One of the men does not know how to calm down her beloved and make her no longer jealous. And other representatives of the stronger sex are doing everything possible to bring such feelings to the wife. How to make a woman jealous and what consequences may arise - in our article.
Determine the main goal
Jealousy is a feeling that can either strengthen the relationship, or finally destroy them. It so happens that over the years, feelings between the spouses cool down, the relationship becomes less passionate, and at some point it seems that she has stopped loving you completely. Therefore, many men who are afraid of losing their beloved, are trying to cause jealousy in order to maintain relationships and bring in their former warmth.
Sometimes the feeling of jealousy helps to return even the former spouse. Whatever it was, before you make her jealous, you should determine for yourself what your main goal is, what you want to achieve in this way.
The most common reason is to attract attention. In the event that your other half has lost interest to you, has begun to devote less time to you, less often reciprocates your tenderness and affection, then jealousy may well help to return its attention. Having begun to be jealous of you to other representatives of the fair sex, she can see in you those features and virtues that you have not noticed before.
There is such a category of men who thus want to check the sincerity of the feelings of their partner, that is, if he sees that she is jealous of him, then he will definitely be convinced that his wife truly loves him.
Another category of men pursues completely different goals: they try to cause jealousy of the spouse only in order to bring some “zest”, novelty, into familiar relations. Over the years, relations between spouses develop according to the same scenario, and every day is similar to the previous one. And if you make her jealous, it is quite possible not only to refresh feelings, but also to bring passion, new emotions and sensations into the relationship. By the way, jealousy helps many spouses to fall in love with each other with a new force, helps to look at their soul mate differently and helps to renew feelings.
If a woman has ceased to take care of herself, has gained a bit of weight and has become completely indifferent to her own appearance, then jealousy may well shake her up. Therefore, many men, seeing such changes in their beloved, try to arouse jealousy in her, so that the spouse will have the motivation and desire to become even better than before.
To return the beloved - this may be another goal for which a man decides to take such a step. In the event that the initiator of the separation was exactly the woman, then the ex-husband tries to make her jealous and does everything possible to return her again.
Making her feel what he feels is another reason why a man can decide to make his wife jealous. Sometimes women are too jealous, even if the spouse is perfect and does not give any reasons for this. Therefore, to show her how he feels in such moments, the man is doing everything possible to make her in the same situation.
How to cause jealousy?
In order to make your soul mate jealous, you can use one of the methods, which we describe next. It is worth mentioning separately that all these methods are equally effective for both men and women.So, first of all, determine your goal for yourself, that is, decide for yourself what you are doing, and then act. Begin more often to tell your spouse about other women, for example, about co-workers, mutual friends or acquaintances. In your stories, mention the virtues and successes of these ladies. Such conversations should hurt your spouse and make her jealous, because no woman will be indifferent to being admired by others in her presence.
If the spouse has become more indifferent to you, then surely you do not miss a single chance to praise her, thank you and show her your admiration, but in the meantime she indifferently accepts thanks and compliments. To cause jealousy of your soul mate, you must completely change your attitude towards her, that is, stop praising her for a delicious dinner, for cleanliness in the house, for ironed shirt, etc. It is enough just to thank her dryly, saying only “thank you”. After a couple of days, she will definitely notice these changes in you, and you will achieve your goal.
In addition, you can drastically change not only your attitude or behavior, but also the lifestyle in general, for example, it is unexpected for her to start playing sports, follow the diet, get rid of bad habits, etc. Buy yourself a new shirt or perfume, longer linger at the mirror in the hall before work. Such changes in your spouse will notice and start to be jealous, thinking that you are trying for another woman.
Despite the fact that there are no past feelings, many spouses still actively control their men. If your spouse calls you several times a day to find out how you are and where you are now, then just do not answer part of her many calls to make her jealous. Skip a few calls, messages, and when you pick up the phone, just report that you are busy now and call back later. Such changes in relation to her will not go unnoticed, and the spouse will begin to be jealous.
During a quiet family evening, try to pay attention not to your soulmate, but to your mobile phone. Check your emails more often, open your page on social networks, smile mysteriously, reading even the most ordinary and boring posts. Believe me, your other half will not lose sight of this - she will definitely notice it, and in the end you will achieve your goal. While visiting with your wife, try to communicate more often with other girls, especially at those moments when she is closely watching you. Your communication with others or, perhaps, a slight flirtation, an innocent smile, a compliment to another woman in the presence of her spouse will surely make her jealous and look at you with different eyes.
If all of the above methods do not affect your soul mate, then you will have to resort to extreme measures. And these are traces of lipstick on clothes or the fragrance of other women's perfumes. Such a "evidence" notice any woman. And after the spouse gives you a scene of jealousy, try to behave calmly and in no case make excuses, otherwise spoil the whole result of your work.
Effects
Using all of the above methods, you can really easily cause jealousy in your second half. But it is necessary to think about what the consequences may be, because it is only necessary to bend the stick, and in the end the result may be completely different.
For example, if you initially know that your spouse is too vulnerable, takes everything to heart, is often offended by trifles and is very impressionable, then such actions on your part can seriously hurt her. In the end, by causing her jealousy, you can even more destroy everything that you want to keep. Therefore, before you decide on such a step, think carefully and, having only made sure that jealousy will help you to return your old feelings, act.
In the next video you will find a lecture on the psychology of jealousy from Mikhail Labkovsky.
