35 years of marriage together: what kind of wedding is it and how is it celebrated?

Wedding is a very important event in the life of two loving hearts. This day will forever remain in the memory of a couple in love. In addition, every year this date becomes a special holiday that I want to celebrate together or with family and friends, enjoying this special day. Any wedding anniversary is special, has its own unusual name, symbolism, original customs. The more years the lovers have lived together, the stronger the objects that are symbols of the anniversary. It is worthwhile to consider in more detail the 35th anniversary of the wedding, what is special about it, how to celebrate it, and what is best to give.

Thirty-five years of marriage is a pretty weighty date. During this time, the couple was able to pass the joys and sorrows, ups and downs. They already have children who, most likely, have already got their own families. The thirty-fifth anniversary of the wedding is quite weighty date. "Newlyweds" deserve admiration, because they managed to save their love and go through a large part of their lives.

Anniversary 35 years from the date of the wedding has three names.

• Plain Spouses who entered into marriage 35 years ago are often associated with the canvas, because their love can be described as strong and reliable. Everyone knows that the production of canvas - it is very hard work that requires attention and effort. So, family life - to live together for so many years, you need to be able to listen to each other, make compromises.
• Coral. This wedding anniversary received such an unusual and beautiful name, since it is compared with this stone. Corals slowly but surely grow, forming at first reefs, and then even large islands. And also the coral outwardly resembles a green tree. Comparing the coral with the life of the "newlyweds", it is worthwhile to draw a parallel: the couple already has children, and, possibly, grandchildren, which is associated with the branches.
• Jade. This is another name of the wedding, from the day which passed 35 years. Nephrite is a fairly durable stone that is not so easy to split, it is worth a lot of effort. For this reason, the wedding anniversary of a couple who have lived together for 35 years is so beautifully called.

One of the symbols of this holiday is exactly flax linen, because it personifies the strength of family ties, the true feelings of the spouses. This holiday was called jade or coral in Western countries, including the United States. For this reason, in the West as a symbol of this celebration acts jade or coral.

Thirty-five years from the date of the wedding - this is a very important celebration, because during this time two people survived quite a lot: both pleasant and sad, managed to get children, adjusted life, “wipe” each other. Already, it is possible to say with precision that all this time has been lived for good reason, that people really love each other and have been able to carry this love after so many years.

Any wedding anniversary is distinguished by its unusual traditions that have been passed down from generation to generation for many centuries.Of course, part of the traditions is forgotten, the other is preserved, the main thing is to understand their essence in order to fully understand the importance of such a celebration. At the time of Kievan Rus, the symbol of the 35th anniversary of the wedding was canvas, which personified strength, comfort, mutual respect and harmony in the family. It is worth noting that the canvas in Ancient Russia was a talisman of the Slavs, therefore it was always in high esteem. On this day, it is necessary that the "newly-weds" be surrounded by linen things, you can even put on linen clothes.

Another symbol of 35 years from the date of the wedding is coraltherefore it is worth using bright objects when decorating a celebration. "Newlyweds" managed to build for 35 years a strong and happy family, which is associated with a coral reef. But their family is made up of many litters, grievances and disagreements, pleasant surprises, important decisions, happy moments.

Since ancient times, there is a rather interesting tradition, according to which a young couple should spend the night before the 35th anniversary apart. They can spend the night either with friends or with relatives, but the ideal option is, of course, with their parents. Everyone should take a special thing with him that will remind him of his soul mate. An interesting fact is that many people are quite emotionally experiencing even such a small separation, because before that, perhaps, they did not even part. Some "newlyweds" is very hard to observe this tradition.

The next morning they meet, joyful after seeing each other. It is then that they should ask each other for forgiveness for all the insults, disappointments and unpleasant moments in their life together. This ritual should be conducted in private. An excellent solution would be a romantic place. If the holiday will be held in nature near the river or lake, then it is possible that the "newlyweds" gave their speeches on the boat away from everyone else.

After forgiveness, it is worth washing your hands in water in order to clear it up and then float a plain scarf of scarlet or green color. This procedure is also a fairly important tradition. After that, the couple can return to the guests and start celebrating the anniversary of their life together.

