Hysteroid personality type: features and options for behavior correction
The main feature of people with the hysterical type of personality is egocentrism. The main goal of such a person is to attract attention. For this, he behaves provocatively, begs for boast or pity, he is characterized by constant nervous breakdowns, he pretends a lot. The hysterical type feels satisfaction only when its goal has been achieved and it is in the spotlight. For some time he has enough of these sensations, but over time, this person again feels dissatisfaction, finding himself below the level of interest of others.
What is isteroid?
Many people confuse the concepts of “hysteria” and “demonstrativeness”, considering them to be synonymous. But it is not so. In psychology, sometimes to simplify the terminology, “hysteria” is called “demonstrativeness”, although in general the concept of demonstrativeness does not reveal the fullness of the meaning of hysteroidity.
For the hysteroid type of personality, demonstrative behavior and the emergence of all emotions are characteristic.but this is not the only trait. Such people do not just show their emotions for show, but also have a labile emotionality, that is, they are very mobile in their emotions. In this regard, they are characterized by frequent mood swings.
If a person is happy for a long time to some event, then he does not belong to the type presented.
Hysteroid personalities place high demands on people around them., they constantly feel the desire to please everyone, and therefore they are very afraid of mistakes. That is, these people will never undertake complex tasks, since failure will be the subject of alienation of others in relation to the “hysteroid”, at least, he himself thinks so.
Due to the fear of not liking this person, he often forges his sincere feelings.
Such a person is unable to empathize with a loved one, but, in order to avoid an unflattering assessment in her direction, she is well pretending and sympathizing.
At the same time, the “hysteroid” is open enough in its own sensations: if it is ridiculous, then it laughs, if offensively, it will necessarily express this feeling through reproaches.
Even outwardly, these people try to look like to impress others.
In order not to become a “black sheep”, but at the same time stand out in a crowd, “isteroids” expose themselves in an ideal form.
They are elegant, clean from toe to the tips of the nails, their clothes have a non-standard cut and are usually very bright in color. The face is distinguished by vivid facial expressions, which allows you to attract your interlocutor and bring them to your conversation. Often these people stand out on holidays - they actively participate in contests, they can be leading. They are characterized by charisma, charisma, extraordinaryness, for which they receive the love of the public that is so necessary for them.
Characteristic
People with hysteroid accentuation, that is, the most pronounced feature of character, are always easy to find a common language with others. They are characterized by artistic manners of behavior, as well as hysteroid reaction. This concept represents the following model of behavior: a person in a public place goes into hysterics, sometimes shows aggression, laments, complains, and the reason is not important.
As soon as he is alone, his reaction to the same situation will be much less pronounced.
Men
Men with this type of character love to play in public. They are characterized by excessive emotionality, interest in fashion trends, eccentric style. It is impossible to name male representatives with hysterical accentuation responsible, because this case can end in failure, which means that instead of praising this man, he will receive reproaches. Because of his open emotions, this young man himself may suffer, since he understands that, in general, an overly frank expression of feelings is not typical of the male sex.
Very often, men “isteroidy” achieve great success in creativity, it is through art that they can realize themselves.
Among famous artists, poets, musicians there are quite a few people with hysterical personality type. Another distinctive feature of these men is a special relationship with their body. They try to be perfect in everything, including in appearance, and therefore they go in for sports, attend health procedures so that their body looks perfect.
As for relations with women, here the “hysteroid” selects a partner more to demonstrate to society than for herself.
Since all his life he seeks to shine, he is ready to use his beloved as a weapon for his cherished goal. Therefore, this man makes very high demands on his lady. The true feeling of love is not familiar to him, until the end of his life it remains at the level of love for his spouse. In bed, these men are always on top and try their best to please their partner. Not against role-playing games and modern sex toys, but they prefer not to use rude paraphernalia.
Women
In the house of this girl always reigns clean. Her perception of the world should not be contaminated with an unwashed plate in the sink or a toe dropped out of the cabinet. She is sociable, has many friends, often turns out to be the center of attention of the entire company, easily merges into a new team, but character flaws do not always allow the public to keep the interest until the end.
Make-up, jewelry and clothing of these ladies are always on top and fully comply with the latest fashion. Throwing clothes, a lot of dating, the ability to adapt to others - all this is done on her part only to be in the limelight. Often she does not get the desired result.
Despite a bunch of friends, close ties she can not get. She needs to communicate only in order to enjoy her portion of attention.
If a new acquaintance starts to admire her, then she will get close to him, but if over time this person becomes emotionally cold to the “hysteroid” woman, then she will not just move away from him, but even begin to experience a feeling of hatred.
Ladies of this type of character are very feminine, but at the same time quite brave. Ready to engage in adventures and perseverance. But all this is again due to the need for universal interest. In the crowd, they are always noticeable - they laugh loudly, cry bitterly, actively swear. Relationships with men are not easy for them. Because of the lack of a sense of responsibility, these girls are often divorced.
