34 years of marriage: features and traditions of the anniversary, tips on choosing gifts

Within thirty-four years of marriage, the couple creates their own atmosphere. It is quite comfortable, and no one has a desire to change it. The life experience gained in the process of building a cell of society becomes valuable luggage that can be passed on to your children and grandchildren.

This significant date is called the amber wedding, because the relationship of the spouses ripen to perfect form, like amber. It is his properties that characterize the relationship between a man and a woman at 34 years of marriage. Few manage to overcome this milestone, save their relationship and not lose affection and respect for each other. The actions committed at the beginning of the marriage union no longer cause negative memories, and 34 years of marriage turned their mutual relations into understanding without words.

Amber is a gemstone, obtained by hardening resin of coniferous trees. This metamorphosis takes quite a long time, and the result is a mineral of perfect form. This solar stone has an amazing color range - from yellow-red to almost black. The color of the frozen resin symbolizes solar energy, it is a pleasure to hold it in your hands. It is inherent strength and hardness, and such are the relations of the spouses.

The stone has long been known in Russia, since ancient times it was reset to amulets and amulets. There is a belief that he protects from evil and adversity, harmonizes the biofield. The couple managed to overcome numerous difficulties, survive quarrels and conflicts. So amber is also under the influence of natural forces in order to become stronger and more reliable. If the spouses had foreseen how many obstacles to home happiness they would have to overcome, they would accept them with gratitude - after all, this only strengthened their union even more.

Each year together is a reason for joy and celebration. Not every couple has such an impressive experience behind them, as 34 years. No wonder each anniversary has its own name and symbolic value. The celebration of this joyful event often takes place in the family circle or in private, as the date is not round. Many celebrate this significant day in a big way, inviting friends and loved ones to a restaurant.

But even in this case, a homely and cozy atmosphere will create an atmosphere of unity of family ties. The choice of location depends on the preferences and financial possibilities of the initiators of the celebration. Guests choose clothes in orange tones. Newlyweds will complement their image with accessories of yellow flowers. His wife will have an elegant dress with golden inserts. Decoration of the holiday table and interior should be objects of honey color. The table is covered with a golden tablecloth and a subdued lighting with warm light is installed. Elegant garlands of the corresponding palette will add charm to the room.

At the festive table, attendance is required:

• yellow and orange vegetables and fruits;
• dishes from sea fish, as amber is mined on the seashore;
• red wine;
• sweets;
• compositions of bright colors;
• candles of solar tones.

The couple, who retained intimacy and tenderness in a couple, will be happy to accept congratulations and share their joy with their families. On this solemn day, it is important to utter pleasant words and express wishes for a long family life. The culprits of the celebration are shared with close warm memories of past years.The cries of "bitter" will periodically interrupt the course of the holiday, and the kiss of the newlyweds should last 34 minutes. On this day, the couple update the oaths of loyalty, re-confessing to each other in love and loyalty.

Symbolic will be products made of amber, personifying the strength of marriage bonds. If the pair requires more mundane things, pay attention to household items. Choosing a gift, it is better to stick to the amber color palette. It can be:

• jewelry with amber - earrings, rings, pendants, cufflinks;
• interior items with amber chips - vases, figurines;
• bed linens or sand-colored bedspreads;
• dishes in the autumn colors - tea set, a set of plates, salad bowl;
• indoor plants with yellow flowers;
• honey as the owner of an amber color palette;
• photo printing - mugs or t-shirts;
• family photo session; autumn landscape will work well as a background;
• photograph of the newlyweds in the frame of saffron color;
• lighting devices - chandeliers, lamps;
• signs of attention that will remain in the memory for a long time - an invitation to the theater, to the exhibition, to the cinema, to the suburban trip.

Consider text greetings to the smallest detail, make them sincere and touching to the depths of the soul. Rehearse your speech in advance. Use epithets and metaphors, poems of various kinds, connecting the wedding anniversary with the properties of amber.

By tradition, on the anniversary of the husband and wife exchanged products from amber. The best offerings will be jewelry made in an interesting design. A man will be happy to receive a tie clip or key chain. A good option would be an unusual pendant or cigarette case.

It is not necessary to give precious things. If your spouse has a hobby, express respect for him with a practical gift. Items for fishing or hunting, sports equipment, computer gadgets - there are no restrictions for your imagination.

It is believed that men are the best cooks. If your husband is one of them, then the kitchen utensils will give him double pleasure, because he will certainly be able to thank you with an exquisite dish prepared especially for you.

A good option is to attend together any courses or workshops (cooking, drawing, pair dancing), because the greatest happiness is a joint activity. If your husband is an incorrigible romantic, arrange a romantic date for him in a restaurant, then take a walk, holding hands, on a moonlit night at home. An alternative is to ride a horse or a boat.

If your wife loves jewelry, it's a little easier here. Give her a ring with a stone or a set of earrings. Many ladies will gladly accept as a gift a pendant or bracelet. Inlaid box for storing small trinkets will suit your half. Do not limit your imagination. An original and memorable gift will delight her for many years.

You can organize a romantic trip to a place that the lady of your heart wants to visit. Any travel agency will offer you a trip to your taste with a visit to attractions. This will be your next honeymoon.

A very touching thing will be a letter written by your spouse, with declarations of love and admiration. You may not be a writer, but your half will remember your message for life.

In the morning, prepare your life partner breakfast as a sign of gratitude for happiness and harmony in the family, for care and affection.

Gifts from children are perhaps the most valuable and expensive for the hearts of elderly newlyweds. Knowing perfectly the tastes and preferences of parents, they will manage to choose the most successful gift. After all, this is not only a gift, but also a sign of admiration for their mom and dad. Express to them your boundless gratitude for a wonderful example of warmth and devotion.

Fashionable in our time is a video greeting. Such creativity always causes violent emotions and delight. Here you can include children's photos, pictures of family chronicles, interviews of relatives and friends. A well-chosen musical accompaniment will not leave anyone indifferent.

A beautifully inlaid frame for a common photo or an exquisitely decorated family album can be a delightful surprise. It is not difficult to find in the store a money tree with leaves of golden stone. The main thing is to put it in the sunny part of the dwelling in order to reveal all the shades of the precious stone.

On this memorable date, you can bring joy to your parents and present a certificate for a massage or tickets for a trip together where they have long wanted to go.

The idea to make a gift with your own hands is very successful. They put their soul into such gifts and make them with great love. Parents love to receive souvenirs made by their own children.

You can organize a festive event with competitions and dances. Invite parents on a trip out of town, organize a picnic. Creative people can decorate a beautiful wall with images of the brightest moments of a couple's life. Such a work will pleasantly surprise and inspire the heroes of the occasion to romance. Autumn newlyweds present a self-made bouquet of maple leaves with sprigs of rowan.

If you can knit, knit a symbolic soft toy, scarves, hats and mittens in a sandy color palette.

An example of an interesting gift for a husband, made with your own hands, see below.