Gifts play an important role in building the right relationship. In order to maintain warm and friendly relations, one should make presents just like that, and a gift from the mother-in-law, chosen with soul, will delight the daughter-in-law, will prepare fertile ground for friendship and respect. Than to please, what gift to present to the future daughter-in-law, we will consider in this article.
To choose a surprise for the birthday of the young wife of his son is easy if you know her hobbies and tastes. Otherwise, it is better to choose gifts that are universal, with no claim to originality, because the preferences and wishes of the young daughter-in-law are still unknown.
What should not be given
Surprises that can stun or frighten a girl will not work. Gold jewelry with diamond, mink coat, car - inappropriate offerings. And also the offered help in repairing the apartment of the future daughter-in-law will not be a very good surprise. As a rule, when the repair is taken by the mother-in-law, she does everything according to her own taste. This is already considered a violation of all personal boundaries of the future daughter-in-law. In no case can one offer such help - it will completely scare away the still failed daughter-in-law.
Public greetings from a hired orchestra or a creative team are also not the best gift from a mother-in-law. You can immediately strike out large household and kitchen appliances from gift offerings.
It is inappropriate to present a gift as a gift if the daughter-in-law is inclined to believe in folk signs. It is believed that they energetically affect the host. Or you need to “pay off” from such gifts with coins, that is, to accept the offering, and to give the donor a certain small amount of small money.
It is undesirable to give and pets. There are several good reasons for this:
- pets instead of joy can bring extra trouble and cash costs;
- with such a gift can only guess the relatives, relatives of the family;
- responsibility for the life of a pet is not to everyone's liking.
Optimal Gift Options
Give a future daughter in law need inexpensive gifts. In any case, like a young girl's son such things:
- soft umbrella - the necessary thing, always useful in the economy;
- road beautician - an indispensable thing to travel;
- jewelry box or miniature figurines for jewelry - they put rings on them, bracelets, chains;
- mascot - charm for home, family;
- bathrobe for a bath;
- towel set for the bathroom;
- hydromassage;
- certificate in the spa;
- coffee, tea, sweets;
- aroma candles - will help not only to create an atmosphere of comfort in the house, but also to have a healing effect on the psyche.
It is reckless to give gift sets related to facial and body skin care. This is individual. The aroma of perfume difficult to guess. Only if the girl herself does not express preferences.
Gift offerings that are versatile and inexpensive can show a good, kind attitude to the future young daughter-in-law.
If a girl has already entered the family, then her needs are easier to learn. The gift in this case is selected in accordance with the tastes of the birthday girl. It is not forbidden to present a bride in the birthday:
- gold jewelry - chain, earrings, ring, bracelet, pendant with a horoscope symbol or icon;
- small household appliances - iron, vacuum cleaner, food processor, multicooker, electric grinder, air humidifier;
- linens;
- if a woman is driving, then you can present car accessories: snow brush, glass rag, flavor in the car;
- beautiful, stylish leather diary, briefcase, business card holder;
- certificate on cosmetic procedures;
- gift basket with a set of tea, coffee, candy, sweets, fruit - this will undoubtedly please the daughter-in-law.
Surprises can be both material and having a spiritual orientation. It can be tickets for a performance, a concert, an evening of rest.
If you plan to donate a young daughter-in-law tickets to the hostel or on a trip to the sea, you should definitely warn in advance, as people may have their own plans. Otherwise, such a surprise can put the daughter in an awkward position.
Delight daughter-in-law set of expensive high-quality dishes. Cutlery, especially silver, is also a necessary thing in the household. According to folk signs, one should not give a set of knives - this can lead to quarrels and troubles in the family.
A nice gift from the mother-in-law will be a bouquet of flowers. But an unusual bouquet, but original. Now there are many flower shops where they will make a wonderful composition from extravagant plants. If you know the preferences of the daughter-in-law, then you can choose flowers taking into account the taste of the relative. A shapeless bouquet of country flowers is not an option for a birthday present.
In addition to the bouquet, you can take a nice postcard and wish health, happiness, love. Write everything by hand, and not choose a postcard where there are ready-made wishes.
If you know the daughter-in-law's hobby, you can give a gift for this activity. It can be:
- embroidery kits:
- knitting accessories;
- sets for decor;
- paints, brushes, canvases;
- sewing machine;
- knitting machine;
- casket for needlework;
- a book corresponding to the daughter-in-law's hobby.
DIY gift
Hand-made things are always original. Keep warm and good energy hands. Such a sign of attention suggests that the birthday girl is dear and loved, and the time and effort spent on the hack only confirms this. If the mother-in-law is an excellent cook, why not present a hand-made dish. Although many girls talk about diets, they love sweets and will be delighted with such a gift as a cake, unusual cookies, fruit baskets, cupcakes.
You can associate a cardigan, a cape, a pullover with the condition of fame of the size of the bride. A good offering will be rugs, original rugs, bedspreads. Mother-in-law, who has a great knitting experience, can tie a beautiful dress for the bride.
This option should be discussed in advance so that the gift does not gather dust in the closet, but becomes a really necessary thing in the birthday girl's wardrobe.
You can also surprise the sister-in-law with embroidery. Now it is fashionable to embroider beads. A picture embroidered with beads will decorate any apartment.
A wonderful surprise for the daughter in law will be customized portrait painted on canvas by a true artist. Such a work of art will bring not only aesthetic pleasure, but also fill the whole house with positive energy.
The modern look of the gift is a cash envelope. This offering is universal and will be enjoyed by any daughter-in-law, as it is sometimes difficult to please the taste and mood of a person.
An expensive gift from the mother-in-law can be the result of generosity, and can be used as a means of manipulation. Accepting an unreasonably expensive offering, you should consider whether it was presented with sincere sympathy or with the aim of putting it in an awkward position and making it obligated to the donor. In any case, you need to know that gifts like "response gestures."
If it is not possible to repay "the same coin", you probably should not accept expensive gifts. This should be boldly and honestly talk to the mother-in-law.
Gifts from the sister-in-law
Brother's sister is sister-in-law, in most cases she has friendly or friendly relations with her daughter-in-law, and therefore she is aware of her tastes and desires. It is easier for Zolovka to pick up a sign of attention to the future daughter-in-law, as they usually are on the “same wavelength”, they know all the new items in perfumery, in creams, in fashion. What should not be given from the mother-in-law, it is allowed to donate from the sister-in-law.
For example, the brother-in-law of the sister-in-law can be given:
- underwear, if the relationship is trusting;
- skin and body care cream;
- hair care kit;
- clothes;
- perfume;
- a certificate for visiting a plastic surgeon, if the sister-in-law herself negotiated this option;
- fashion accessories: beautiful leather belt, clutch, jewelry;
- hats;
- footwear.
The correct gift option is to go shopping with the young sister-in-law, to pick up the really necessary and suitable things for her.
Whatever the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you need to strive better for a worse world than for a good war. To accept the choice of the son, to accept the new person in a family.
The initiative in this case should come from the mother-in-law: small gifts, sincere signs of attention will create favorable conditions for respectful, good relations.
Undoubtedly, the gift from the mother-in-law should be from the heart, presented with joy. What is important, gifts should be accepted with sincere, kind gratitude. Even if the gift did not suit the taste, it is not worth showing, because the donor can be upset more than the birthday boy. In no case can you donate gifts, because it may happen that the gift returns after some time back to the donor, and it will be very ugly. Do not forget that giving surprises is as pleasant as receiving.
If you don’t know what to give to your daughter-in-law as a birthday present, see the selection of original gifts later in the video.
