Pregnancy and childbirth is, first of all, joy and happiness, a new level in the relations of spouses. At the same time, for a woman - this is a difficult test, complexity, care. That is why it is so important to support and thank the spouse. Including material gifts.
Standard Presents
The future or new father should understand that one should congratulate and give attention to the spouse not only on the day of discharge, but also immediately after the birth of the baby. Congratulate your favorite bouquet that you can pass through the nurse. Choose a small and not too high bouquet, the flowers should not have a strong or strong smell. Together with the bouquet, you can pass the fruit (specify which ones do not cause allergies) and a note or letter with the words of love and gratitude.
Since the birth of a child and the subsequent meeting of his wife with a precious bundle from the maternity hospital is a solemn and memorable event, you can also choose a gift “for years”. As a rule, these are jewelry - gold, precious stones.
Chains with pendants in the form of children's legs or a baby are quite popular. You can make engraving on the pendant - a memorable date. However, you can simply give your wife the jewelry she dreamed about - earrings, ring, bracelet. It is not necessary that it is externally related to the theme of motherhood.
A plush toy is also considered standard. However, romantic and gentle girls will appreciate such a gift. Choose a maxi-sized toy that you can hug. You can even get a soft gift to his full height. The most popular are teddy bears.
However, if the spouse has a beast mascot or just a favorite animal, and, perhaps, affectionate nickname, you can look for a toy associated with these animals.
By the way, a good option is an elephant with a raised trunk. This toy symbolizes joy, prosperity in the house, and a raised trunk - the continuation of the race. If a girl was born, the elephant can be pink, if the boy is blue, blue.
Another gift, which is often referred to as "everyday" - perfume. However, he, like the above gifts, is standard only formally. If a woman dreams about these gifts, they will be pleasant and memorable. As a rule, the husband knows about the taste preferences of his wife, so he can choose the appropriate flavor. If with this there are difficulties, you can always buy a gift certificate in the elite cosmetics shop and perfumery.
Underwear is another gift that will please most women. However, there are nuances here - most likely, the spouse's chest after birth will increase in size (with the latter, it can be miscalculated). In addition, you will need a special for feeding. At the same time, if you know that your wife is not indifferent to beautiful lingerie, you can buy a peignoir with a bathrobe or present a certificate to a lingerie boutique. The certificate is good because it usually operates 6-12 months. The wife can not "spend" it immediately after childbirth, but to do it later - the baby will grow up, and she will again be able to afford her favorite lace sets.
Will delight the new mom and technology. It is better to choose what you need it. That is, a phone or tablet is a good choice. But the equipment for the baby (baby monitor) or household (dishwasher) is better to buy just in the house, and not to present as a gift.
Symbolic, but nice gift - photo album.It is better if it is made to order. Although the store options today are pleased with the attractive and original appearance. On the first page, the spouse can paste joint photos from the time of pregnancy, stick a postcard or simply write a greeting for the spouse, describe their thoughts and feelings. If, on the contrary, to talk about more expensive gifts, then present your wife a fur coat. The gift will be especially symbolic and relevant if the baby was born in winter.
If finances allow, give a car. Moms rhythm (especially if the child is not the first) is very saturated, it is important for her to be mobile. The car in this case from the "luxury" gift becomes also "practical". Do not forget about the beautiful bow on the hood. The color of the ribbons may indicate whether you were born - a son or daughter. Perhaps the most "standard", but such a necessary gift for women are flowers. They should definitely give his wife an extract. At the same time do not limit modest bouquets. Let it be a big composition, and not only on discharge, but also at home.
Gifts for the birth of a son
Many husbands dream of a first-born son, if you are one of those, and your wife gave birth to a boy, thank her in a special way. For example, making a tattoo with the name of the child. Such a gesture can not be called a gift, but it will cause pleasant emotions in a woman, will show her how dear a man is to a family.
Mom boy can be presented with ornaments. Pendant or ring, which will remind you of a pleasant event and date, will please, perhaps, every woman. On the birth of a son, it is customary to give a “jewelry” with emerald. He will give the newborn man strength and courage, and his mother will become a talisman.
