What to write to the girl who likes?

It often happens that it is difficult for a young man to continue communicating with a girl that he liked when meeting. In such situations, excessive modesty and shyness usually prevent, the guy is not confident in his abilities, therefore hesitates to tell the girl about his feelings and generally maintain contact with her. Sometimes, on the contrary, a man is so proud that he behaves too aggressively towards the opposite sex. Let's understand what and how to write a girl, not only to please her, but also to keep her attention.

Girls do not accept platitudes. It’s absolutely boring when a seemingly nice young man writes any trite things. For example, “Hello, how are you?”, “What are you doing?”, “How did you sleep today?” And the like. Obviously, when you are in a relationship for a long time, it may look like concern. But if your acquaintance took place quite recently, then such turnovers are not at all appropriate.

It is important to “hook” a person so that he again wants to communicate with you, enter social networks, always be in touch. Be original. Do not write platitudes, think of something unusual. Suppose, “Today you will surely conquer the Universe, have a good day!” Or “Let the purple rhinos in Africa dream of you.” Let it be stupid, but it will be from the heart.

Forget about monosyllabic questions. Push the girl to communicate. You should not ask what you can answer "Yes", "No" or do simple "Good." You need to lure a girl, call her for a dialogue, it means that someone must start, let it be a young man.

Try to ask something that can be answered deployed. For example, “What emotions did this film cause you?” Or “What do you think about the last event at school / institute?”.

This is even more important. What else can attract attention, if not a good joke? Of course, you can find interesting and uplifting jokes on the Internet. But it will be much more effective to show your own sense of humor in time. You do not need to think out of pattern, just look at the situation from the outside, think up some situations of your own and act, but always with humor.

For example, if a girl is offline or does not respond for a long time, it is better not to use the banal “Where are you?”. Try writing "What well did you fail there?" Or "Are you alive?".

No need to be a bore. Yes, literally. Do not write too often, too much and without a special reason. Of course, it is important to maintain constant contact, but any patient person will be very strained by the situation when the correspondence lasts whole days. Ultimately you will be left out. Therefore, it is necessary to leave both yourself and the girl time for personal thoughts, a place for personal space.

It is very important to understand what kind of person you are dealing with. Suppose you have never seen a girl, therefore, you have no common topics for conversation. To start a dialogue, you need to find any similarities, her or your hobbies that may attract attention.To do this, carefully review its page on the social network. There you can find, for example, the musical preferences of a woman or, perhaps, her hobbies in the groups in which she is a member.

For many representatives of the beautiful half of humanity, the most important factor is the ability of a young person to handle the word. That is, his literacy, the correct and appropriate use of certain words and concepts. You will make a positive impression on a decent and educated girl, if your messages are observed spelling, punctuation put where it is necessary, and the words are used in the right context.

Besides the fact that you have become an excellent interlocutor, you need to be able to keep the girl's attention towards you, make her want to communicate with you not only on the Internet, but also in life. It is not enough to like her by correspondence, you have to be at the height and in reality.

• First of all, it is necessary to find common interests. It can be anything: from movies to fishing, from skiing to collecting old books. Try to find a hobby that unites you, it will take your relationship to a new level. And then try something new together, take a chance to taste some unusual food or watch the horror movie that you are so afraid of.
• Flirt! When she sees that you want to continue dating, just will not remain indifferent to your efforts. Always write her compliments, but remember the measure and know your own worth. It is important that the return be from both.
• Let her know what you constantly think about her. Even a message written late at night will make her think that thoughts of her visit you all day and night. Of course, it will be nice to every girl.
• In any case it is important to know when to stop, and especially when communicating with a girl. Do not overdo it with constant correspondence, it depresses any person. In addition, the endless exchange of messages can not lead to the successful formation of a pair. Try to be unobtrusive and strive to ensure that the girl began to write to you first. This will clearly indicate the fact that your relationship has a future.

Of course, beautiful words can lure a huge number of women. However, it is much more important not just to throw compliments in different directions, but to tell the truth, to write truly sincere and informative SMS messages. Especially if you do not want to linger on this stage of the relationship. Let's look at some examples of original letters.

• “Today is perfect for new acquaintances. Don't you think it is happening right now? ”
• "Good day! My name is Alexander. We are in the same group, I think we have a lot in common. Do not want to meet?".
• "Hello! Most likely, you do not remember me, but I can not stop thinking about you. "
• "Good evening! Today at the party you were moving very well, do not want to keep me company for tomorrow's holiday? ”

• “Today a beautiful photo has appeared on your page. I really like. How did you manage to make such a picture? ”.
• "Every day I rush to go to the network to enjoy communication with you."
• “It is interesting for me to communicate with you on the Internet. I look forward to our meeting in reality. "

• "My most pleasant occupation is to think about you."
• "The best woman of the universe spent tonight with me."
• "I do not want the minutes of our communication with you to end."

• “I want to correct what happened. I promise you will like the edits. "
• “I understand, because of my character, you are nervous now. I promise you will be calm now. "
• “I do not want to lose you because of such nonsense. Sorry".

• "Today you are so adorable that I completely forgot to say hello."
• “You do not have strings? I would like to make friends with you! ”
• Greetings in foreign languages ​​emphasize your individuality. For example, "Salute!".
• "Hello". It would seem to be a very simple word, but usually it is perceived more gratefully than the banal "Hello."

• “Do not forget about the alarm clock! Work will not wait. "
• "I went to sleep so that the day would come soon when we meet."
• “Sleep tight. I will guard your dream. ”

• "Have a nice day, and I will wait for the evening to hug you soon."
• "I guarded your dream, and now I will provide you a good day."
• "Good morning! I thought about you all night. ”

Many girls point out that they are repelled by phrases in a message like “Hello. How are you?". They believe that this is jaded and does not attract attention. Most likely, after this message the girl will break with you all the contacts.

Some representatives of the beautiful half of humanity are especially embarrassed when young people, when they meet, allow themselves all sorts of vulgar jokes and hints of a sexual nature. Of course, it makes you think about the seriousness of the intentions of the guy.

Using different jargons and abusive expressions will also not lead to anything good. At least, this is unacceptable in the first days of intercourse, when people can judge each other only by appearance or writing style.

No less important factor is compliance with the spelling and grammatical norms of the Russian language. Your poor vocabulary definitely will not lead to anything good, but will only aggravate the situation of continuing to meet a girl.

Girls always pay attention to the details invisible to the male eye. Therefore, it is important to tidy up your village: add truthful information about yourself, put a photo in a sober state, with a good mood. For the correct idea of ​​you in the eyes of others, indicate your interests, hobby.

"Hello, let's get acquainted!" - so it is better not to write, because such a form does not imply the word "No." to answer. Consequently, it will put the girl in a difficult position, which instantly distracts her directly from you.

“Most likely, my message will remain unread, but ...” - such phrases demonstrate the strongest uncertainty of a man and, as a result, drop his significance in the eyes of a woman.

“Maybe I’m not at all in your taste” - surely this will alarm the girl very much, how can she know who is behind the monitor screen? Moreover, you are in the same situation, because information about the interlocutor is also not much.

In any case, when corresponding with a girl you like, it’s important to be yourself. After all, who knows, maybe with her you will be able to build a wonderful family.

For errors in correspondence with the girl, see the video below.