Every person goes through a stage of growing up in his life. The transition period is characterized by a difficult emotional state. It would seem that you have already matured and you understand a lot of things, but what to do and how to behave with it is incomprehensible to you. It becomes especially difficult when an object of adoration appears in your life.
Features of adolescence
From about 11-16 years old begins the restructuring of the human body. Nothing wrong with that. Absolutely all people living on Earth passed through such a difficult state. In the transition period, maturation occurs, and the world begins to play with new colors. So you want to imitate adults and be with them on the "same wavelength." And this is quite a natural desire. If a teenager is an intellectually developed person, then he aspires to the knowledge of the surrounding world. At this time, memory works well and intuition develops.
You need not to miss this moment and develop your skills to the "full extent".
It is not a secret to anyone that during adolescence sexual desire arises. This happens unconsciously, and therefore practically does not affect the psychological state. Although this point can not be allowed to drift. Psychologists say that proper education guides the development of the individual. Full development is due to the support of loved ones. In any case, do not get confused in their problems. You need to look for answers to your questions everywhere. At least in specialized sources or on the Internet.
How to please the girl?
In adolescent boys, thoughts of girls are the most important. And there is nothing wrong with that. Male representatives are often afraid of being rejected and ridiculed. They suffer from their feelings and unrequited love, they do not know what to do to draw the attention of the opposite sex to themselves. You need to start with the general simple rules. Dress neatly, try to avoid a bad smell. To do this, follow the rules of hygiene. Do not pour almost all the bottle of father's cologne over. Tart smell will not like anyone. The girl may be allergic to these flavors. Then things will go really bad.
You need to be always collected and not cause irritation with your actions. Should not behave cheeky and defiant.
Decent girls really do not like this behavior. If you want to draw attention to yourself, you should commit an act that will cause respect to others: wipe the board, water the flowers, take out the garbage from the class. The teacher will surely praise you and cite as an example other children.
To actively study. Memorize a poem or theorem. At recess or in other places of public congregation try to stay close to the object of your adoration. Look into her eyes more often. Touch, as if by accident, her hands. If a girl needs help, then she should definitely give it. For a start, you can take a turn in the dining room or help bring a heavy portfolio. Now everyone has a page in social networks. You can find an account of a girl who likes and offer friendship. Every evening, write her messages with the wishes of "good night" or just ask about how things are going. It can be said that these are trivial advice, but they give effect. If you live by the interests of a girl that interests you, she will definitely reciprocate. And for this, it is not necessary to be a superhero or a perfect handsome man.
About girls and girls
Talk about what they like the most. In adolescence, the fair sex has its own hobbies. In 10-12 years girls are interested in dolls and their beautiful outfits. They project their image on the puppet. Wearing a toy, the girl, in fact, presents herself in this outfit. However, girls forget about boys. At the age of 12, this is not so active, relations are developing in a friendly manner. with the most pronounced sympathy. If you like the boy, a classmate will be happy to help you with your homework or give you a test in class.
Since the age of 13, girls behave more consciously.
They have little interest in dolls. Most of today's youth are inclined to hobby Anime. The characters on-screen thumbnails are colorful. They are created and promoted in Japan. Often they commit unthinkable acts. Images of heroes from Anime are vivid examples for teenagers. Therefore, the guys dress in the same way as these fabulous heroes, and try to behave in a similar way. There is nothing reprehensible in this; on the contrary, many teenagers draw images of heroes from Japanese cartoons and develop artistic skills in themselves. Girls at 13-14 and even at the age of 15 are thus imagining future elects. Using the example of Anime heroes, they learn to build relationships with the opposite sex.
One and only
How to win her heart? You need to always be around. Find out what she is most interested in. Invite to the cinema or just donate a chocolate bar. Girls love sweets very much and will appreciate such an act. There are girls who have not met with anyone yet. Usually shy people think more about their studies or sports, than about personal relationships. To win such is not easy. But if you are determined to please, then start playing sports or pull up on your studies. Intellectuals among adolescents are reputable individuals. Your mind and achievements in sports will be appreciated not only by the girl you like, but also by other representatives of the weaker sex.
While you are engaged in self-improvement, do not leave your object of adoration for long without attention, but do not rush things. Remember one wise saying: "The more we love a woman, the less we like her." No need to reach fanaticism. However, do not show excessive pride. And you shouldn't be humiliated too. In the relationship between the sexes need a measure.
If you like the girl on the photo on the page on the social network, then write her a little greeting.
It must be polite and competent. If the user of the network answers you, then try to make an acquaintance. Start writing posts where everyday topics will be discussed. Perhaps your interests do not coincide, and you yourself will be disappointed in your choice. And if not, then this innocuous acquaintance can develop into a great feeling.
Guys need to be confident in their abilities. To achieve an authoritative position among peers, it is not enough to be pumped up and courageous. Without mental work on yourself, such qualities will quickly grow into self-confidence and boorish behavior. Of course, this decent image will not please any decent girl. If you want to have with her the most charming and attractive girlfriend in all respects, then work on yourself. A person as a person must “make” himself.
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