Features of a male introvert and his behavior in relationships

Psychology defines two basic psycho-types of a person: an introvert and an extrovert. After conducting various surveys, observations and experiments, it was felt that the majority of the population of our planet is extroverts.

But in this article we will not discuss them, on the contrary, we will talk about introverts, let's figure out who these introverts are. We will learn to recognize them, study the character, behavior, understand what approach to them to choose, and be sure to find out what they are in love.

First, it is necessary to determine who the introvert is from the point of view of psychology. This is a person who is focused on his inner world and is completely immersed in it. For an introvert, their thoughts and experiences are important, they rarely go out of the comfort zone, trust people little and prefer proud loneliness.

Introvert has the following character traits:

• he thinks about all his actions in detail;
• communication is rarely spontaneous, most likely, it has a specific purpose, so the conversation with him may seem tense;
• does not need constant communication;
• the unpleasant situation leaves a huge mark on the emotional state and does not let go of his thoughts for a long time;
• fantasy quite well developed;
• very purposeful person;
• always controls his emotions, and rarely shows them;
• patient, observant, inclined to analyze everything that happened.

Signs of a male introvert:

• loves a quiet and relaxing pastime;
• conservative in opinions and judgments;
• many male introverts love books and consider them the best gift;
• express their gratitude by actions, words mean nothing to them;
• the introvert husband is all that one can wish for; they have no equal in marriage;
• like to think and talk on deep topics;
• empty conversations are not for them, the conversation is brief and concise;
• stingy on the expression of emotions.

This personality type is very self-contained, hidden, lives in its own world, and prefers not to let anyone in there. When dealing with this man, you are unlikely to be able to confuse and confuse him, as he is confident in himself and in his values.

All of these characteristics can even scare a woman. When meeting with an introvert, you need to act correctly and know a few basic rules that will help you meet and begin to communicate.

• Introverts do not like lies and understatement. Be extremely frank and sincere.
• Be sure to listen to the man, they love it.
• Do not touch when talking to those who may remind the introvert of their own failures.
• Help and support him verbally. An introvert male will appreciate this.
• Don't be too pushy. The introvert takes time to get to know you and appreciate your positive qualities.
• Forget about moral pressure. It will not lead to anything good. Show gentleness and politeness, then he will answer you the same. And do not impose your opinion. You can make it, but if he wants to stay with his, let it be so.

Adhere to these rules, and, most likely, one conversation will be followed by another.

We have already figured out that this psycho type of men is quite complicated. They are the same in relationships and in love. Very often, with their secrecy and indifference they can drive you crazy and provoke not very pleasant thoughts.

If your companion is of this type, be prepared for a certain behavior in relationships, and learn to calmly accept what is happening. Let us dwell on the main features, as well as relationship problems.

• Ignore your call. They do not like telephone conversations. This man will find many reasons not to answer. Be smarter - write a message.
• Work and only work. Sometimes it seems that for them in the first place. This is not quite so, just if something has already begun to be done, then you should definitely bring it to the end. Do not even think to force to choose between work and you. Understand and accept the situation. For this, you will no doubt be rewarded.
• Answers in a nutshell. Dislikes long and meaningless conversations, very brief in conversation.
• Lost in noisy companies. The company of strangers, parties - not for an introvert. He would prefer loneliness. Help him pass it.

• Does not cover their problems. He solves his problems and ponders himself. He will never tell you about them. If you see that your man has become sad and wilted, do not try to get information out of him. Just ask if he sees fit, he will tell.
• Loves animals very much. And if you are visiting, and your man chose to play with the dog, rather than sit with everyone at the table, do not scold him, let him play enough.
• Apathy. You can plan an event for a long time, and at the last moment he wants to cancel everything and lie on the couch. Keep calm. Offer to transfer everything to another day.
• Slowness Very painstaking in making decisions, doing things. You will need to take the initiative sometimes. But do not forget to ask his opinion.
• Fear of criticism. Never criticize your introverting male or compare him to others. He is very offended, and to make peace with such a guy is hard.

We are all pleased to know and hear that we are loved. You have been trying so long to fall in love with an introvert male, and everything seems to be all right, but how can you tell if he is in love or not? Due to the qualities of character and stinginess in the expression of emotions, it is very difficult to recognize the attitude of the introvert to you.

Let's look at how introverted lovers behave.

• If in order to spend time with you, the introvert leaves his comfort zone, it definitely means something. He can go to the club, to a party, a picnic for your sake, even though he was not a supporter of such entertainment before.
• He is silent all the time, does not answer questions, and you start to think that he is simply not interested. It's not like that at all. Introvert loves and respects silence, and it was you who became the one who won the right to share it with him.
• Introverts have an excellent sense of humor, but they do not show it to everyone. Rather, on the contrary, they prefer to seem sarcastic. And if he is joking with you, laughing, then you are no longer a stranger.
• If you are already in a relationship with an introvert, you have nothing to worry about. Before agreeing to a serious relationship, the introvert will think for a long time, reflect, evaluate the situation and the applicant himself, who is going to become part of his world.

In the next video, you will find the difference between extroverts and introverts and the various schemes of their energy supply.