The union of Aries - a sign of Fire, and Libra, obeying the air element - an interesting combination in which the riot of flame is fueled by the energy of the air. These signs are opposite in the zodiac circle, which causes them to strive towards each other.
Characteristic
A distinctive feature of Aries is a pronounced internal core. Such people know exactly what they want and control their own destiny themselves, not allowing others to interfere in making important decisions on matters of principle. They are open and true. They are waiting for a similar reaction from the rest, and, not waiting for it, often remain disappointed.
Among other pronounced qualities of Aries:
- high interest in life;
- kindness;
- propensity for impulsive actions and disputes;
- trust in others;
- idealization of people;
- the ability to act unselfishly.
The disadvantages of the sign include the non-obligation and sometimes the tendency to quit started in half. It’s not surprising if Aries forgets to return the borrowed money or scandal at the most unexpected moment.
At the same time, those surrounding this zodiac sign are favorably and forgive minor behavior deficiencies.
In contrast to Aries, Libra is distinguished by tranquility and a desire for balance.
Among other signs of the zodiac, this one is different:
- unwillingness to make decisions quickly, which is often perceived as laziness;
- good temper;
- the ability to appreciate the elegant and subtle;
- softness;
- diplomacy in relationships;
- the ability to objectively assess the situation.
A special feature of Libra is the desire to avoid negative emotions, which is why in difficult situations Libra’s people are ready to sacrifice their interests, but only until their fundamental interests are affected. In such a situation, they can show character and even show vengefulness and selfishness.
Pros and cons of union
The union of Aries men and women born under the sign of Libra can be called a win-win version of the pair. Fiery Aries is unlikely to be able to pass by the balanced lady of Libra, being inspired by her elegance and tenderness. Given his intelligibility and ability to achieve reciprocity in relations, he will insist on maintaining relations with his chosen one.
His perseverance will be very useful here, given the Libra's tendency to hesitate in making important decisions. But having made sure that Aries’s intentions are serious, the Libra girl can appreciate the efforts of the representative of this sign to get close. In addition, the prospect of feeling protected will not be the last argument in the decision to reciprocate Aries with reciprocity.
Such a couple will be able to mutually complement the characters of each other, enjoying mutual trust and not poisoning the relationship with jealousy.
Unions, where the male will of Aries is in harmony with the femininity and pliability of Libra, are strong in their organic nature, and therefore are most often stable.
The downside of such a relationship is the behavior of Aries, which can shock a girl-Libra lack of beauty and even propriety. Aries, in turn, will not listen to comments from a partner on this issue.
If we are talking about a couple where Aries is a woman, and Libra is a man, the woman in a partner invariably captivates his courtesy, and given the conviction of the fire sign that he deserves the best, this quality of Libra becomes cement that keeps such a partnership from falling apart .
The leader in this relationship will be the lady.
Calm, shy, romantic, not loving to shoulder the responsibility for making important decisions for a Libra man, this is fine. Aries is important in this situation not to go too far and not to make decisions, regardless of the interests of the partner.
Otherwise, he will break the union or withdraw into himself, keeping the relationship just for the sake of his own hidden interests.
Scales tend to be cautious and do not share the adventurous inclinations of Aries. And if he, contrary to the requests of Libra, still gets involved in a risky story and suffers a fiasco on this path, he will remember mistakes for a very long time.
How compatible?
Aries and Libra can be connected in life by completely different relationships - from pleasant dating to passionate love. Each such union has its own characteristics related to the characters of the signs.
In friendship
Strong such relationships are sometimes since childhood. Their Libra and Aries can carry through life, understanding each other perfectly. They are not equally annoyed by noisy companies and a wide circle of dating. They can communicate in a joking manner, sometimes playing with each other. Moreover, Libra men have a great deal of imagination in these matters.
Since Aries and Libra are well aware of each other's weaknesses, in a quarrel, they are worthless of each other's moral destruction, but their conflicts do not last long because of their successes and both.
In friendly relations between the representatives of these signs of the zodiac, almost kinship relations are often established that encourage mutual care.
The friendship of the woman of Aries and the man of Libra diversifies the life of both, makes it brighter and juicier. Often in such a relationship, disputes arise because of the directness of Aries, which comes up against the quiet and at the same time unshakable obstinacy of Libra. At the same time Libra can invisibly control the actions of Aries. And this “guerrilla war” does not carry any other tasks, except those aimed at preserving friendship.
