Wedding is a holiday not only for the newlyweds, but also for their parents. Mother of the bride and mother of the bride deserve special attention. To set aside time at the celebration and express your love and gratitude to them is a natural desire of children, worthy of respect.
How to prepare?
The best thanks to my mother at the wedding will be sincere kind words from the heart. This moment is very exciting. Even experienced speakers, accustomed to speaking to the public, capture emotions, and it turns out crumpled. The gift of improvisation can leave at a crucial moment, so it is important to prepare in advance.
Take some time to retire and be alone with yourself and your feelings for your mother. Recall funny incidents from childhood, a situation where mother's advice was helping or helping out. Not always everything goes smoothly in the relationship between parents and children. On this day, you should not remember the insults and claims.
Sketch the text on paper. You can take them as a basis for finished workpieces, but it is better to do without templates. Despite the fact that it is pronounced speech with a large number of guests, it is intended primarily for mothers. From the pompous, pathetic phrases should be abandoned, choosing the most simple warm words and images that are understandable to her.
Choose the most tender words to address your mother: sweet, dear, dear, beloved, golden. Make it clear that there is no mother closer or closer to you in the world.
Memorize the finished text by rehearsing several times. Just in case, prepare a cheat sheet, writing down the gratitude on the holiday card. A beautiful addition will be beautiful poems. And the song performed will be a bright and touching decoration of the celebration.
A good idea is to show slides with children's photos from the family album.
From daughter
Expressing gratitude, the daughter can tell the guests about the wonderful qualities and virtues of her mother, name the character traits inherited from her, acquired skills and abilities, thank for protecting her from all adversity and sadness. For softness and tenderness on the one hand, and rigor and exactingness on the other. Mother's labor and efforts, sleepless nights, good wishes and blessings were not in vain. All talents now have to reveal themselves in family life. And the best reward to mother for a given life, a joyful childhood and a bright youth will be the motherhood of her daughter, who will bring the opportunity to do the same for her child.
Mom will be pleased to hear that despite the constant chores about the housework, work, caring for loved ones, she is beautiful and talented, is the benchmark of his wife and mother, a role model for the young bride.
Be sure to emphasize that despite the fact that the husband and new family came to the forefront of an adult daughter, mother's support, wisdom, and life experience are very important at this stage of her life, no less than before.
A sincere “thank you” is to tell your mother for participating in the pre-holiday troubles and preparing the bride for the celebration, for gifts and financial assistance.
On the wedding day, the bride gets a second mother - mother-in-law. It is very pleasant for the groom's mother to receive words of appreciation from the bride for raising her son. Speaking about the merits of her husband and acknowledging the merit of this in his mother, the bride shows not only respect, but also learns to build relationships with future relatives.
From son
Men are often laconic. Here it is important to cope with anxiety, not to pinch and be yourself, clearly and clearly express your thoughts, while showing sincere feelings: reverence, recognition and love.
The son thanks mother for tenderness, care, understanding, for patience and endurance, for useful lessons and advice. For the fact that in difficult moments of growing up, mother comforted, spoke kind words, tried to encourage, and she did it. For the fact that sometimes the needs and interests of the child put above their own. For raising a protector and a breadwinner and leading him to the fact that he can now take responsibility for his new family and take care of his young wife.
You can ask for forgiveness for rebellious antics and unwillingness to obey. What just did not happen in childhood, and especially during the "difficult age". Feeling their strength, wanting to free themselves from custody, often the boys hurt their mothers with their harsh words without even noticing it.
In his heart now another woman reigns - his wife. It is important to assure that the love for the mother is still great and the son is her support and protection at all times.
This is the case when you should not be ashamed of your emotions and you can give free rein to feelings.
Mother groom bride also will not just say a word of gratitude. After all, from now on her clever and beautiful goes into another family. It is important for the groom to make it clear that under his patronage the young wife will be happy, live in prosperity and abundance. There are no reasons for alarm or concern. You can thank for the beauty and easy disposition of the bride. A lover full of adoration glance cast on a young wife will be more eloquent than any words.
Having shed a sea of tears, you can finish the ritual with a bow from the bride and groom or warm hugs.
An example of words of gratitude to my mother from her daughter at the wedding, see the video below.