Observing tradition, you should pay attention to the clothes of the husband and wife. Dresses should be festive, bright accents are welcome. For registration of the venue of the event should be used exclusively linen fabrics, it is better to forget about synthetic ones.

Celebrating 35 years of life together should be very bright, rich and noisy. On the holiday should invite a lot of guests, including relatives, friends, acquaintances. For a celebration you can order a restaurant, although a chic holiday can be done at home. To emphasize the 35th anniversary, it is worth using different attributes. In the first place - it is red and flax. So, tablecloths on the table should be made of flax, it is better to put expensive red wine with a long-term exposure on the table, ideal - if it was made 35 years ago.

If there are a lot of friends on the holiday, then you should take care of the leader, you should call him in advance. He is perfectly able to organize a celebration, and will also provide fun for all guests. If you have the desire and strength, you can independently make the program of the evening, inventing various contests and entertainment, but usually the “newlyweds” want to enjoy the holiday rather than entertain friends.

It is worth considering some of the most successful solutions.

• Retro party. This holiday will allow the "newlyweds" to plunge into the years of youth.An excellent choice would be to recreate a wedding that took place 35 years ago. It is necessary to warn guests in advance so that they can properly prepare: to choose the outfits and hair styles of those years. The car "newlyweds" can be decorated with a doll, putting it on the hood. When choosing a car, you should give preference to the "Volga", because earlier this car was in great demand. When choosing alcoholic beverages should prefer homemade alcohol: wine, tincture and moonshine. Do not forget about the music, because it allows you to recreate the atmosphere of past times. A good addition will be a competitive program. It is necessary to hold old contests that are quite rare today: dancing on a newspaper, singing drinking songs, handing over bottles to each other, and much more.

• Holiday in the style of Chicago. The era of luxurious women, brutal gangsters and influential mafia will be an excellent choice for creating a party in honor of the 35th anniversary of married life. Women should wear bright, shiny dresses, and as a decoration on the head choose a ribbon with a feather. For men, formal suits with butterflies and, of course, elegant hats are perfect. The table is better to arrange in the form of a buffet table. Perfect small tartlets and canapes. When choosing alcohol, preference should be given to balsam, vermouth and whiskey. As entertainment suitable various gambling. And, of course, do not forget about the musical accompaniment. In this case, the ideal choice is jazz.

• Masquerade. You can choose a specific theme of a masquerade ball by organizing a celebration in the chosen style. Every guest should come in a suit, not forgetting about the mask. You can choose any character, for example, from your favorite movie or fairy tale. The choice remains for everyone. And as entertainment, you can ask each guest to make a thumbnail, depending on the character you choose.
• Holiday according to the traditions of another country. You can celebrate the 35th anniversary of living together in the form of another wedding, but in order to bring in diversity, you can hold it according to the traditions of another country. An Indian wedding will look spectacular, because Indian films are known to everyone. Husband should definitely have a turban on his head, and his wife should wear a bright sari. Spouses will be able to once again utter oaths of love, to exchange flower necklaces with each other. Indian music in the background will give the holiday a flavor. You can use the traditions of another country, but it is worth remembering that this option is suitable for those celebrations where there are few guests, and financial capabilities allow it to be held.

You can celebrate the 35th anniversary of a married couple in nature. Of course, this is not an extravaganza, but a great option for people who love an active lifestyle. Picnic in nature - the best choice in the warm season. Swimming, cycling can be used as entertainment. But in the winter you can go to the ski resort, go not only on skis, but also on skates or sleighs with horses.

If the "newlyweds" want to spend the holiday in a small company, you can arrange a quiet family dinner, which will come only the closest friends and relatives. In such an atmosphere, you can enjoy viewing old wedding photos, hold a new photo session, watch an old movie or dance to your favorite music.

But the real romantics, of course, want privacy, to be together, take a break from the hustle and bustle of the home. In this case, you can two go to a restaurant, where you can relax with live music. If there is an opportunity, then it is worth going to some significant place and celebrating an anniversary there. And, of course, do not forget about the journey, because this is an excellent reason to spend a few days together.To go to the country that you wanted to visit for a long time, but did not have enough time or money.

