Every girl wants to feel beautiful and special. And self-esteem is more dependent on the signs of attention of men. Consider why some girls always have a lot of fans, while others while away their evenings alone, what the degree of attractiveness depends on, and which girls like guys.
Appearance
A man loves with his eyes - this truth is as old as the world, and you can't argue with it. No matter how the opposite sex claims that inner beauty is more important, any guy pays attention to his appearance. Even if a girl cooks well, reads a lot, has an interesting hobby and has a unique sense of humor, without the elementary care of her appearance, she risks remaining inconspicuous for men.
What you need to be, to please the guy, and if there is some kind of reference - maybe Angelina Jolie or Monica Bellucci, let's figure it out. Here you can please all the fair sex - every man likes a certain type. For a young man in love, his girlfriend will always be the most beautiful, even if for the rest she is rather ordinary and inconspicuous. Because there are no uniform parameters, no matter how the media impose them. In other words, “there will be a merchant for every product”.
But this does not mean that you need to let everything go by itself and wait for the prince to knock on the door himself. There are certain external criteria that absolutely all men like, and girls should adhere to them.
Grooming
This concerns the condition of the skin, hair, nails. Women are simply obliged to take care of themselves, regularly take a shower, wash their hair, use creams and other means. Many girls go to salons where they do various treatments from masks to wraps. All this in order to keep the skin always smooth and healthy. Any man will be repelled by a dirty head, an abundance of acne on the face or bad breath.
And even the most incredible beauty can make an unpleasant impression, if her nails are in inappropriate condition. And men are greedy to trifles. The same applies to the vegetation on the body. Almost 100% of men do not like the hair of the girl anywhere except the head. Therefore, this item also should not be deleted from the list of responsibilities. In addition, now there are many ways to get rid of unwanted hair, including forever.
Shining look
Men, contrary to stereotypes, pay attention to the eyes. But not on their color, namely, at a glance. A beautiful girl is a happy girl. Sometimes enviable beauties are surprised that men do not approach to meet them, but the reason may be hiding in the way a girl looks at others. Alertness, coldness, ill will in the eyes will be read immediately, and this will alienate the man. No matter how much a woman likes him outwardly, he can simply be afraid of failure.
Therefore, the look should be relaxed, warm and inviting. The famous supermodel Tyra Banks always taught to “smile with his eyes”, you should definitely learn this tactic.
Naturalness
This concept should not be confused with neglect. Being natural does not mean completely abandoning cosmetics, not doing hair and not taking care of yourself. Natural appearance is the harmony of the image.Some girls think that the abundance of makeup, false eyelashes and strands, fake tan make them more attractive, but it is not. Men, as a rule, are repelled by such unnaturalness.
The question legitimately arises - what is hidden behind all these layers of cosmetics? Therefore, in order not to look like a doll, you need to properly use cosmetics. She should not hide her face, her task is to emphasize her dignity. You can even attend special visage courses, where experienced masters will select individual makeup for any image.
Beautiful hair
They can be taken out as a separate item, because in reality men are crazy about women's hair. Needless to say that they should be clean. This is the absolute minimum that every girl must adhere to. The maximum is to have a beautiful haircut and use care products so that the hair is healthy, soft and shiny.
As for the eternal question - gentlemen prefer blondes, or they like brunettes and redheads, and what hair color is in the lead - guys are not so important. If the girl as a whole he likes, then her blond hair or dark - a minor question. The exception is considered to be extreme colors - such as red, purple, blue, green. Such staining can scare a man, so it is better to opt for the usual and natural shades.
If we talk about hairstyles, then, of course, long hair is always held in high esteem by the representatives of the stronger sex. But this does not mean that a girl with a short haircut will not be in demand. If the hairstyle is harmoniously combined with the appearance as a whole, then the man will surely pay attention to such a girl.
By the way, there is advice for those women who want to straighten their curly hair from nature - the guys even like curls, so you shouldn’t desperately hide your personality, which is better to make its own twist.
