How to part?

The problem of parting worries many people. Each of us, anyway, faced with the fact that the relationship ended forever. In this case, everyone wants the gap to be less painful for both parties. We will understand how to do it correctly.

Difficult questions sometimes confront people. One of them: how to behave and what to do to part correctly. There are a lot of answers to this question, because the cases are different. One breaks up because they could not get what they wanted from their partner. Others have met a new love. In the third version, this may be a mismatch of views. Some of the people are faced with the case of parting is not the first time.

When you decide to break the relationship with your other half, Try to make this process go smoothly and painlessly for both your partner and you. For this there are general techniques that you need to choose for your situation, to improve and put into practice. As soon as you begin to imagine a conversation with a person to whom you need to say something very unpleasant, then you immediately feel uneasy.

Believe me, when you are alone with yourself, you will pick up the most eloquent words and be able to convey your opinions to the addressee. Subsequently, they can learn by heart and say without much effort in person or by telephone. In another embodiment, your thoughts can be sent by mail via courier or write a personal message on a social network.

Out of love - say it immediately and irrevocably. So it will be much more honest and correct.

Then the question of parting will dissipate like fog. Do not hide from the problem. Some people (especially young boys and girls) begin to avoid their second half, so as not to give any explanation. This happens for various reasons. Some people fear the reaction of an offended person, others hope that everything will be formed by itself.

In these circumstances, you only make yourself worse. Your conscience will torment you, and you will suffer greatly from it. Look at the problem straight in the eyes and take a bold step. Explain everything to your former chosen one (s), and everything will fall into place.

You have met a new love. So often in life. There is nothing wrong with that. Tell about it directly to your former second half. From such news, a person will fall into a stupor, will experience shock, but it is this way that makes it clear that everything has ended between you.

Without hope, love will soon die. Your (a) ex-boyfriend (girlfriend) will not long regret and find a new love. When you decide to talk, do not forget to thank your past partner for what was between you. Let him be offended at you, but positive words will have a softening effect.Emotional people do not need to hide their emotionality in themselves. After the gap has occurred, weep, let off steam, and it will immediately make you feel better.

It often happens that you need to part with a person whom you love very much. There are explanations for this. The most common and only option is when you are dating a married man or a married woman.

Some part in this case because of a purely ethical question, others because they are tired of waiting for cardinal steps from their partner, for example, such as a divorce from his wife or husband.

Events usually develop like this: first, you do not attach much importance to the fact that meetings with the person you love happen spontaneously and hastily. On holidays you have to be alone or in a circle of unmarried friends or girlfriends. While your peers live in marriage and enjoy every day spent with their families.

Gradually, the pain increases as attachment occurs. You are waiting for meetings, and when they occur, you do not get the emotional satisfaction you expect. Because in a sexual relationship "you will not go far." Meetings between a man and a woman should be supported by some kind of spiritual connections and common interests. If they are not there, then there comes an unconscious cooling on the part of the one who is waiting for some offers from his married partner for complete rapprochement and marriage.

Resentment for yourself will also be a push to the realization that everything in your life is going wrong. Your married partner lives life to the fullest. Children grow up in his family, and the spouse does not know anything about you and is therefore pleased with everything (flax). And your watch is “ticking”; some of them still need to have a child. And how to do it, if you are not married (not married). You just need to start a family and be confident in tomorrow.

Therefore, your actions in this version are fully justified. In order for your former lover not to perceive the rejection as a personal insult, try to explain to him the reasons for which you need to go in different directions. Put the question so that he (she) himself (a) is guilty (a) that you made such a decision. You can no longer subject yourself to suffering and no longer want such superficial relationships.

This should be done carefully, but persistently. Let no persuasion from his (her) side can stop you breaking this worthless connection.

A partner is not quite a decent person, since he allowed himself to use you for his own purposes and deceive his soulmate.

If you are not married, although you have lived for a long time with your partner, then you need to think deeply about this situation, since it is unnatural. You need to have a normal family, where your legal guarantees will be present, and legitimate children will be born.

You due to certain circumstances were forced to live with a tyrant. He did not let go of you and dictated his terms of living together. You had nowhere to go and ask for help.

Remember that you should not tolerate humiliation from someone unworthy of you, and there will always be a way out if you only want this badly. If you do not have close relatives and friends who are able to help you, do not despair.There are special social centers where they help all people in need, including women in a difficult situation. Turning there, you will receive qualified support from all sides.

If you have parents, sisters, brothers, loyal friends, then the process of adaptation after parting will be much easier and calmer.

But this step is necessary to decide and overcome your fear. It’s impossible to tolerate your whole life. If such a relationship continues for a long time, then you begin psychosomatic phenomena. You will no longer perceive yourself as a person and may become physically ill.

You are not bound by marriage, and this makes it easier. In this case, just go away and let your roommate not know the address at which you are located. Further, when you complete the first action, proceed to the second - get rid of all the memories of this negative experience and begin to live again. You will definitely get lucky.

Another problem is joint life with a sociopath. For your information, this is a mentally unhealthy person who is unable to perceive social rules. Usually such individuals live by their own laws and are skillful manipulators. Your partner has suggested to you that the marriage is a relic, because it is beneficial to him.

He uses you for his own purposes, without thinking about your state of mind. In this case, it is necessary to end such abnormal relationships as quickly as possible. If you find it difficult to make a decision, then make an effort. Understand that there is nothing good in this connection.

So try to talk to the person and calmly explain the reason for your care. The conversation should be arranged in a public place, so that your former partner does not have the temptation to somehow harm you physically. Do not go into details of the reasons why you have to make this decision. Sociopath is so constituted that it will still not accept and understand your arguments. After the conversation, try to make sure that you no longer meet with each other.