It is customary to give presents for each holiday and, of course, gifts should be presented on the anniversary of 35 years of marriage. First, the spouses give each other something special, and then they also get shared gifts from relatives and friends. When choosing a gift, you should first of all be guided by the taste preferences of the "heroes" of the celebration, but also not forget about the symbolism of the holiday.

It is customary to congratulate the "newlyweds" on their 35th anniversary of marriage with various interior items that will help ensure comfort and harmony.

And also fit utensils, curtains and tablecloths. Textile gifts can be embroidered. The initials of the couple will help to make the gift unusual and special. You can choose a stylish vase or statuette, which will be made of jade or coral.

A man must congratulate his beloved on such an important date in their marital life. It is worth starting from the name of the wedding, which option is closer to them. If we consider the anniversary as a coral one, then it is possible to present luxurious beads from corals or a magnificent bouquet of 35 scarlet roses. To congratulate your spouse on a jade wedding, it is worth choosing an ornament from this stone, it will become a symbol of this holiday.

A gift from a husband must be original, convey his feelings. Of course, the ideal option is if it is done by hand, because it is a kind of message to the wife, in which love, care and tenderness should be conveyed. It is better to forget about pots and pans, because such a gift can not be called special. It is better to present your beloved beautiful jewelry, exquisite perfume or charming underwear. A woman should feel important and loved. If it is difficult for a man to pick up a gift of this kind, then today you can purchase a gift certificate in various shops where the wife can choose a gift on her own. If possible, a ticket to your favorite singer is a gesture worthy of attention. And, of course, women always like spa treatments, so every woman will appreciate the certificate of visiting a stylist or cosmetologist.

If a woman is quite easy to please with a gift, then a man is much more difficult. It is necessary that the gift given him be surprised that it is not so easy to do. A woman should know very well the tastes of her man, so that her gift would be important and desirable for him. If you start from traditions, then for 35 years the wife can give her husband as a symbol of this holiday coral, jade or a shirt made of linen. But such gifts are unlikely to surprise a man.

It is better to build on the hobbies of his partner. For example, if a man likes to fish, then a fashionable fishing pole, equipped with various details, is sure to please him. A football fan can buy a ticket for the next match. If the spouse is interested in sports, he will be delighted with the subscription to the gym. Men who dress in an office style can get refined cufflinks to their shirts. And of course, expensive perfume is also a pretty good choice.

For such a long period, the spouses already have a common circle of friends who have become like relatives to them. Close friends know anniversaries fairly well, so choosing a worthy gift for them should not be a big deal. On this day, the couple can be presented with a beautiful object for the interior. For example, a great choice would be household appliances, because they know exactly what else their close friends don't have.A luxurious picture on a specific theme will also not leave the “newlyweds” indifferent. And, of course, the service can also be presented on this day. The main thing is to have a gift with all my heart, and then the couple could remember this day together, when they would drink a cup of tea from the service or admire the painting on the wall.

Anniversaries already have their own family. They have children, and some have grandchildren. The closest people necessarily want to present a worthy, unusual and necessary gift to their relatives. Children can please their parents with the fact that they will undertake the organization of the holiday, because you should spend a lot of strength and nerves to make a magnificent event. They should choose a place in advance, invite guests, book a table, arrange a venue and so on. Of course, parents will be aware that this cannot be called a surprise, but it will be a big help, which they will definitely appreciate.

If there is an opportunity for children, then it is worth giving a trip to the anniversary participants. A luxurious gift will be a trip to the coral islands. Wealthy people can congratulate their parents and more expensive gifts - to give an apartment or cottage. Or just buy something that parents dreamed for a long time, but could not afford to buy. This gesture will be the best gift for them.

If it is not possible to surprise your parents with an expensive gift, then it is worthwhile to choose the option that the “newlyweds” will like, will cause joyful emotions. A great gift will be memories. That is, you can make an album or collage with photos from the lives of your parents, you can record a small video, where not only photos will be used, but also small video greetings from loved ones themselves. Photos must be alive, transmit emotions, mood or significant events in the life of the spouses.