Posture and gait
Everyone remembers the movie “Office Romance”, where the secretary Vera taught Lyudmila Prokofievna to walk correctly. The main rules stated that a woman should have a riddle, her head should be raised, her back should be even, and the walk should be free and from the hip. One has only to remember the charming Marilyn Monroe, who drove men crazy with her amazing ability to walk beautifully and womanly. The main thing is to be able not to go beyond the grace and not to go (in the direct and figurative sense) into vulgarity. You can even take lessons or train at home on model equipment, for example, with a book on your head.
Do not underestimate the importance of a smooth back. It is unlikely that a man will attract a hunched girl. It is important to monitor the posture while sitting and walking, until a flat back becomes an integral part of the image.
Figure
With the face, skin and hair more or less clear, but everyone wonders what shape the guys like. Probably, all the girls will unanimously answer that the parameters 90-60-90, which have appeared since the times of Marilyn Monroe, are considered to be the ideal. But do not forget that once the ideal was considered fat women, who with such admiration painted on his canvases by Rubens. The fashion for the figures is changeable, but the essence remains the same - men like both thin and large girls. It all depends on the ability to present themselves. And of course, you shouldn’t go to extremes - exhaust yourself with diets, until, apart from the skin, there is nothing left, or overeat to the state when it will be difficult to pass through the doorway. And one and the other can not please a man because of an unhealthy look. Everything should be harmonious.
Let us see what parameters one must have in order to please a guy, but first we must get rid of two very important stereotypes.
Slim type of figure is always in high esteem
This is a misconception. But it cannot be said that double chins and an abundance of cellulite will look more attractive.It is just worth understanding that thinness is not equal to beauty, and a fat girl does not mean ugly. For a man, the main thing is that the figure looks toned, regardless of weight. The main thing is to know when to stop. No need to bring the weight to dangerous marks as a plus and a minus.
Of course, the type of "hourglass" will always attract malebut this does not mean that other girls have no chance. The main thing is to be fit, and this will help fitness classes, jogging in the morning and workout in the halls. In addition, such exercises will not only strengthen the muscles and make the figure more attractive, but also improve the health of the body.
Girls with big breasts have more chances
Another misconception. And many women complex because of their first size, and some headlong rush to plastic surgeons, increasing the breast to the "perfect" third or even fifth size. Of course, a beautiful neckline will attract attention, but men are not as important as the size of the breast. If outwardly she looks attractive, then the chosen one is completely unimportant - the first is the size or the fourth. Therefore, we should immediately exclude this complex, and not focus attention on it. As for giving the decollete a beautiful shape, it will also help sports (especially push-ups), taking a contrast shower and various creams that contribute to the elasticity and tightness of the skin.
It is important to be able to take your own body, improve it and not complex because of the stereotypes imposed by society and the media. Because a girl with any type of figure (without extremes) is able to charm a man. The main thing is the ability to properly file themselves.
Growth
What girls like men - high or low - this question does not have a definite answer. And the concept of growth for each guy will be his. Usually men prefer the girl to be about ten centimeters shorter than them, although many men are not against the high companion. It happens that a short man seeks to choose a girl of the same height or a little lower in order to avoid embarrassment next to a tall beauty.
Of course, model growth has its advantages - such girls stand out from the crowd, they are well-dressed in outfits. But low growth is not a reason for complexes. Low girls look younger than their years, even with a full figure, they do not look cumbersome, and men just want to be defenders of such pretty beauty.
Girls of small stature are very popular with really tall men. Sometimes the difference in centimeters can be as high as 20, and 30, and even 40. And sometimes a tall guy prefers a girl to become like, so that the couple looks harmonious. In any case, growth is only a convention, in many respects it depends on the psychological characteristics of the partners.
