Scorpio and Cancer: a characteristic of the union of signs of Water and possible problems in relationships
Cancer and Scorpio are two representatives of one controlling water element. It would seem that such a pair is a classic example of the perfect compatibility of horoscopic signs, but even in their relations there exist their own pitfalls, be it the interaction of colleagues, lovers or parents and children. Knowledge of potential problems will help to harmoniously build relationships, avoiding potential sharp corners in relationships.
Characteristic marks
Cancers are born from June 22 to July 22 under the influence of water. Their patron planet is the moon. She determines the mysterious nature and depth of their wards. Cancers are capable of great feelings, but they are usually hidden under the thick shell of coldness and a few contempt for people. In fact, a very vulnerable person, kind-hearted and gentle, lives under external indifference. It is these qualities and the fear of being deceived, hurt by the living that makes representatives of the sign so carefully hide their feelings and spiritual impulses.
Those born under the constellation of Cancer are extremely distrustful, have a rather limited circle of friends and do not let strangers into their dwelling.
It is about them saying: "My home is my fortress." In this case, the Cancers are truly domovitov, this is the most zealous owners and skillful hostesses. All that is possible is carried into the house to improve it, creating comfort and coziness for the whole family.
They do not like such people and loneliness, so they try to have a family. This is one of the most prosperous partners among the signs of the zodiac for creating a family, with a rather complicated partner for interpersonal relations. Due to their natural mistrust and secrecy, their nature is not immediately revealed. Crayfish are too deep in themselves and their experiences, which, however, are in no hurry to talk to their half. The partner accepts this attitude and soon gets tired of having to guess about the thoughts and mood of Cancer. He may step aside, but a touchy watermark will not forgive this and may even harbor vengeful malice.
For a harmonious union, Cancer needs a patient and understanding partner who will not pressure, and with a positive will periodically pull out of the attacks of melancholy and bad mood. However, the wards of the Moon should sometimes be left alone with their thoughts. In this case, the main thing is to make it clear that you did not abandon them to independently deal with your problems, but you are always there and are able to help.
This is a sign of very emotional and sensitive natures, sometimes even to sentimentality. They have developed an intuition, thanks to which they unmistakably feel possible problems and troubles in their lives. They understand in advance that the relationship will be doomed or that you should not get involved with an individual. They also feel quite everyday dangers: they won't get behind the wheel if they are tormented by bad forebodings.
Under the sign of Scorpio are born from October 24 to November 22 under the control of the planets Pluto and Mars. The most common horoscope characterizes these people as very active, irresistible, courageous and purposeful. Like the Cancers, they are endowed with enviable intuition and emotionality. Another common feature that unites signs is extreme jealousy.It has a very negative impact on the relationship, especially since in most cases it is not grounded or supported by facts.
Idealism, secrecy and prudence make it difficult to build relationships with them both at the initial stage and in a closer period. Scorpio will try to prick with the caustic sting of ridicule or sudden checks.
They are very mistrustful, not less than Rakov, and big owners in relation to everyone who is at least close to them.
In this water sign, passions and emotions are strangely combined with cold calculation and sobriety of the mind. In the career of such a person can achieve a lot, but in his personal life it will be difficult to find a person to whom Scorpio can fully open. Because of this, there is a series of dubious novels and love failures, after which the representatives of the sign become even more incredulous.
Despite a number of negative traits, this sign is very popular among others due to its boiling energy and charisma. They can easily inspire the team with their ideas, and then cool down to their own projects. So their peculiar changeable character is shown, because the mood of Scorpio can change ten times a day. Inconsistency and hot temper - the main enemies of the sign on the way to build harmonious relationships with others. They are too intolerant of other people's weaknesses and demanding of people, which is why they themselves suffer because of their hypertrophied idealism.
Compatibility in love
It can be said that both representatives of the zodiacal circle are very lucky if they can meet each other at an early age. It will save the guy and the girl from trial and error in unsuccessful relationships. If there are pairs that are one hundred percent compatible, then this is Scorpio and Cancer. The beginning of their relationship is usually very bright. About such novels write books and make films. They are drawn to each other with insane force, and in their relationship they simply cease to notice those around them.
Due to the fact that partners and in bed are perfect for each other, they can spend (if possible) together just weeks. Then, however, there may be a period of misunderstanding and chilling. If relationships develop along this path, it is very important for the couple to try as calmly as possible to survive this first difficult period. Then they can build a long-term strong relationship.
It will be easy for any of them to conquer a representative of the elemental element, because they literally breathe in unison. Common interests, goals and similar views on life - they are united by too much, and they understand each other literally from half a word. Relationships in such a pair are based on the intuitive feeling of the partner and his in-depth requests.
This is quite simply possible for representatives of one element endowed with fantastic intuition.
