A wedding gift that a bride should give to her betrothed is a sure sign that a girl or woman going to the altar simply loves her madly and wants to bring joy to her chosen one. However, today it can be very difficult to find an unusual gift, when all the main time and all the forces will be spent on preparation for one of the main events in women's life. Therefore, there will be nothing wrong with choosing one of your ideas among ideas that have already been invented and put into practice, having only slightly corrected them.
Let us figure out what surprises a potential husband can arrange, which, indeed, he might like in an unexpectedly received gift, which may take a lot of effort from you, and which is perfect for a bride if she absolutely doesn’t have a moment to choose a gift .
Features of wedding gifts
First of all, it is necessary to determine exactly which moment can be considered the most appropriate, in order to give a gift prepared in advance to the bridegroom, especially if she has been preparing it more than one day. If this is a gift that no one else should see, except for the future husband and wife themselves, then it is quite possible to make this wedding gift a day or two before the solemn marriage ceremony. The triumph itself can be called a pretty good moment, especially when it is in full swing. However, in such a case, the bride should be 100% sure that her gift to the groom, without a doubt, will be pleasant to him and will not be an unpleasant or disappointing surprise. After all, the very moment of his presentation, which is quite likely to be filmed, so unexpected situations at the wedding are definitely not the place.
And also in the presence of guests it is not necessary to present too frank, concerning only newlyweds, or personal (intimate) presents in a solemn wedding day. You should always remember that there may be other people around you - relatives, invited guests, parents on both sides and representatives of older generations. Another rather pertinent moment for presenting a present to a man is the period immediately after the official engagement. This option is most often stopped by those for whom it is extremely important that the exchange of gifts takes place before a happy family life begins.
Classic ideas
If you are not a very creative person, or you have absolutely no free time for a long preparation of a congratulatory surprise, you can easily choose and buy such a gift for your chosen one that he has long wanted to have but could not afford. Just remember what he enjoys most of all, what interests he has, what things your loved one turns his attention to most often, where he usually likes to spend his weekends and holidays. And you will very quickly come up with the idea of what exactly to give to your future spouse at the wedding, and not to worry too much, even if only two days are left before this momentous event.
We list the most popular options.
- Certificate. One of the most successful solutions to the problem with buying a present will be the purchase of a gift certificate for those types of services that the chosen one will obviously like. It may well be a pre-wedding visit to the bath, a romantic trip to a reputable restaurant, riding a bicycle together or a memorable carriage ride.If your lover has always loved to dress fashionably, you can hand him a certificate with the possibility of purchasing clothes at his favorite store.
- A gift of the expected plan. If you are well aware of the tastes of your chosen one, then you can easily pick up a rather pleasant and expected gift for him. As it can be expensive perfume, original jewelry (cufflinks or ring), accessories for cars or equipment for a particular sport. If the selected surprise is small in size, you can play a trick on your betrothed slightly by packing the present in a large number of boxes. If your future husband has a good sense of humor, he will appreciate your humor, as it’s not easy to get to the gift, but it's fun. Do not regret when you make a presentation of special multi-colored packaging and ribbons. Often, unexpected and funny gifts are also presented to young people by their parents, so it is worthwhile to talk in advance with them so that your surprises are not identical.
- Wedding gift you can always create with your own hands, if you yourself possess some special skill, and, of course, if you dream of expressing emotions that overwhelm you with your gift. Self-made gifts will always be valued higher than gifts from stores. But you need to be a real master, so that the surprise comes out worthy and arouses the admiration of others and your fiancé. If you can’t choose what you can give to your beloved on your wedding day, try to remember what you are talented in and what you can easily create for your beloved.
Here are a number of truly creative ideas, any of them may well please you:
- tie a beloved warm sweater or stylish hat;
- create a framework for joint photos;
- to collect a casket or a notebook and to issue them by listing the reasons why you love and appreciate your partner very much;
- make two parts (halves) of the heart of any suitable material;
- arrange stylish embroidery in a frame (your joint photo can be used as the basis);
- any item in the style of hand made for decoration.