Style and clothing
Men value femininity in the opposite field. And you can emphasize it with the help of a wardrobe, namely, dresses and heels. The already mentioned film star Marilyn Monroe considered heels a salvation for women - and she was right. With the help of them it is possible to lengthen legs and to emphasize their attractiveness. The girl on the heels automatically begins to feel more confident, changing her posture, gait and ability to hold herself. As for dresses, they will be the leaders, according to the male population. Even if the girl is fine pants or jeans, it can not be compared with the effect that it will make a man wearing a dress.
When choosing a wardrobe should be guided by several important rules.
- Elegant and not vulgar. A short and open dress can create a rather frivolous image, giving the young man the wrong signs. Therefore, it is important not to cross the border. Sexuality and vulgarity are not synonymous.
- Price is not an indicator. A girl can buy a dress in an expensive boutique or on sale - for a man it does not matter.The main thing is how the clothes sit on the figure, and not a single representative of the stronger sex will look at the price tags.
- Clean and tidy. These are the main criteria in clothing. Not a single guy will like a dress on a chosen one, besides, there is a spot on the sleeve, even if it was bought for a fabulous sum.
- Relevance. Of course, dresses with heels are a win-win for any woman. But you need to wear them in accordance with the occasion. An extravagant outfit with studs for a walk in the park is more likely to puzzle a man than to attract.
Of course, all this does not mean that it is necessary to throw out all things, except dresses, from the wardrobe. The girl is attractive and in other outfits, as long as the wardrobe is not boring or too elaborate. Both are bad. Men appreciate girls who dress with taste.
As for the underwear, here it is worth making a start from color and fabric.
- Red will definitely be associated with a man with passion, so a girl in lingerie of this color will make a bright and spectacular impression.
- Black is no less popular. It creates the impression of extravagance and mystery.
- Some men like white underwear because innocence can also be sexy.
Fabric plays an important role. Cotton takes the last places in the ranking, according to men, it looks simple and straightforward. Therefore, it is worth stopping the choice on lace or silk, which will undoubtedly make any young person crazy.
The main thing is that the clothes should be harmonious, appropriate, emphasize the dignity, and then attention from the opposite sex will not have to wait long.
Character and behavior
Of course, external data is important, but you cannot go far on one pretty face and beautiful figure, you need to be able to interest a man. We list which girls like the opposite sex in nature.
- Sociable. It is worth noting that this is not a synonym for talkativeness. No one likes silent girls who can't keep up a conversation or have a conversation. The man is not against modest behavior, but it is important to know the measure, otherwise he may take the constraint for disinterest in communication.
- Self-confident. This is not about narcissism and arrogance. It is only important to be able to adequately present themselves. Even if the girl has some kind of complexes, it is not necessary to focus on the attention of the man, it is important to pay his attention only to the merits.
- Clever and competent. Oddly enough, but the stereotype about the attractiveness of stupid girls for a long time does not work. If a woman reads books, is engaged in self-development, has a hobby, competently writes and expresses, then she is much more likely to like a man. It is not a shame to present a smart companion to friends and any other company, it is always interesting and has something to talk about, and most importantly, you listen to her opinion.
- Mysterious. Men most of all like to achieve the location of the girl, to recognize her gradually. You do not need to tell everything about yourself and immediately at the first meeting, you should always hold the trump cards for the future. It is important for a girl to be unpredictable, but within reasonable limits.
- Caring and kind. Any guy will like it if she demonstrates a soft attitude. At the same time she should show kindness not only to the chosen one, but also to relatives, children, animals and strangers. But here you should not overdo it, otherwise there is a risk to turn from a desired woman into a mother.
- Calm In fact, men do not like too emotional girls. They can cry at any time or throw a real tantrum. The guy will get tired of such bursts quickly, so you need to forget about breaking plates and throwing clothes out of the windows. The main thing is to control yourself!
- Merry. Sense of humor makes any girl even more desirable and attractive. Therefore, it is important to be able to laugh, including at oneself. Excessive seriousness repels men, but to be a solid holiday girl is not worth it.In all the important measure.