According to legend, the ring with emerald should always be worn on the left hand. Tell your wife about it when you present a present. Her care and concern such a reverent attitude to the choice of a gift.
What to give if the daughter was born?
One of the old Slavic traditions is to give a wife a family relic for the birth of a daughter. That is something valuable, passed down from generation to generation through the female line. First of all, such a gift carries a strong emotional load. He demonstrates the respect and gratitude of not only the husband, but also his entire family. And still the similar relic, as a rule, possesses considerable material value. AT as it is chosen antique jewelry, icons, folios, interior items.
However, if in the family of the spouse there is no such tradition, nothing prevents to pawn it. It is enough to choose a valuable and symbolic thing and hand it over to the spouse, accompanied by an appropriate speech. This will bring the spouses together, will become a symbol of a new round in their relationship.
How to meet a spouse with a surprise?
In addition to the main gift, you can order an Oscar statuette or a medal. It will be a comic, but at the same time very soulful and memorable surprise. On a medal or a statuette, it is important to engrave “special” words, to thank the spouse.
Most women get tired of the last months of pregnancy (their state of health is worsening, their own reflection in the mirror is not enough), childbirth is also a test. After the birth of the crumbs, you can support your spouse and give her a certificate to the spa. Again, choose one that has at least a six-month expiration date. Not every new mother can afford to leave a newborn for a few hours.
A similar option - a certificate for a professional photo session. By the way, you can go with her as a family. Make sure that the certificate also includes the services of a professional makeup artist.
If a woman before birth was fond of fitness, then you can present an annual subscription. And at the same time and a certificate in the sportswear shop. However, if the wife did not attend the hall or group programs before the birth, then such a gift can offend. A woman may well perceive it as your hint at the pounds that have appeared or a swollen figure.
Instead of a fitness subscription, then it is better to present a subscription to the pool or to yoga. In short, where mom can relax and get healthier.
Every mother knows how quickly children grow up. The more valuable to keep the moments of growing up baby. A family photo session can be supplemented by a visit to the master, who makes casts of baby's arms and legs. This is a safe, painless and time-consuming procedure, so you can come to the master from the very first weeks of the crumbs. And after discharge, present the spouses with a certificate for his visit.
To the original gifts can be attributed rocking chair. At first glance, it does not suit mom at all. However, a woman can rest and relax, swinging in a chair. At the same time you can rock the baby, he falls asleep faster.
Finding and hiring an au pair is another unusual but useful “gift.”. In the first few months of a baby’s life, a newly born mother often has a hard time. Taking care of the house and the newborn, tiredness and the need to restore your own body - it is very important to support and help the woman during this period. If the spouse cannot take on part of the household chores, the best option is to hire an au pair.
"Long-playing" gift - night light. The wife will have to get up more than once at night to the child. ANDAdd it from the need to fumble in the dark on the wall in search of a switch, buy a beautiful night light. It will help you quickly navigate the darkness, and the muffled light will not wake the child. If you purchase a high-quality model, it will serve you for several years and will definitely come in handy when the child becomes older.
It is important not only to choose a spiritual gift, but also to present it correctly. Arrange a surprise for your spouse - make repairs (if required), clean up at home. Decorate the whole room with balloons and flowers, hang a ribbon.
If relatives plan to visit your family on the day of discharge, take care of the guests. Order or cook food, organize their meeting. After the holiday, when the guests leave, free your spouse from cleaning the table and washing dishes.
Having spent relatives and friends, do not rush to return to the "gray everyday life." Arrange a romantic evening for you two. Newborns tend to sleep a lot, so you have time for yourself. Do not forget about the required attributes - a light dinner, candles, pleasant music.
Ideas of an unusual gift can be associated with long-held dreams of women. Each has a “list” of dreams, the embodiment of which she always put off for various reasons. In gratitude for the birth of an heir or princess can embody one of the cherished desires of the spouse.
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