Well, if in a love relationship a man is Scorpio, and a woman is Cancer. They will form an archetypical model of relations between representatives of opposite sexes. Purposeful and seductive man Scorpio will be able to conquer the quiet and homely girl of Cancer with his charisma, intelligence and reliability. The only thing that he should not at first behave too aggressively and assertively, as this can scare away the careful lady of the heart.
Both in this pair do not have rose-colored glasses, and they are able to soberly evaluate each other. Everyone sees the shortcomings of a partner and loves him with all the features of character, because even his negative sides are compared with his weaknesses and are able to pity the other in a relationship, taking his place. Such a union is attractive because it gives both spiritual development and genuine feelings.
If the couple is a woman - Scorpio, and the man - Cancer, then you can get a rather interesting relationship, if she shows a little wisdom. An active and restless person will be annoyed from the very beginning by the slowness of the partner, his dull mood periods. In addition, she will, most likely, push the chosen one in the business field, strive to promote him. Possible struggle for the role of the principal in the relationship. Formally and in fact it will be a female Scorpio. Such a situation, with all the softness of Cancer, will disfigure his male ego.
To harmonize relations, Scorpio will have to demonstrate feminine wisdom and push the companion to the desired actions not so aggressively and more imperceptibly. She herself will have to become softer, at least outwardly. A man in this duet is sometimes worth also listening to the aspirations and wishes of his companion. Then the combination of their strongest qualities will make both of them only more successful. They are always ready to help each other out by substituting the right and reliable shoulder.
Cancer and Scorpio have some not quite attractive features. Both are terrible jealous, even if the second half is quite reliable. They are pretty touchy and vindictive, and Scorpio gets offended more. Even a bad joke can lead him to a bad mood.
Cancers usually quietly and silently accumulate their offense, moving away from their partner, while his brother in elemental situations just waits for a convenient moment, saving up anger, in order to get revenge stronger on occasion.
Perspective of family life
If in some way the paths of these representatives of the water element intersect, then they can make a very strong married couple to envy many. Their relationship can begin with an acquaintance in the park or on the shore of a quiet pond, where both both love to walk, and continue for many decades. They will even bring together the general preferences in pastime. Along with noisy companies, both will be happy to spend time in a cozy house with their half or in nature.
Marriage in all situations will always support each other, no matter what happens. They clearly understand their goals and see a shared future. This union is supported by a solid material foundation, because such a tandem can do the impossible. Spouses will not fight and brave each other with their successes. Everyone clearly knows his role and performs the functions most suitable for his abilities and abilities. Scorpio copes with making money, and thrifty Cancer multiplies and prudently uses the financial resources of the family.
Sexual compatibility of spouses is quite prosperous. Scorpios are wonderful lovers, passionate and sensual, inclined to experiment. Making love is their element. They will appreciate the subtle sensuality of Cancer, which is hidden behind the external modesty and at first restrained behavior. Cancer woman does not immediately reveal to her partner, but will appreciate his sophistication in bed. Male Cancer has no less potential than Scorpio, but is rarely able to talk about his desires and fantasies. He will be grateful to his bold and relaxed partner.
A husband born under the constellation of Cancer is an ideal family man, a model of nobility and kindness. He simply lives the life of his family, her smallest everyday needs, adores his wife and pampers children. The continuation of the kind, the preservation of traditions - for him the meaning of life. With great pleasure he will spend evenings in the family circle than with friends. His half, born under the sign of Scorpio, on the contrary, can be carried away, start a little meaningless intrigue. At the same time, Raku should not fear for its honor - the wife will always be faithful to him. She will be able to set a lot of bold ideas and push for their implementation, to give fire to the relationship. The only thing you should not play with is with the confidence of Cancer.
Undermining it once, it will be difficult to recover.
A Scorpio man can be a reliable, but difficult in nature companion of life.Often he manifests outbursts of anger and aggression, which can be perceived very painfully by his wife. Quiet, caring, she does not deserve such behavior. And Scorpio, of course, appreciates her work on the arrangement of the general life and contribution to the general family business. He should not neglect the peace of mind girlfriend. But for her loyalty you can vouch. Although she is successful in men, she is simply incapable of betrayal, because she has the deepest emotional and emotional attachment to her partner.
The couple easily overcomes minor family troubles, just not considering the possibility of quarreling over trifles. Their best assistant in the fight against misunderstanding is a good sense of humor. The ability to translate a grievance or a looming conflict into a joke, it is easier to relate to certain things for this married couple. However, here we must be more careful, as both are very proud. It is necessary to distinguish a friendly joke from evil irony, the desire to prick or ridicule the identity of a loved one. They should not go to extremes, because then, balancing on the basis of the golden mean, the husband and wife can live in love, happiness and respect for many years.
