Jealousy is a bad feeling. But in difficult situations, it may even be useful. For example, when relations begin to cool or it is not at all clear what happens between two people and who they are to each other.
How to cause jealous?
In the current girl
If you have been dating for a very long time, you may notice that over time, both of you are sucked in by the bog of routine. There is already not enough of the previous excitement, the hunting instinct has disappeared somewhere, and serials and boring life have replaced him. Or your lady is a naturally phlegmatic person, and you are attracted by the storm, lightning and other natural disasters. In that case, jealousy is the very light that can rekindle your bonfire of love. The main thing - do not overdo it, but you risk being left alone.
To make a girl jealous, we need, in fact, an object for jealousy. Best of all, if the opponent will be fictional, because you should not expose other people. Think up and tell a story about a meeting in the bus, when a beautiful stranger looked at you with a languid look, note the details of her appearance that caught your attention and, of course, really liked. Come up with any story in which another woman laid eyes on you.
If your imagination is undeveloped, then tell about a real person, for example, a story about a colleague from work who is either smart, or beautiful, or invent something of his own. You should not give the selected person all the qualities of an ideal woman. First, your girlfriend will have a question, why are you still with her, and do not run to conquer your ideal. Secondly, you do not want your sweetheart to feel that she is not good enough for you. This can cause a lot of complexes - do not kill the self-esteem of a loved one.
Ask someone to call you and talk for a couple of minutes. During the conversation, behave so that your girlfriend knew that the other was calling. Or you can go to another room, and return in a beautiful mood, with a smile and luminous eyes. But do not forget to clear the call log, because if you are in the seventh heaven after the call "Lehi from the auto repair shop", this will cause some questions.
Important: if your other half is already jealous, then be prepared for a small scandal.
Option for especially dangerous guys: try to hint to the girl that you are going to the restaurant or the opera (anywhere) with another. A milder option is to call a joint pastime with another woman a business meeting or a meeting for work, as they do happen in life sometimes.
There are even tougher options, for example, to come from work much later than usual or to put passwords on all your phones and laptops, but this will significantly undermine the trust between you, and trust in relationships is the most important.
The next good step is to go somewhere a big company that has free girls. Pay attention to them, but do not cross the boundaries of what is permitted in order not to put your companion in an awkward position. Just say a couple - three compliments, listen carefully, pay all the attention of the female half. Do not choose a specific goal, be charming with everyone. Then your girl will understand how you can be wonderful.
An ideal variant is the accidentally opened and demonstrated correspondence in social networks with another girl. Many people write fake pages, so do not miss your chance to let your lady know that you are very attractive to other women. Even if fakes are not written, then such a page can be created by hiding your friend or yourself on the other side of the screen.
It is important to remember that you and only you know the nature of your soulmate and only you know whether she is ready to kill from one phone call or quietly lets go to the sauna with a former classmate. So the measure of the impact and the cruelty of the ways you define.
You should not try to cause jealousy in a purposeful and self-sufficient girl - she can seriously think about why she really needs a person who brings not joy, but doubt and negative emotions. With such a woman is much easier to sit down and discuss the situation.
Former girlfriend
If you and your ex-girlfriend have some kind of common influence or periodically come across, then first you need to communicate and flirt in front of her with another. If everything goes far, then you can start a relationship with this girl, again, bringing this information to your ex. Just do not forget to warn the new lady about your intentions.
Do not rush to delete the number of the former passion and block it - you can "by mistake" send a nice message, and then, after a certain amount of time (five to seven minutes will suffice), send a second message and apologize for an annoying misunderstanding.
Another assistant in this business is social networks. Yes, some girls like to browse through their ex-boyfriend pages and look for signs that indicate how he suffers. Wrap the situation in their favor - more happiness, joyful posts about new feelings and photos with other girls.
Now, why not block all pages of your ex-girlfriend. If you are determined to make her jealous, then turn to her for advice, for example, you can ask what gift you can give a new sweetheart. Try to fill your message with tenderness in relation to the new woman.
Know: if you broke up due to the fact that the girl lost interest in you, then these methods may not work. She may even be happy for you. In this case, it is worth thinking about the reason for cooling the feelings and thinking, or maybe the problem is in you?
On distance
It happens that your communication takes place only through the Internet and phone calls. It's okay if you lack the light of jealousy, then this is quite enough, especially for relationships at a distance.
The same ways can work as in normal relationships: a couple of compliments to another girl who casually betrayed your admiration, time spent in the company of other women (and photos!). At the same time, the real existence of the object of admiration or a meeting held is not necessarily - just mention it in the correspondence. The rest will make the fantasy of your soulmate.
Social networking is an incredibly powerful thing. Create a page of an unknown beauty, add yourself as a friend and leave a couple of flattering comments and likes on your page. Such activity will not go unnoticed. If you wish, you can replace the fake page with a real one, but do it at your own peril and risk.
You can send a photo of absolutely any girl, evaluate her external data or a rich inner world, and at the end say that this is your new colleague. Option to continue - put a photo where you are with this girl. Well, if it is with this does not work, then with any other.
If your girlfriend is used to the fact that you come home from work at seven in the evening, and at eight you sit at the computer and send hearts to her - change your plans and try to write much later. Your unforeseen delay will cause the lady of the heart to treat you not as a must, but as someone who has her own life, very interesting without her. Your value and importance will only increase after that.
Add a few new ladies as friends, hinting that one of them is writing, but don’t specify who it is - a small investigation and an attempt to find a rival will cause your loved one to evaluate their strengths and weaknesses, and if at the end of the experiment you tell your the second half, how wonderful she is and how much you love her, the positive response will be much stronger.
All tips for ordinary relationships work and for correspondence. The main thing is to turn on the fantasy and not overdo it.
The one who likes
In this case, jealousy is not a miracle cure and can work only if the girl either hides her feelings towards you or herself does not know about them. If you have tried everything (and even jealousy), and there is no more attention to you, then put up - you don’t like this girl, and the best thing you can do is respect her choice and stop the persecution.
Praise another girl, especially if the object of sigh is used to your compliments only in his address. It will be suddenly, and if a girl has at least sympathy for you, she will certainly be interested in another girl and your relationship.
Come together to a crowded place and start giving signs of attention to other ladies. Such a seemingly innocent thing can very quickly reveal true feelings for you. Again, all the tips work here, as if you were in a relationship - only you are allowed much more when flirting and interacting with others.
Reduce the amount of communication. For all the questions, keep silent or answer with hints that will allow you to think that you have less time due to the fact that it is occupied by another girl. Or get lost for a couple of days and do not answer calls. After the solemn return, communicate again with hints indicating the days full of romance on the other. The advantage of such an absence is that your potential lady will be bored and understand that she really misses you.
If your beloved is also your friend, then try to show the correspondence with another girl, ask for advice, tell us that you are going on a date with another, so that she will be glad for her friend.
The possibility of losing a person who is cute, will force a girl to reveal a real attitude to you, even against her will. Suddenly spoiled mood (which was spoiled after your plans), sadness - these are signs indicating true feelings. Or try to evaluate the new girl in a friendly way and share your impressions.
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