Aries man and Libra woman are able to maintain a friendly attitude without any hint of the interaction of opposite sexes. They sincerely care about each other, come to the rescue at the right time without any ulterior motive. These relationships may take the form of patronage on the part of the man and the trust person on the part of the woman. And over the years, this system of interaction is becoming stronger.
In love
In a love relationship, a close acquaintance of the Libra guy and the Aries girl leads to the desired result for both. Lady Aries's fiery passion for a calmer Libra man. At the same time, the women of Libra, with their impeccable taste and elegance, cannot but interest the temperamental Aries. When she first met Aries, it is sometimes enough to use heavy artillery in the form of a fashionable suit and impeccable manners in order to impress the girl Libra and win her heart.
Aries is ruled by Mars, and Libra by Venus.
This is nothing but a combination of masculine and feminine.that hides a storm of passion and promises an unforgettable experience for two lovers as their feelings develop. Relationships in bed with such people do not lose their saturation and can not lose the novelty until old age.
Aries is leading in the affairs of passion, capable of releasing Libra's secretive sensuality to the mutual pleasure of both partners. This suits Libra, not claiming to lead in love fun. Aries should always keep in mind that for weights in such things, the role of the external situation and mental attitude.
Unlike Aries, Libra does not have the same amount of sexual energy. To tune in to a love game, this sign takes time to warm up and start. And then both partners will be on top.
At the same time, Aries should avoid monotony in love joys, otherwise his exploits in bed will no longer make an impression on Libra.
However, if sincere spiritual closeness between lovers is lost, no physical satisfaction will save this union from disintegration.
In family life
Relationships in bed do not guarantee a perfect marriage. Much more important is the relationship in ordinary affairs. In a situation where the husband is Aries, and the wife is Libra, the quick temper of the spouse can be smoothed out by the delicacy in the behavior of the woman. This saves them from fundamental disagreements and frequent quarrels, ensuring a generally quiet family life.
Aries man is able to solve important domestic issues without the participation of his half and ensure a quiet and prosperous life for the spouse and offspring. This state of affairs fully satisfies the woman of Libra, who feels a reliable shoulder and does not forget about the interests of her protector.
Over the years, in intimate terms, Libra's wife ceases to restrain her looseness, and her husband, with his fiery character, becomes more sensitive to the wishes of her partner. This provides the spiritual and physical intimacy necessary to preserve the novelty of the relationship. In this sense, the spouses are self-sufficient.
The society of each other completely satisfies them and they often do not see the point of leading an active life outside the family circle. Although such couples are able to achieve a high position in society. From the side of these marriages look very beautiful and are the envy of friends and relatives.
Compatibility in the marriage of Aries women and Libra men - is another story. Partners are able to find in each other those features that do not possess themselves.
And it can strengthen their family relationships. She will find in her husband a source of balance and peace, and with the wise behavior of his wife, he will not feel on the sidelines.
The community of interests and attitudes is able to make the spouses speak in a united front on the path to achieving the goal. An active, full of ideas woman Aries stimulates a calm and uninitiated spouse Libra to embark on a task more boldly and without hesitation to strive for a goal.
But if from the very beginning she would shoulder the burden of worries for the sake of monetary well-being, putting aside her husband’s opinion on this matter, such a move would not lead to anything good.
After some time, it will seem to her that the spouse has comfortably settled next to her and does not invest the common business as much as she does. This may be the reason for serious disagreements among the reproaches from the wife of Aries. At the same time, it will become very difficult to convince a woman that she herself is the author of this script.
In extreme cases, in such a union, the spouse often has the feeling that she and her husband simply do not match each other. The desire to somehow remedy the situation will lead to outbursts of aggression on her part. Accustomed not to take the initiative spouse if able to calm her friend, then not for long.
Divorce in this case is quite probable. A Libra man can quickly acquire a new companion of life, and a woman will treat the opposite sex with disbelief and it can take a long time to start a family again.
In work
If Aries woman is directly interested in money, then Libra man is the process of earning it.
This can be a good basis for successful business and collaboration.
Aries lady will not be afraid to entrust money to a reasonable partner of the air mark, and he, in turn, will dissuade the initiative business partner from the adventurous plans "without a backup plan."
