A friend is a close person, sometimes almost dear, and therefore the question of choosing a gift for her magical New Year holidays becomes quite relevant, because you want to please and surprise your friend and make her a gift that will be useful to her in everyday life. About whether it is possible to combine all this, and what gifts are permissible for girlfriends, will be discussed in this article.
What is not worth giving?
Girlfriends are people we usually know quite well. We know their habits and preferences, tastes and preferences, hobbies and credo. It is difficult for a friend to pick up an inappropriate and indecent gift, given that quite a lot is known about a person, but some succeed. This is how the list of New Year's presents appeared, which should never be presented to girlfriends under any circumstances, of course, if you don’t want to offend a person and ruin a relationship with him.
Firstly, gifts that directly or indirectly may indicate your girlfriend’s faults should be excluded - bathroom scales, a book on dietary nutrition, slimming underwear. Such gifts, even if a woman would like to have them, are offensive. If you really want to bestow a girlfriend corrective underwear or tights, it is better to present a gift certificate in the shop of linen, where the line of such goods is widely represented.
Let a friend get the opportunity to choose such products for herself without getting into an awkward situation and not being embarrassed by your too much participation in her problems with cellulite.
Their same considerations are not worth taking responsibility for the choice of hair dye, perfume or decorative cosmetics, because in these matters the tastes of even very close friends may differ, and significantly.
The New Year is a very symbolic holiday, and therefore it is worth refraining from such gifts as towels and handkerchiefs. The joy of such gifts will be a little, besides, it is considered inappropriate to give people who are not in the circle of your family personal items.
Even if you pick up with great love for a girlfriend a basket of shampoos, shower gels, soap and scrubs, you can not bring her great joy. Such gifts are appropriate from a husband or mother, but in the performance of friends they unwittingly hint at the uncleanliness and untidiness that will give the one who receives the gift a lot of doubts and unpleasant thoughts.
If your girlfriend is a superstitious person and pays attention to signs, you shouldn’t worry her gift of handkerchiefs, watches and wallets. These gifts may be associated with the secret desire for tears, old age and poverty. If a friend needs one of these gifts, it is better to present the cash equivalent of a gift, let him buy a wallet herself.
Definitely not worth giving a gift that a friend will not be in demand. For example, a lady who loves quiet evenings with embroidery or watching TV does not exactly qualify a certificate for parachute jumping, and an active and mobile woman who prefers active leisure and sports are unlikely to wear home slippers or a set to create a long, painstaking from small beads.
It is not recommended to give friends for the New Year:
- money - of course, everyone needs them, but the girlfriend will not feel the joy of the gift and your soul warmth;
- clothes and shoes - you can lose money with color, size, model, and then the gift will not bring joy either;
- animals - even if a person loves everything alive, it is not at all necessary that he can now afford to take responsibility for his pet, even if it’s just a fish or a hamster;
- any items and things that are similar to your own - even if a friend admired your bag or your scarf for a long time, you should not give her the same or similar ones, she is unlikely to use them for the reason that you have the same ones;
- overly expensive gifts - even if you have such financial capabilities, it’s not a fact that a friend will be able to respond with an identical gift, and then you just put her in an awkward position.
The main thing is not to substitute the interests of the girlfriend with your tastes and desires and not to impose your own preferences.
What to consider when choosing?
When choosing a gift to a friend, be sure to consider several factors:
- age - you will get something small and pleasant, memorable for your teenage girlfriend; you can buy something more serious for a friend with whom you have been friends for several decades;
- Hobbies and hobbies are generally the best idea, because getting a gift that does not contradict your hobbies, professional interests and promotes them is always very pleasant;
- the degree of closeness of the relationship - the best friend, beloved and close in spirit and life, you can afford to give more personal, personalized gifts than presents for just a familiar and pleasant woman or girl.
Be sure to take into account the rules of etiquette that do not allow you to cross the boundaries of what is permitted, because a friend, even a very close one, is not a relative, and therefore too intimate gifts will confuse her and cause confusion.
Original ideas
If your girlfriend is a big connoisseur of cool, unusual gifts and creative ideas, do not rush to disappoint her, try to make such an interesting, funny, cool gift that she will remember for a long time. With ideas will help specialty shops unusual gifts. You can use our list.
Backlit slippers - A great gift for those who like to walk around the house at night. Such slippers will become indispensable if you need in the dark, trying not to disturb anyone, to get to the refrigerator. In them, a friend does not stumble and does not step on the small parts from the children's designer.
USB Heated Slippers - This is an option for girls and women, always complaining about the cold. It is enough to connect slippers to a laptop or computer, and a warm pastime is provided to her friend during long winter evenings.