Original designs
Most of the gifts presented to the bridegroom from the bride most often are not very durable - they are eaten, spoiled, fail. Therefore, for many brides it is extremely important to choose just such a gift that will delight their men for a long time. For example, the idea of ordering a beautiful portrait of your future spouse from a local artist is considered very popular. This kind of original gesture will be able to impress anyone, which is especially important on such a significant day. And you do not have to spend a lot of free time to create this surprise. It will only be necessary to transfer the photo of the beloved to the master and wait patiently for the moment when he completes the work. For best results, ask the master to draw your beloved man not in the way he is shown in the photo, but in the image of a knight or a gallant gentleman.
If the wedding has cost you too much, you can pick up an inexpensive, but very unusual gift. You can single out one evening to personally make a bright collage of your joint photos. For these purposes, you will need scissors, a large sheet of drawing paper and a couple of hours. The most difficult thing here will be to pick up a general, unique idea of an idea that will be able to express the seriousness of your joint feelings. In addition, such a collage will easily be combined with other original gifts. In the center of the sheet of drawing paper you can place a poem of your own composition or creative greeting. Or here you can leave room for a humorous certificate with the right of the groom to the infinite possession of a beloved after the marriage.
Another creative idea will be the transfer of the prize cup to the bridegroom. On it you can engrave a certain inscription - "For the victory over the heart of the bride" or "For courage on the love front." In no case should the cup itself look mediocre or cheap. Another unusual gift will be a coupon for one or several desires. The uniqueness of this gift is that, on the one hand, it will not require much effort to prepare it, and on the other hand, the groom may demand from the bride anything he wants. To heighten the interest on the coupon, you can put the expiration date or the end of the bonuses. For example, using his desire for three days, the groom will be entitled to 1 additional massage.
Creativity
Quite often at the wedding you can see as a presentation a song that the bride sings for her contender. It just so happened that this kind of expression of love has become a popular tradition among modern young people. This is a worthy option, since it does not require too much time for its preparation and almost will not require financial injections. However, when choosing it, you need to take into account one important detail. Only, really, a quality song can be considered a gift. A song performed without a soul, a bride who does not possess good voice data, is unlikely to be able to greatly please her beloved. For this reason, brides need to sensibly evaluate their own vocal abilities in order not to lose face in front of their relatives and guests who gathered at the celebration.
If you are not particularly lucky with your voice, this is no reason to be upset. You will easily be able to opt for dancing, as they definitely will not require any special talent from you. You only need to take a couple of lessons from an experienced choreographer. You should not create staged dance yourself. It is better to pay a competent professional who decides any dance and will make it much more spectacular and spectacular.
As well as professionals advise to pay attention not only to solo projects, but also to group options. You can come up with a dance bride and her bridesmaids as a gift to the bride and groom. Any groom will be happy to see that his beloved was able to gather girlfriends to please her lover.
Another creative gift to the bridegroom's groom is a properly organized flash mob. For example, you can come up with an interesting number in which everyone participating one by one will give pleasant compliments to the groom. However, it takes a lot of time to prepare such a flash mob, and you’ll have to ask your friends to support this idea and be willing to participate in it.
But you also should not avoid the “live” performances, which are also extremely popular today. You can, for example, show a beautiful acrobatic number or demonstrate your skills in juggling. True, this kind of action is suitable only for those who are seriously at the professional level interested in such things. Stages with the use of pyrotechnics are also very popular - you can organize a fire show, an incendiary dance in a circle of fire, or demonstrate juggling with flashing torches. If you do not have a particular desire to do it yourself, you can always pay professionals to entertain the groom and guests.
Lyrics have long been in the surrounding only the warmest emotions. It doesn’t matter who is reading the verses at the same time - a man or a woman. The main thing is that the lines go from the very depths of the heart. The text of the verse itself needs to be printed on a very beautiful piece of paper in order to hand it over to the future husband a little later. As for the most lyrical work, it is best to write it yourself. If you have problems with rhyming, you can also turn to experienced poets or writers. With your joint efforts, you can come up with an amazing congratulatory poem that can become the anthem of a newly formed young family.
The original gift to the bridegroom at the wedding, see in the video below.