If parents love animals, then you can give a small pet. A small bird or aquarium fish will be a common occupation for them. The children have already grown and left their father's house, and now the pet will become an outlet for them. They will be able to give him their care and affection. And if the spouses have a cottage, then you can consider the option with a tree. It can be planted on the day of the holiday, and then every year to watch him, as it grows and grows stronger. A tree can be a symbol of their love and family.

It is not necessary to give practical and useful gifts, because you can present as many original gifts that surprise anniversaries. It should only be a fantasy, then their 35th anniversary of the joint wedding will be unforgettable. It is worth considering a few more unusual greetings.

• Emotions as a gift. Things are material, sooner or later they become useless. But emotions and feelings - it is forever. To evoke strong emotions, a great gift will be a balloon flight, horseback riding, spa treatments, dance lessons and much more.
• Collage. Photos always convey a lot of emotions, and if you arrange them as a collage, you can make a whole story. You can use old photos, find those where they are still small. An excellent choice would be to design a wall newspaper on which you can write congratulations to the "newlyweds." The choice remains for the designers.
• Handmade gifts. Such a gift will surely cause a storm of emotions among the "heroes" of the celebration. If you have creative abilities, you can draw a portrait of the “newlyweds” yourself, bake a cake, make a beautiful embroidery in the form of a picture or a doll in the form of a married couple, and much more.
• Poems and songs. You can congratulate the anniversary with your own poem or sing a song with which the spouses have many memories. If you yourself can not make a beautiful verse, then you can turn to professional professionals for help, and read it at a party.

Photos always remain in memory, so a photo session as a gift will be very useful.Such a celebration as the 35th anniversary of living together is sure to capture. It is necessary to organize a photo session, then the anniversaries will be able, if they wish, to revise it and again get a lot of positive emotions. First, you should think about the venue of the photo shoot, pick a professional, choose a theme, prepare the necessary props.

When organizing a photo shoot for the 35th anniversary of living together, you should pay attention to several ideas.

• Outdoors. This option is suitable for any time of year, since nature acts as a finished decoration. You can call anniversaries to the park, where they like to walk, to the place of their meeting or first date. An excellent choice would be to photograph near the lake or against the backdrop of urban landscapes. Such photos always look bright, fresh and dynamic.
• In a studio. This version of the photo shoot has an undeniable advantage - the shooting will take place in any weather. A professional always organizes the right lighting, will help you choose the necessary decorations and paraphernalia. Beautifully look photos on the background of home furnishings - a lighted fireplace, a soft sofa and joy in the eyes of lovers. You can organize a photo session in any style, for example, rustic, retro or romantic.
• Houses. To make a photo session, you should make a lot of effort and time, sometimes “newlyweds” find it difficult to transfer such a tedious task when they are taken somewhere, then they tell how to pose and make them smile. In this case, it is better to invite the photographer home. Spouses will be able to do the usual things during the shooting without straining.

When organizing the celebration of the 35th anniversary of the wedding day, due attention should be paid to table setting and the choice of food, because you want everything to be perfect on this day. The main decoration of the table, of course, is the cake. It will be an unforgettable culmination of the holiday. It is better to order a cake in advance, while taking into account the number of invited guests, because it should be enough for everyone. The cakes made in several levels look magnificent. Usually the top of the product is decorated with the number 35, scarlet flowers or figures of the spouses.

Today, the choice of the buyer presents a wide range of wedding cakes. Craftswomen create real works of art, which even feel sorry to eat. You can make the cake original if you not only write the names of the spouses on it, but also depict your favorite things, your general passion, or write their nicknames that they invented for each other many years ago. This detail will make the treat special and unforgettable for them.

The choice of treats can be varied. It is worth starting from the theme of the holiday, and do not forget about the color performance. It is necessary to convey the atmosphere of romance. On the table there should be red dishes, for example, you can add a table with fruits and vegetables. Fragrant seafood will be just the way. Exquisite snacks for a luxurious wine just like all guests.

Selection of congratulations with the coral wedding in the next video.