Narcissism in men: signs, causes, and ways to get rid of the syndrome

Narcissism is characterized by excessive self-love. Such people feel their own superiority, which is constantly demonstrated to others. The name of the term was introduced by the Austrian psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud, who took as a basis the names of the ancient Greek myth of Narcissus, who was so obsessed with his own beauty that he died, unable to tear himself away from his reflection.

Narcissism is considered a personality disorder in which a person is too proud of himself. He considers himself an exceptional and unique individual, and therefore has the right to dominate other people. For this reason, the daffodil requires a special relationship to his own person, and if this does not happen, begins to show additional mental disorders.

The main feature of narcissism is an overwhelming desire to prove oneself.

He will demonstrate to others around him a high intellect, even if there is really nothing to brag about. In addition, he will try to criticize the interlocutor to look more profitable against his background.

Narcissus requires increased attention, and therefore is constantly in the circle of people. Such a man will try to impress his opponent by any means, even through deception. Sometimes he himself begins to believe in fictional stories, denying reality. And this, in turn, is the first sign of schizophrenic disorder.

Male narcissism is manifested in the desire to demonstrate its high position. For this, the young man exaggerates the significance of his own achievements, drawing the attention of society even to insignificant successes. Such a person will not do anything just like that. Any of his actions should cause admiration.

This psychotype is characterized by the desire to increase their own self-esteem. To achieve this goal, the person is trying in every way to humiliate other people. According to the logic of narcissus, humiliation is the best way to personify your own superiority. At the same time, he will not even try to develop his intellectual abilities, but will try to ridicule other people's knowledge.

To the representatives of this psychological type, the manifestation of real feelings seems to be weakness, and therefore they by all means avoid exposing emotions.

The psychology of such a person is represented by the inability to listen, since this ability is directly related to the sympathy and patience that the narcissus is simply not peculiar. Such a man is not able to talk about others, all his conversations are built only around his own "I".

If you question the narcissus narratives, then you can face aggression. The young man will try to accuse the interlocutor of distrust and portray a deadly resentment. Thus, the opponent will feel guilty, which is what a person with narcissism is seeking.

People with this psychotype are obsessed with success and power.

Narcissism syndrome is divided into classic and insecure look.The classic type is manifested in the demonstration of irresistible and importance, but the unsure daffodil is not quite sure of its exclusivity, and therefore needs praise and attention.

The classification of narcissism is divided into four types.

• Two-faced - tries to surround himself with people who will idolize his exclusivity. This person will try to ignore the scornful attitude of others, but sometimes can show aggression.
• Brilliant - craves fame and recognition. Such a man depicts megalomania, hiding anxiety and insecurity. It is impossible to convince of his own wrong and point to the mistake. It is easier for a young man to admit insanity than failure.

• Dependent - needs women's attention and suffers in its absence. Such an individual does not seek to start a serious relationship, as he is afraid to show the true face. He constantly controls emotions, and having shown weakness, immediately breaks off all contacts with a lady.
• Detached - is distinguished by neglect and detachment, but at the same time needs increased attention. Such a man will do anything for the sake of recognition. For example, make a heroic deed or become a member of charity. The main thing is that all his actions should be widely publicized.

In psychology, there is also perverse narcissism, manifested by excessive affection.

He yearns to manipulate women and be a leader, and therefore will go to all the tricks.

It is believed that narcissism occurs in early childhood, when the parents praise the child too much. If each child’s achievement is perceived as something supernatural, the child will unconsciously consider himself a genius. The further life of the boy will develop in such a way that after any committed action he will wait for praise.

If a little boy grew up in a dysfunctional family and was not loved by his mother, then in adulthood he would compensate for the lack of love. He will force himself to believe in his own ideality, covering up this inner emptiness.

Sometimes parents demand from children any achievements and put too much pressure on their psyche. Thus, the child forms an awareness that he is loved and appreciated only in moments of success. A boy with the syndrome of narcissism gives birth to the idea that failures make him insignificant, and his successes turn him into an ideal.

Very often, people suffering from the syndrome of narcissism, require skilled assistance of specialists. Hospitalization helps prevent the destruction of the individual and reduce the likelihood of new disorders.

Treatment of the narcissistic syndrome occurs on the basis of individual patient indicators. Sometimes it is enough just to take coursework with a psychologist, and sometimes you need to add group classes.

Psychological assistance for this disease is to alleviate the symptoms of the disorder and regulate self-esteem. At first, the doctor must calmly respond to the patient's stories about his own greatness.

Individual therapy helps a man to accept the problem, which ultimately allows the doctor to convince the patient of the need for treatment. During psychological sessions, the individual learns to accept his own shortcomings and refrain from criticism.

Narcissus must learn compassion and self-control, and also take the leadership of a therapist. Group therapy is prescribed only after the doctor sees significant patient progress in individual sessions. If it is too early to place a man in an unfamiliar environment for him, then you can provoke his departure from a medical institution.

In order not to lead to the development of narcissistic character accentuation, parents from childhood should carry out prevention. Their responsibilities include the development of a healthy type of personality based on the child’s ability to love not only themselves, but also those around them.

• Parents should let the boy understand that the world does not revolve around him and no one is obliged to fulfill children's whims. It is important to learn not to react to crying and hysteria and try to talk more often with the child.
• It is necessary to praise the son in the presence of serious achievements. When performing small assignments, simply thank the child.
• It is important not to praise the talents of the child for everyone they meet. Admire the achievements of the son, preferably in his absence, so as not to develop vanity in the boy.
• Excessive attention of older relatives can also cause this psychological disorder. Often grandmothers and grandfathers indulge their grandson in everything, which leads to permissiveness.
• It is important to teach the child to respect someone else's opinion and stop comparing it with other children.

Usually daffodils do not recognize the presence of the disease or are proud of it. It is rather difficult to communicate with such people, as they constantly try to humiliate the interlocutor. To avoid this, it is important to communicate with such individuals on an equal footing, preventing any attempts at ridicule and humiliation.

At the same time it is not necessary to depict awareness in all spheres of life, it is enough to be able to defend one’s own point of view. As soon as a man with narcissistic inclinations begins to appreciate a person, he will immediately remove the crown and begin normal communication.

Daffodils often do not develop relationships with women. It is difficult for them to express true feelings towards their partner. If a lady really wants to establish contact with such a person, then she needs to gain his trust. To this end, it is important to support the partner in all matters and comfort in case of failures

Communicating with such a man will not be a test if you learn to accept him for what he is. If you do not focus on the psychological characteristics of a person and do not try to challenge his views on your own "I", then you can achieve a stable and harmonious relationship.

To do this, you must convince the person to recognize the presence of the disease and help with finding a good psychologist.

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