Features of the introvert girl and her behavior in relationships

Psychology assigns each person to a certain type of character, dividing into introverts and extroverts. These indicators differ in many factors - they depend on the environment, upbringing, social status and, of course, gender. This article is about introverts, their behaviors, fantasies, preferences, and opportunities.

The concept of an introvert was introduced into psychology by well-known scientists Isaac and Carl Jung, describing in detail the properties of character and attitude to the world around. The features of an introvert woman are that she perceives what is happening through the prism of her sensations, while her own feelings are paid more attention than what is happening around her.

Below is a characteristic of a female introvert.

• Such a woman has a logical-sensory type of perception of life - she is consistent in her actions, has a certain position in life, is closed from communication, even if she is in a familiar environment.
• He prefers to live by his own rules and clearly observes subordination.
• Carefully think through every action, leaving no room for error. He suffers defeat, betrayal, betrayal, constantly returning to the previously experienced emotions.
• Not deprived of imagination. Her head is a priceless storehouse of innovative ideas and projects. She is observant, patient, controls emotions and aggressively goes to her goal.
• They prefer loneliness, but cannot objectively explain the causes of such desires and views on life. Sometimes he feels an overwhelming shame for his behavior.

This characteristic is inherent in the classic introverts, which include phlegmatic. But this does not mean that a person voluntarily isolates himself from the outside world.

This type of character is formed from early childhood and depends on the social environment, upbringing and self-esteem. As a rule, parents impose such a model of behavior. In this case, the committed child tries to meet the requirements and behaves against his will. Thus, a low self-esteem, uncertainty, isolation, a tendency to think about each step, which creates a peculiar attitude to life.

Sometimes introverted girls have considerable difficulty with having to interact with others. According to the psychological concept, there are two types of introverts: stable and unstable.

Unstable introverts. If a girl is sensitive, emotional, and even experienced men are inferior to her sexuality, this does not mean that she belongs to the type of extroverts. Most likely, you are dealing with an unstable introvert that attracts with its appearance and eccentric behavior. It follows its own rules, does not follow the crowd, and this draws the attention of a strong half of humanity.

Stable introverts. Such natures have a clear, confident position, do not trade small things, do not succumb to provocations and scams, strictly follow the established rules and are steadily moving towards their goal.

These are socialized, confident, not provocative women.who inexorably overcome obstacles to the realization of their ambitions. These qualities are an indisputable advantage over other character abilities - they give odds even to classical extroverts who retreat before failures after several attempts to overcome an obstacle. A stable introvert will assess the possibilities, analyze their mistakes and necessarily achieve the desired result.

You should not be surprised if a new acquaintance cannot adequately answer the question of why she is sitting at home, bored, does not want to go, for example, to the cinema. She just prefers to spend time alone with herself: read the volume of Dumas, make some new-fashioned accessories or do something that brings maximum benefit and pleasure. Therefore, wanting to make an impression, you can invite her to a charity evening, master class, exhibition, but you should pay attention to the number of people around.

When dealing with an introvert, you should not splurge, show your achievements and attitudes towards people. It is necessary to show patience, give the opportunity to the beloved to adapt, get used to the appearance of a new person in his life.

Sometimes communicating with an introvert girl gives rise to a feeling of awkwardness, restraint and a desire to constantly control one’s emotions. But for any person, sooner or later comes the limit of patience.

Intuitively feeling that the atmosphere is heating up in communication, and parting is not included in the plans, psychologists advise to follow certain recommendations.

• Never need to impose behavior on an introvert. Before calling such a person to a frank conversation, it is better to ask him if he is ready to open his soul to you.
• You should be involved in his personal life, hobbies, way of thinking, but you never need to violate his personal space.
• It should be attentive and delicate - you should not speak in raised voices. But if you need to convey your point of view, then you need to do it tactfully, but aggressively.

• You should not put a person in front of a choice - in such cases he will accept a forced surrender, and communication will become strained.
• Trying to find emotional contact, you need to show creativity and resourcefulness. Give a person the opportunity to be alone, because for such people one person is already a whole crowd that requires emotional returns.
• You should not be upset if your companion reacts to bright actions with mean words - it is not typical for introverts to express emotions.
• You do not need to force the introvert to action and put pressure on his opinion - this can distance you from each other.

To please the introvert girl, some stereotypes and characteristic features that seem at least strange for a modern person will have to be overcome. But among these qualities there are undeniable positive features:

• the girl is accurate and punctual, she does not change her mind seven times a day;
• owns emotions, is not capricious, appreciates attention and analyzes actions;
• she is demanding to details, never gives up the job started half way and is not late.

Of course, such people are not perfect - they change their minds hard, are unable to make compromises in love, get stuck on details, and the causes of petty quarrels and conflicts are remembered for a lifetime. They do not tend to relax, they are rarely in harmony with themselves, demanding of others, and are known as ardent admirers of perfectionism.

Such a person does not throw words to the wind, he will not spend time with those people who are not interested in her. Sometimes this girl sees the world in black and white, mentally removing the mask from those who are in her environment.

It is rather difficult to interest, and even more to fall in love with, an introvert girl. She will not introduce her friends and parents until her partner passes the test of trust, honesty and integrity.

No need to blame her indifference, because she, like anyone, appreciates the care and understanding. Her personal world is more interesting and bright than what you can offer in return.

Adaptation of an introvert in society is a matter of experience and time, but such people never overstep the line of what is permitted by strictly following the rules accepted in society. If the sweetheart belongs to the type of introverts, then we can assume that you are lucky - she will become a caring and faithful wife, a beautiful mother and will not bear the brain over trifles. Family life will be filled with harmony and mutual understanding, if you give a person personal space and the opportunity to enjoy your own loneliness.

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