The causes of the formation of the psychotype
Most often, the hysteroid type is formed during puberty. At this time, the adolescent is determined by his ego and sexuality, and all measures of parental education are not perceived as the main subject deserving attention. However, it is the omission on the part of parents that can be the cause, which provoked the birth of hysterical accentuation.
The most frequent factor is the imposition on the child of the thought about the inferiority of his gender, unlike the opposite sex.
Therefore, in the future, an adult child will unconsciously engage in a destructive struggle with the opposite sex and try to seize total power over his representative.
Another shortcoming in the upbringing of a child, which is able to form a hysterical personality type, is associated with the desire of parents to suppress unfolding sexuality. They subconsciously want their child to always remain a child, and therefore they impose on him a characteristic pattern of behavior. At a certain stage of development of the psyche of a teenager, this manner of education has the opposite effect, which is fixed and leads to the formation of a hysteroid psychotype.
Also, hysterical psychopathies can develop already at a mature age, and they are caused not only by upbringing and individual mental features, but also by life circumstances:
- stress, negative news, an accident with one of your close people can specifically influence a person’s world view and mental development;
- dissatisfaction at work, conflicts with colleagues, constant dissatisfaction with the management - all this can cause the formation of hysterical disorder;
- bad habits, namely alcohol abuse, tranquilizers, antidepressants, sleeping pills, play a huge role in the formation of the psycho.
How to behave with such a person?
Despite the eccentricity of these people and their too high demands, you can still try to find a common language with the “hysteroid” so that in the event of a break in relations he does not harbor evil.
If the “hysteroid” is really interesting and you are set up for long-term friendly relations, then it is recommended to give him what he is striving for: praise, give compliments, admire them, show patience to eccentric behavior.
It is better not to enter into an argument with this type of personality if the relationship is dear to you. It is extremely difficult to convince a woman or a man with these mental features.
As soon as this person experiences a state of hysteria, he will begin to show aggression. Do not react to him with the same, it only inflames him even more.
If it is necessary to interact with the “hysteroid” on work issues, it is better not to assign tasks requiring concentration on details and perseverance to it. It is recommended to provide him with a project presentation - with this he will cope with a bang.
If you are not interested in close communication with the "hysteroid", but still have the need for rare meetings, for example, at work, then do not try to get close to him, reduce communication to a dry exchange of information.
Behavioral Correction Guidelines
Excessive emotionality often causes not only serious hysterical disorders, but also deterioration in health. Constant psychological dissatisfaction leads to a decrease in the work of the immune system, provokes neurosis, diseases of the gastrointestinal tract, becomes a factor in persistent headaches. In medicine, cases have been described more than once when a person who referred to a gastroenterologist complained of stomach pain had gastritis.
The treatment prescribed by a specialist did not help, the disease subsided only after the person turned to a psychologist.
After professional correction of behavior, he got rid of the constant fear of dismissal, fear of losing the respect of the team, etc.
In this regard, people with a hysterical type of personality are in a serious risk zone. This is exactly the case of which they say: "all diseases of the nerves."
In order to avoid such unpleasant consequences, “hysteroids” are recommended to try to somewhat change their attitude and behavior.
In order to avoid such unpleasant consequences, “hysteroids” are recommended to try to somewhat change their attitude and behavior.
In order for the hysteroid to always be satisfied, it is recommended that he become the leader of a society. For example, get a chairperson of the HOA, become a trade union leader and so on. In this way, he will always be provided with the necessary attention, and in addition, his inexhaustible energy will be sent to a useful channel.Feeling a significant person capable of influencing the events taking place, the “hysteroid” will be completely satisfied.
Emotions "isteroid" often overflow in a public place. Shop brawlers, people shouting something from the crowd during a public speech by another person are all individuals with a psychotype represented. Having noticed such a style, it is important to learn how to switch from aimless and dangerous shocking, provocative and defiant behavior.
Very good for the correction of behavior help various psychological training.
The special literature will also help to cope with the symptoms of manifestation of hysterical behavior. There are many works created by professionals in the field of psychology, which are in the public domain and designed specifically to help people suffering from hysterical behavior.
If behavior correction is not started on time, then this problem can develop to a state that requires serious psychotherapy and the use of potent drugs. The following signs speak of the transformation of the hysterical type into psychopathy:
- complete loss of the ability to communicate with the public, the disadaptation of a person in any social sphere;
- committing acts that are dangerous to life and health, in this case, the assessment of the drama of actions is eliminated in the mind;
- the increase in the surge of emotions, their unexpected occurrence and frequency.
Having noticed the above-mentioned symptoms in oneself or a loved one, it is recommended to resort to the help of a specialist.
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