The only weak side of such a union is the tendency of the signs of the zodiac to get involved in something, to become addicted. They need to be moderate in everything: bad habits, sex, gambling. With the pernicious propensity of one partner with a high probability, the second will turn into his path. Immoderation in everything, dishonesty and promiscuity in relationships can destroy a family.
Friendship relationship
Such people do not believe in friendship between a man and a woman, but it is precisely with these signs that it exists. They can carry it all their lives, having become friends in a garden or elementary school. And it will be a truly pure relationship, not clouded by the hopes of one of them for further rapprochement. Of course, it is possible that such a friendship will grow into love with time, but only with the mutual desire of both.
If one of the friends has views on the other, being in a pair, then, rather, he will break the friendship, but will not break the relationship. They are very comfortable together, because to understand each of them no one else can so strongly.
Ideal if friends do not attract each other as members of the opposite sex.
Strong friendships are possible due to the large amount of time spent together, because their hobbies and interests are as similar as possible. They feel each other literally at some subtle level, not always understandable to others. Cancer and Scorpio are very open with each other, they can always tell their friend what they think. At the same time they will try to do it so tactfully so as not to hurt the feelings. Ready to help at any time, they know exactly who they can count on in return.
Interaction in the work
The best combination in the working relationship will be the head of Scorpio and subordinate Cancer. Good and a duet of equal colleagues of these signs. Together they are capable of much, as they are hardworking, active, purposeful and persistent. Each has its own advantages and important business skills. Both, working in close tandem, can compensate for each other’s missing skills.
So, Raku takes a long time to get up to speed. He hardly makes decisions, but he copes well with painstaking and repetitive work. It will make a good financier under the general director of Scorpio. It is important for cancer that he has enough time to become fully familiar with the situation and draw up his own competent opinion.
Scorpio is quick and agile, can sketch a plan for a future project and immediately transfer it to his business partner for execution, immediately losing interest in the work. He is in a hurry to get as much new information, contacts and opportunities for the realization of his grandiose ideas.
Compatibility in the business of these zodiac signs is simply excellent. Together they can bypass their competitors far away, since they will not compete and fight for a place under the sun. Their energy will be better directed to the creative channel and to the solution of working issues. The combination of the creative abilities of Cancer and the rational rationalism of Scorpio favorably distinguishes them from many. Thanks to the ability to understand each other literally in their views, they save a lot of time and are able to quickly resolve any situation, because there is no need to prove or explain something for a long time.
Child-parent relationship
Cancers and Scorpios are wonderful parents, caring for their young offspring with care and trembling. The problem of understanding with your own children can be the same character traits that prevent harmony and their mutual union.
Scorpios - owners who are very demanding on the child.
It comes to the point that they tend to dictate everything to children: from choosing a hobby and future profession to social circle and friends. Cancers are too disturbing parents who literally shake from every breeze and sneeze of a baby. They strive to create maximum comfort and coziness, providing the child with everything necessary, caring and guiding his interests.
Scorpio should put less pressure on the child and give him a choice. Let the little man make his mistakes, especially if they are not so serious. The desire of the Scorpion perfectionist to give all possibilities for the realization of a son or daughter is commendable, but often such a parent embodies his unrealized ambitions for some reason.
Cancer, by contrast, is too democratic. In the desire to become a child's friend is still worth remembering about moderation. No less important than freedom and self-expression, the ability to understand the rules of behavior in society and respect for the authority of elders.
Possible conflicts
Despite the impressive compatibility, even in such a harmonious couple from time to time problems can arise. Knowing about the possible difficulties in the relationship, partners will be able to work on themselves and start looking for points of contact even before misunderstanding and conflicts arise on this basis.
According to the spouses, Cancer often behaves like a hidden aggressor. He does not scream and does not offend the opponent, but is inclined to arrange emotional blackmail. Without expressing directly their point of view, such a partner will complain that they do not like him, do not understand and do not appreciate. Scorpio during quarrels in order to avoid this effect should be more restraint, which can be difficult for the representatives of the sign to be sharp.
Both satellites are often fraught with insults, inwardly even more inflamed. Under external decency they can hide volcanoes of anger and indignation. Psychologists recommend that such a husband and wife communicate more and not conceal dissatisfaction with various aspects of family life, until it has accumulated to develop into a big scandal.
Despite the reasonable attitude to the money of both, yet in the family may have differences in this matter. Crayfish are very economical, even stinginess. They will not spend an extra penny on themselves, but they will always find finances for what is necessary for the family. Scorpio is less sensitive to money. He is able to earn, but also spends more easily.
This angered his zealous partner, especially if Scorpio did not agree with his spouse in large spending.
In general, Cancer and Scorpio, despite minor inconsistencies, are very similar, can easily find harmony and come to mutual understanding in relationships. A strong alliance will strengthen the overall family business and traditions that both signs so fond of. With proper desire and strong love, they will be able to overcome any difficulties in life.
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