Aries, who is not able to bring the started business scheme to a logical conclusion, can find support in the person of Libra, who, despite the ability to work in pairs, is able to do everything on his own.
In a relationship where a woman is Aries is the head and a man is Libra a subordinate, the business woman will not take into account the indecision of her employee. She needs a clear, articulated opinion on a particular account.Such peremptory jars on the subject Libra.
Much easier if the strategy and tactics of business is determined by the representative of the air sign. Aries in this case fills the idea with its energy and boldly comes to the realization of the plan.
The only condition for success is that Aries clearly understands the proposed plan of action. Women of Aries, in view of their natural openness, demand clearly stated requirements and are unable to be satisfied with half hints of Libra-chiefs.
Possible reasons for disagreement
As in any couple, Aries and Libra have potential causes for conflict.
In the union where Aries is a man and Libra is a woman, straightness and Aries’s unwillingness to select expressions in disputes becomes a stumbling block. For a wife, this is especially painful if the showdown with someone takes place in public.
Aries is a man with a violent temper, capable of short flashes of aggression, which are quite impressive in their brightness, and often have no ground. Wife Libra blush for the behavior of her husband sooner or later get bored.
The reason for the differences may be taste preferences in such a pair. Libra with their subtle sense of beauty will never acquire a thing in the house that will look inappropriate and ridiculous in it. They will not walk in tasteless clothes, even if it costs a lot of money.
Aries, on the contrary, strive for ostentatious wealth, which often contradicts Libra’s ideas of elegance. The same can be said about the tastes of Aries in clothes.
To solve all these issues do not need any magic. Husband Aries is enough not to go into the issues of creating an environment and trust the choice of Libra in clothes. A woman will independently create a spouse style, and he will look beautiful.
As for the outbursts of anger in Aries, Libra’s wife should understand that they end quickly, and not try to lecture her husband on behavior in society. Moreover, the spouse himself asks for forgiveness for his bad behavior and again becomes his favorite cheerful good-natured person. Exacerbating the relationship with him in connection with the fleeting natural harshness is meaningless, because you still can not change a person.
Both partners need to correctly distribute the spheres of influence in the family, clearly prioritize, and then over the years such a union can only strengthen.
In a pair, where Aries is a woman, and Libra is a man, a hidden opposition can begin from the very beginning of living together or intimate communication between representatives of such zodiac signs.
An authoritarian woman may well begin to put pressure on a delicate and soft-bodied husband. But at this moment his hidden stubbornness will turn on and he will cease to be his wife's assistant, withdrawing into himself and dropping all responsibility from himself.
At the same time, Libra’s husband, who is hard to lift, must be prepared for the fact that his sluggishness and desire to shift matters from day to day will sooner or later infuriate the active wife of Aries. Clarification of the relationship in this case will become commonplace. Mutual teachings, when everyone tries to impose on the partner his own views on the "right behavior", while meaningless.
It is dangerous to transform the family relations of Aries and Libra into those where a woman acts as a boss or a strict mother, and her husband is a subordinate or unreasonable child. Without equality, such a union is doomed.
Aries woman should not dispose of the work of her spouse Libra, selecting for her the most promising, prestigious and highly paid service, which, moreover, will require excessive pressure from the satellite.
The indefatigable energy of the fire sign's companion with her hectic activity may eventually begin to annoy the Libra's spouse. That for him tactful behavior and ease in life, for her - hypocrisy and laziness.At the same time, the excessive pressure of the spouse in wanting to speed things up and get her husband to understand her straightforwardness in looking at certain things is a direct path to conflict.
Life from this only gets worse, because Libra's husband deliberately "turns on the handbrake" and loses all desire to adapt to his wife. His behavior, he seeks to prove his partner Aries, that the delay does not destroy the world around, and rest in comfort will only benefit the spouses.
It is better for Aries and Libra to “come to an agreement” on the bank ”that there is no main and follower in a pair. Do not divide the territory and power in the family. Fill the relationship of Lady Aries and husband Libra happiness can common cause, hobby and joint parenting.
Much will depend on the wisdom of a woman who, while maintaining delicacy and respect for her spouse Libra, will be able to push him to be active in overcoming common problems in the construction of life.
Best of all, if a couple will be bound by strong friendships. This will help to use in the joint life the best qualities of the representatives of these zodiac signs, on which simple human and family happiness can be built.
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