- Modest. If a girl is embarrassed, blushes, it always looks cute and able to charm any man. But at the same time you should not confuse modesty with isolation.
- Unobtrusive. The basic rule in dealing with a man is to allow him to pursue himself. No need to go to his hands, showing excessive initiative. Guys like some inaccessibility, but frequent calls and restriction of personal freedom will only push aside.
- Talented. In fact, men, like women, love romantic surprises. Therefore, there will be nothing of this kind if the girl herself prepares for her chosen one an original gift made by her own hands, or reads a poem of her own composition. Such a gesture will be pleasant to the man, and he will definitely appreciate the creative approach.
There are some types of women that attract men.
- Business woman. The image of a business woman of some of the stronger sex scares, and some impressed. Success is a trait that can give rise to complexes in an insecure boyfriend, so usually these girls are preferred by strong men. Many representatives of the strong sex find such an image sexual and interesting.
- Skilful hostesses. This type of women always cooked delicious borscht, the apartment shines with cleanliness, the linen is washed and ironed. Many men choose for themselves such companions of life who skillfully create home comfort.
- "His in the board." Such girls become real friends and like-minded people for their companions. They can watch football or share all the delights of fishing. With such a girl is fun, comfortable and interesting.
- Femme fatale Mysterious and attractive type for men. They are insidious, selfish, unpredictable, but despite this, are popular with the male sex. Of course, not every guy is decided to choose such a girl for a serious relationship, but nevertheless this image is present in the dreams of many of the stronger sex.
- Charming. These girls combine the features of all the above types. They are pleasant in communication, they can surprise with culinary abilities, and at the same time they are able to achieve success in business and try on the image of a fatal lady. A man with such a woman will simply never be bored.
We consider age
The most common stereotype is that men like young women and girls. This also applies to older men. Even at the age of fifty, they focus solely on the girls of twenty-five. What should those who are over 30 do to put a cross on themselves? Of course not! The famous actress Audrey Hepburn argued that the beauty of a woman increases with age. And she was right. After all, the older a woman is, the more experienced, wiser and more interesting she is.
The time when a girl at 30 was considered almost old was long gone. Now the age criteria have already shifted in favor of youth, especially since men are not very versed in this matter. Thinking that they like girls up to 30, they pay attention to those who are not even 35, but already 40. This is not a matter of numbers, but of self-care. Some adult women can give odds to any twenty-year-old beauties.
The main thing is to preserve the radiance in your eyes, love of life, lightness, charm and mystery. It is with such a woman (no matter how old she is) that any man will want to be near.
What perfume attracts guys?
Smell is one of the key criteria for attractiveness. A girl will surely be remembered by a man if it smells good. Therefore, it is important to choose the right perfume. What flavor will surely like the stronger sex?
- Floral. Roses, tulips, jasmines - all this will give the image of lightness, weightlessness and femininity. A man will be necessarily captivated by floral notes in women's perfumes.
- Fruit. Another attractive fragrance for the opposite sex. Sweet and juicy smell will give the image of any girl piquancy.
- Spicy. Which guy won't like the flavor of cinnamon, vanilla or chocolate? Such a woman will be associated with something nice and charming.
Among the special women's fragrances, which are considered to be the most attractive for the opposite sex, we can single out the already familiar and beloved Chanel No. 5, light floral aromas from Nina Ricci, sexy and sensual notes of Poison (Dior), saturation 212 from Carolina Herrera.
Spirits can not only attract a man, but also push him away. Remember, what you should know using perfume.
- The smell should not be sharp. From it the elementary headache can ache. No need to pour your favorite perfume from head to toe, just a few drops on the neck and wrist.
- The smell should not be too complicated. The fragrance should complement the female image, but not overshadow it. It is better to opt for pleasant but simple fragrances, the smell of which will be clear to any man.
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