Blanket with sleeves - the most that neither is a winter invention will be a pleasant gift, hinting at your great desire to share with your girlfriend the warmth of your soul. This blanket perfectly warms the winter morning when you need to get up for work or school, and you want to stay under a warm blanket longer.
Beautiful warm scarf with heating - Today there are such new items. Electric shock is completely excluded, since the voltage does not exceed 5V. On winter days, a friend can not only bask in such a scarf on the street, but also wear it indoors as a stole - dimensions allow.
Pillow with your joint photo - it should be small, compact, to decorate the interior room of a friend. Such a gift will always remind her of you not only indirectly, but also directly.
- Original lamp - there is a huge variety of products in the New Year's theme: Christmas tree lamps and snow-covered forest huts, you can choose a funny lamp in accordance with the profession of your girlfriend (for example, a globe night lamp for a geography teacher or a drip lamp for a female health worker's friend) . Pay attention to the projectors.
You can donate a model that simulates a starry sky or a wave of sea waves, or a slide projector, which will automatically project photos onto the ceiling.
- Original and unusual headphones. You can, of course, get by with the usual wireless ones, or you can pick up the winter options - headphones with fluffy ear pads, in which even in cold weather a friend can enjoy her favorite music and not freeze.
Car Communicator - A great gift for a friend motorist with a developed sense of humor. On it, she will be able to type any short messages for other road users, for example, “Thank you” or “Pass me”, as well as “Don't bibikay, I am stunned” or “I'm driving the first day”.
With the help of such a communicator, some people even manage to make pleasant contacts on the road, after all, wishing good morning to other drivers, congratulations on the New Year or just having your own phone number written is an excellent reason to start a conversation in traffic.
Smart socket - A useful thing that will never allow a friend to leave in a hurry turned on the iron or other electrical appliance. The socket is controlled by a smartphone, and at any time a friend can check if she turned off the curling iron while leaving the house, and also remotely turn on the kettle or the slow cooker, going to the house.
Certificate for visiting fashion stylist - A great gift for girlfriends who give fashion and their own appearance of great importance. A friend will be able to visit a real professional and get personal recommendations. It's priceless.
Certificate for steam spa treatment. If a friend has a life partner, she may well spend a pleasant day at the spa treatments with him, and if she is lonely, then you can go to the salon together. Impressions and positive emotions are guaranteed.
- Cinema, theater, concert tickets - when presenting such a gift, be prepared that you will have to go with your friend, because it’s not at all the fact that she will find who to go there with. In addition, it is important to know the tastes of her friend and in no case give her a ticket to a Leps concert, if she loves hip-hop, and not send her to the premiere of a horror movie, if she loves comedy and melodrama.
Even if the budget for a gift is not so great, you can show creativity and donate fun board game T-shirt with a humorous or just touching inscription "The best friend in the world" or "I know how to love and I love." You can give a friend An inexpensive mug with your overall photo and a wish for great happiness.
Budget options
When choosing a gift to a friend, it’s not so much the size of the budget for buying it as your own approach to choosing, creative. You can always buy inexpensive symbolic gifts, souvenirs that will cheer up and give your girlfriend a long memory of you. Here is just an exemplary list of what can be presented:
- beautiful Christmas ball - factory or decorated with your own hands;
- Christmas tree garland with unusual luminous elements;
- a set of beautiful Christmas candles that can be lit and put on a festive night on the table;
- New Year's wreath arrangement with bells, balls, ribbons to decorate the table or the front door;
- New Year's style gingerbread;
- chocolate figures of New Year characters;
- calendar for the upcoming year, on the topic corresponding to the interests of a friend.
Among the budget and pleasant, and most importantly, useful gifts include items that a friend can use in their daily lives:
- desk stand for the phone or car sticky mat, so that the smartphone does not slide off from the car panel while driving;
- nice cover for a passport, student ID, pass to work, ID card, cover for documents in the car;
- unusual shape and design ballpoint pen - such a gift is always useful;
- keychain, responding with a signal or whistle on the claps, allowing you to quickly find where the friend put her car or apartment keys;
- bag pendant made in an unusual style;
- small folding mirror with a comb;
- compact cosmetic bag that will easily fit in her purse;
- a set of brushes and sponge for applying makeup.
Economic friend, as well as a business woman, be sure to appreciate the magnetic whiteboard for notes. It can be attached to the refrigerator and leave notes on it for the household or for yourself, so as not to forget something. If a girlfriend likes to cook and often pampers you with new dishes and treats, give a set of comfortable and beautiful mittens for kitchen, silicone baking mat or forms, a set of unusual jars for pepper, salt, cereals.
