not leave the family.

The statistics of infidelity in Russia are rather curious, and it may interest both the representatives of the stronger sex and the beautiful ladies:

• about 62% of men who change wives, prefer to meet on the side with married women, only 10% of men who are married, risk starting a relationship with single girls;
• women's betrayals are more permanent - up to 45% of women in marriage have a constant lover and are not inclined to change him for another, and only 19% of men who cheat can boast the same consistency;
• up to 75% of men and up to 24% of women systematically change their wives and husbands, or at least once changed them;
• dissatisfaction with sex life causes divorce in 9% of men and 13% of women;
• the desire to experience new acute feelings is inherent in 14% of men and 7% of women;
• true new love - 7% of men and more than 25% of women;

• increase their self-esteem, the desire to assert themselves - 14% of men and only 4% of women;
• long separation, forced separate living causes infidelity 12% of men and 8% of women;
• from boredom and routine to new relationships, 3% of men and 7% of women “run away”;
• accidental betrayal is obtained (under the influence of alcohol, at a party, corporate party, etc.) in 14% of men and 7% of women;
• treason in retaliation to the wrong partner - mostly female reaction: this is what 11% of women and only 0.5% of men do;
• most often 30% of men and almost as many women change with work colleagues;
• at the resort, women are more likely to change - this is how 34% of traffickers answered, while only 19% of men allowed themselves adultery on vacation;
• with neighbors and family friends, he changes up to 10% of women and about 5% of men.

If you rely on statistics, then men change more often, but girls also do not stand aside. Are capable of treason all, because the circumstances that can push this can be very different.

It is also important that the couple invests in the concept of treason. From the point of view of psychologists, there is no corporal or moral treason - no halftones. From the moment when one of the partners allows himself to think about a possible relationship with someone on the side, he is already becoming a traitor. And such thoughts even in happy marriages may occur to partners. This does not mean that they rush to change. Do not forget about personal experience, the nature of the person, his upbringing and beliefs.

But in families where understanding prevails, mutual aid, trust, where spouses have common interests and know how to communicate with each other on any topic, betrayals occur much less frequently. Everything is important - the quantity and quality of sex, the presence of common children, common hobbies, the way to spend joint weekends, family traditions and small signs of attention to each other.

For information on why we are being changed, who are more likely to be men or women, how to forgive, see the next video.