The dance of the father and daughter at the wedding: features of the tradition and the choice of music
Wedding is an important event in the life of newlyweds and their parents. This is a kind of milestone beginning of an independent, adult life. Newlyweds, departing from the parental nest, will build their own. For moms and dads, a wedding celebration is a great joy, because their children grew up, met and fell in love with each other, as they themselves once did.
Mothers do not hide their feelings, crying from happiness, and fathers try to be solid and calm. However, in the dance of father and daughter all their mutual love and tenderness spills out.
It has long been believed that the dance of a daughter and father symbolizes the complete farewell of the girl to her family, the transition to the family of her husband.
Nowadays, of course, this is no longer the case, but the beautiful tradition is preserved. Therefore, in the program of almost every wedding banquet, a separate item is the dance of the bride with her father.
How to prepare an impressive dance?
In order for the father and daughter's dance to become one of the most memorable moments of the celebration, it must be prepared in advance - choose a style, a musical composition, rehearse movements. The choice of the dance genre largely depends not only on the musical taste of the girl’s family, but also on the physical abilities, because often the parents of the newlyweds are already elderly. Therefore, what is not difficult for young people can be a daunting task for them.
Of course, the slowest, but lately it is becoming more and more fashionable to stage a merry, incendiary dance under a potpourri of contemporary songs. The movements can be chosen quite simple, and the cheerful melody will also entice invited guests to the dance floor. Of course, it is necessary to practice in advance so that the performance at the wedding party is perfect.
There is a possibility of mixing styles, when the dance begins as slow (for example, white dance), and then the music changes to energetic. With good preparation can get a very nice number.
If you do not want platitudes, you can come up with something more original and fun. For example, you can create a comic statement for songs from cartoons. It will be a fun show that all guests will appreciate. Possible version of the performance of some folk dance. Most parents are not oriented in modern directions, but they remember well how they danced in their youth.
The most touching will be the performance of his own written song - a gift to his father. If you are afraid that the voice of excitement will let you down, record the song in advance, and at the celebration just dance with your dad. Believe, your father will be moved to tears. A good option would be the reverse option - song composition - a surprise from the father for the daughter. The main thing is to agree in advance with the master of ceremonies to include it in the celebration script.
Slow dance to a gentle melody is the easiest option, because there are no difficult dance steps in it. Even the most unprepared people can sway rhythmically to the music. But do not think that it is trite and ugly. In fact, this moment will be very nice and touching, especially if you choose the right composition. If you agree on something more complicated, you can choose a classic waltz. This is a graceful and magnificent dance that will highlight the importance of this moment in your life.
How to choose a musical composition?
If you have decided on the style of performance, you need to select the appropriate musical accompaniment.If your choice fell on the fiery medley, search for songs on the Internet that are suitable for the dance moves that you decide to perform. Here the choice is unlimited.
For a classic waltz may be suitable:
- "Daughter of the father" performed by Alsou;
- White Fata by Soso Pavliashvili;
- "Wonderful Tonight" by Eric Clapton;
- "Wedding Waltz" Timur Temirov or other composition to your taste.
To perform the usual slow dance, you can choose:
- “Father is next to you” by Leonid Agutin;
- “When we were young” Adele;
- “Father’s and daughter’s dance” by Maxim Lidov or any other suitable melody.
Rehearsal Tips
Rehearsals are best done in advance, rather than on the eve of a wedding celebration. Believe me, during this period of time it will not be enough for anything, too many unresolved trifles will arise at the most inappropriate moment. Therefore, in advance several times rehearse the dance in wedding clothes and shoes, try the banquet floor - check whether it will slip, creak, etc.
Consult with photo and videographers, who will shoot the celebration, about the angle for beautiful photos and a touching video.
When is the best time to dance?
Choosing a moment to dance at a celebration is also a serious matter, because if there is alcohol at the wedding (and this happens in 95% of cases), guests' sobriety can ruin a touching moment. But at the very beginning of the banquet you should not dance it. It is better to announce it approximately in the second half of the wedding celebration, so to speak, “for dessert”. Talk to the manager (toastmaster), he should have a huge experience in holding such events, so he will definitely recommend the best option.
Summing up, we can say one thing - be guided by your desires and opportunities, because this is your holiday. And dance, as one of the most important moments of the celebration, may be as you wish.
Incendiary dance of father and daughter at the wedding you will see in the next video.