Sometimes a big book of illustrated recipes will be a relevant gift, and sometimes a book of ideas for crocheting toys. It all depends on your friend’s area of interest and hobby.
Homemade gifts
A gift made with your own hands always evokes more emotion and response in the soul of the person to whom it is intended. And it’s not at all necessary to be a jack of all trades, you can make simple gifts from scrap materials that for many years will remind a friend that she has you.
Self-made decoration - a bracelet made of large beads, beads, colored elastics, earrings made of beautiful colored feathers, beads. It all depends on what style of clothes a friend adheres to, how old she is and whether she can eventually wear your jewelry.
Photo collage - if a friendship has been for several years, or even decades, a tasteful collage will help a friend to remember the brightest moments of your friendship. Just pick up joint pictures, photos from events, holidays, trips, picnics, weddings and the birth of children and make a great thematic collage about your friendship.
It can be made into a photo frame in size or, in general, made on a large drawing paper, so that it can decorate a good part of the wall in a friend's room.
Handmade soap - for home-made soap making, special skills are not required, even children usually cope with the task, and therefore it’s enough to watch a couple of lessons on the Internet and the original gift will be ready.
Warm socks or slippers - it’s not important how smoothly you can make loops if you haven’t been able to knit before, but how you make your gift. Choose bright wool threads, make cute little pompons, and a great New Year's gift will surely please your girlfriend.
Headband or hair bands - it all depends on the flight of fancy. You can make jewelry with beads, decorate everything with ribbons or bows of fabric, make leather decoration, make a hairpin or a rim of velvet - the finished product should be neat and appropriate to the style of your girlfriend.
Homemade small postcard - Real New Year's masterpieces can be made from colored cardboard, corrugated, tissue paper or any other elegant paper, the main thing is that no one else around the world will have exactly the same postcard on this day. Use cute images - bears, kittens, bullfinches, do not forget to sign your creation with the wishes of happiness and all the best. It is possible to issue a postcard for the New Year in any style - application, scrapbooking, quilling.
Sweater on her favorite cup - it fits in quite simply and you can find a lot of such ideas. There are sweaters with neck and sleeves, there are scarves, the main thing is that they fit the glass or cup in size and fit well on them.
- Trinket from a tree, fabric, plaster.
- Fridge Magnets - You can use a special set, which is sold in stores for creativity and crafts.It is enough to do everything according to the instructions and excellent original magnets will decorate your girlfriend's refrigerator (you can make a thematic set, for example, magnets-vegetables or kittens magnets).
When presenting a homemade gift, do not forget to pack it in a beautiful box, select an original idea for decoration. It is better if the decor will also be made personally.
Universal Gifts
Traditional gifts should include sweet sets, a grocery basket in which you put a bottle of champagne, sausage, chocolate, something from delicacies. As in the case of other gifts, do not forget about the need to pack beautifully and present such a set. Also, the following options are considered to be universal traditional gifts to friends for the New Year.
Books - if you know what author your girlfriend adores, you can buy specific works, but it is better to give her the opportunity to choose an interesting book that she would love to read. Present a gift certificate to a large book network with a large selection of books of different genres and authors.
You can give a gift edition of a handbook or encyclopedia that will help a friend in her professional activities.
Creator's Kit - here everything will depend on what is interested in the one for whom the gift is intended. Usually girlfriends are familiar with each other's hobbies. If a girlfriend embroiders paintings, donate a set to create a beautiful homemade masterpiece, if she creates ceramic pots, you can present a potter's wheel and a supply of clay. In general, consumables for creativity - a win-win option to make a good gift.
The main thing is not to confuse anything and present exactly what a friend really needs. You can add a gift with a ticket to a master class of a famous author or artist, to the exhibition.
Certificate to the store perfume and cosmetics - A welcome gift for any woman regardless of age, profession and hobby. The only thing you need to pay attention to is the presence in the store of a cosmetics line for teenagers, if the gift is intended for a girlfriend of this age category.
Gift set of cute teapot and a pair of cute cups - It is better if the set will be maintained in the Christmas theme. To the set you can add your favorite girlfriend variety of tea or coffee.
Computer accessories, gadgets - This includes a variety of flash cards, made in the form of funny animals, men, with symbols, mouse pads, wireless mice, a USB desktop fan, a heated USB mug to keep tea or coffee warm longer and your friend relationship.
Etiquette of gifts does not forbid you to directly ask your friend what she would like to receive for the New Year, but in this case the feeling of surprise will disappear, and it is the anticipation of unknown interesting gifts that creates that magical atmosphere of the New Year miracle.
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