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What gifts can not give?

What gifts can not give?

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  1. Attitude to superstition
  2. Unwanted Gifts
  3. What can not give a man
  4. What can not give a woman
  5. What can not give the child
  6. What you can not give to a loved one or a loved one
  7. How to clear a gift

Many of us love to receive and give gifts. The reasons for giving a present to someone can be innumerable: birthday, anniversary, anniversary, wedding, christening, professional holiday and much more. Such a notion as a gift for no reason is not alien to us, just to make a person pleasant. But at the same time it is better to take into account what gifts can not be given.

Attitude to superstition

All superstitions regarding gifts are rooted in paganism. Nowadays everyone decides for himself - to believe in all these signs or to treat them with irony. But even if the donor does not believe in all these negative prejudices, this does not at all exclude the possibility that the one who is to be pleased with the gift believes in them. In order to avoid embarrassment and not turn joy into disappointment, you can get acquainted with those gifts that, according to some superstitions and omens, cannot be given.

By the way, there is a list of things, taking as a gift that, you need to give a coin. This will also be useful to remember.

Unwanted Gifts

Slippers

It would seem a common accessory for household items. Soft, comfortable slippers will appeal to anyone. However, they are often associated with funeral paraphernalia, because people are usually buried in shoes, often in slippers. That is why they cause disturbing associations.

Clock

In the case of this gift, it should be noted that the watch is not recommended to give not only in our country, but also many others. If this is a wristwatch, then they say that their mechanism can influence human biorhythms.

Someone associates a wrist watch with handcuffs.

However, there is a way to neutralize the negative impact of this gift. It is necessary only after the donation process to immediately put them on a plush toy, as if you presented a watch as a gift.

As for the wall clock, there is a belief that, depending on the reason for which they are given, they can have a negative impact. Thus, donated to the wedding, they will count the hours of marriage, which ultimately will lead to divorce. If you donate them about the appointment to a new position, then the person will not stay long in this position and will soon lose it. By giving a watch on the anniversary of a love relationship or friendship, you can provoke a quick rift or even separation.

Scarves, towels

These harmless accessories are also not worth giving, as they, along with slippers, are associated with the funeral theme. At funerals, it is customary to give a towel to those who carry the coffin, and to everyone else - handkerchiefs. Presented handkerchief - to tears.

But you can give them in a pair. Thus, if you present two handkerchiefs or a couple of towels, the omen will not work.

Stuffed and figurines of birds

There is a belief that a bird that has flown into a house is the sign of unkind news. Therefore, a gift in the form of a stuffed bird or a figurine of a bird can serve as a harbinger of bad consequences.

Health related items

Inhalers, instruments for measuring pressure or temperature, walkers, crutches, bandages, etc. — all this is necessary for a person when he has health problems. If you give them to a healthy person, they will attract diseases, helping to ensure that these items are useful in practice.

Sharp objects

Sharp-cutting attributes are also prohibited. Presented as a gift, they bring quarrels, disagreements, and family discord into the house.Even better to give furniture with rounded corners, rather than sharp.

Some flowers

The fact that it is impossible to give a bouquet of an even number of flowers is known to many. But there is another feature. For example, they do not recommend giving cloves, even if an odd number. It is believed that they conceal negative energy.

Also banned bouquet in black and red. Such shades are associated with mourning themes.

Wallets

In general, there will be no signs categorically forbidding the giving of a purse. If we take into account several features, then nothing terrible in such a gift will not.

First, you need to pay attention to the color of the accessory: the best option would be red. They say the red wallet attracts money.

But the option in blue should be avoided. The fact is that blue is the color of the water element, therefore, money from such a purse will flow away like water.

The second aspect to consider when donating a purse - it is impossible to present an absolutely empty wallet. It is necessary to put there a bill or a coin, even the smallest one. This will contribute to attracting money to the wallet.

It should be noted that this superstition applies not only to wallets, but also to bags and backpacks.

What can not give a man

Socks

There are many jokes about the fact that the only thing a woman can give to her man is socks. However, not everyone knows that this attribute of wardrobe should not be given in any way. There is a belief that the one to whom such a gift was presented will soon leave the family.

Underpants

It is not recommended to give such an element of an intimate wardrobe, otherwise - get ready to experience betrayal.

Books

No matter how paradoxical it may seem, the saying “The best gift is a book” does not work here.

It is believed that the donated book will lead to a speedy separation.

Animal figures

In general, some figurines are not intended to give them. As for the gift to the man, then you should avoid figurines of an elephant with a lowered trunk. Allegedly, this can lead to problems with potency.

What can not give a woman

Pearls

This incredibly beautiful decoration is better to exclude from the list of possible gifts. Superstitions say that before pearls were tears of mermaids. That is why such a decoration can only bring misfortune.

Mirror

There is a belief that, admiring the donated mirror, the girl loses her youth. Many superstitions are associated with mirrors. They are said to serve as a portal between our world and another dimension.

Also, superstitious people believe that the mirror never forgets what it once saw, all the information and energy stored inside it.

Among the folk signs, there is one related to this attribute: to break the mirror to death.

Based on the existing will, many refuse to choose such a gift.

What can not give the child

Many will agree on one thing: nothing can be given before the baby is born. When the newborn is born, you can please your parents with a generous gift. But here you should also be careful, because there are things that are not recommended to give according to some signs.

Doll

This is not about dolls in general, but about beauties from porcelain. There is a possibility that this sign is connected with the fact that dolls were often used in Voodoo magical rites. Also, a porcelain doll is always handmade, therefore, its creator puts all his energy into the creation. Therefore, if such a gift is presented, it is better to immediately clean it of negative energy.

What you can not give to a loved one or a loved one

  • Mittens - will lead to a rift in relationships.
  • Hairbrush - someone may not keep their promises.
  • Casket - they will hide something from you.
  • Alcoholic drinks - drunk immediately spoil the relationship.

How to clear a gift

If a gift is presented, which cannot be given according to signs, you should not fall into despair: such a gift can be cleaned, thus saving it from negative energy. There are several ways to do this.

Money

If you give a coin in response to a gift, then the negative impact will be neutralized. Naturally, this is not about the full value of the thing. You just need to symbolically "pay" the donor.

Water

Rid thing from bad energy can water. It is enough to wipe the object with a damp cloth or rinse under a tap.

the fire

Another element - fire - will also help in such situations. It is necessary to light a candle and walk with it around the gift item.

Salt

In the case when the gift can not be brought to water or fire, salt will help. You can put the object in large salt and leave overnight, provided that it is shallow.

If the gift is large, you can simply sprinkle it with salt, and after a while gently shake it off.

If you have doubts about the donated item, you can always neutralize the negative impact of the gift through its redemption. Just give the coin to the giver and not worry about anything. The traditional list of unwanted gifts is sometimes updated with new items. But everyone decides for himself - this or that object is suitable as a gift or not. Despite the existing signs, you should always please your relatives and friends with pleasant presents.

Learn more about the gifts that can not be given, you can find in the video below.

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