The dance of the son and mother at the wedding - a touching wedding tradition
Children's wedding is one of the most exciting and important events for parents. Perhaps even more significant than for the newlyweds themselves. On this day, the parents release their children into a free joint flight through life.
It is very important to show your parents on the day of your marriage your love and tenderness, respect and admiration. And the dance of young spouses with their parents is one of the ways to express filial / daughter feelings.
Dance of the groom with mom
This is one of the most important moments of the wedding, the same as the first dance of the newlyweds. He must express the strength of the bonds of mother and child, the feelings that continue to bind them, despite the beginning of an adult, independent life. Mom gives his son into the hands of his beloved wife, and the son must show his mother all his tenderness and gratitude over the years of warmth and support.
This dance causes affection, nostalgia for carefree children and youth.
Choosing a style of performance, do not forget that your mother is not a young girl, it is already difficult for her to dance a lot. Ask your mother what dance she will like. Usually this is a slow waltz with beautiful music.
But other options are possible.
- Cool dance with songs from cartoons. You can write a small script of the speech yourself, make a funny and touching show.
- Energetic dance under the medley of incendiary mixes. There are no need for complex movements, it is enough to practice a few simple dance steps and rehearse them.
- Mixed style of performance - first a slow dance to a lyrical composition, then a sharp transition to a passionate tango or any other exciting dance. Well-prepared number will cause a storm of delight.
- In her youth, your mother most likely loved to dance to folk songs - give her pleasure, learn her favorite dance (if this does not contradict the style of the whole celebration).
- The best option is a dance to a song of your own composition and performance (ideally). In your own words, you will be able to express the whole depth of your feelings for your mother - the woman who raised you from the cradle, brought up, experienced with you and for you all your failures and mistakes. If you are unsure of your voice or composure at a celebration, record your song in advance and ask the toastmaster to include it in the banquet program.
Training
You can invite for the production of this, of course, a beautiful and touching dance specialist choreographer, and you can try to do it yourself.
Advantages of a specialist call:
- he will be able to appreciate the strengths and weaknesses of you as dance partners;
- advise on musical compositions and style of performance;
- pick up suitable moves and learn them with you.
The disadvantages include the cost of its services. In a situation where the budget of the festival is limited, of course, it is better to do on their own.
It is best to prepare and rehearse this performance in advance in order to avoid unpleasant surprises.
When preparing, pay attention to the following factors:
- suitable musical composition;
- floor covering material of the banquet hall;
- footwear;
- mother's outfit;
- photo and video wedding.
The first thing, of course, is to choose a song song under which you will dance with your mother.
An ideal option for a slow dance would be a thematic composition about mom. You can choose from the list.
- B. Takhtakhunov - “Thank you, mother.”
- A. Maklakov "Mother's eyes."
- E. Martynov "Gratitude to mothers".
- M. Zadorin "Mom".
- R. Karimov - “Thank you, mother.”
- Bon Jovi - “Thank you for loving me”.
- Elvis Presley - The Wonder of You.
- Any other - songs about mom great variety in any language of the world. Perhaps you and mom have a common favorite song, then the problem of choosing a composition does not exist at all.
For an energetic dance under the medley of hits from different years, look for songs on the Internet, find the right one and learn the necessary dance figures.
When choosing a folk dance, consult with your parents - they understand this better than the younger generation. Ask your father to show you the movements in the dance.
It would be ideal to start rehearsals long before the celebration, because the last days before it are too hectic and packed to the limit with all sorts of tasks and concerns.. You can do this at home, but try to rehearse at least a couple of times in wedding clothes and shoes in the banquet hall, where the celebration will take place to assess the interaction of footwear and sex - is it not too slipping, creaking, and the like.
Mother's attire for a wedding celebration should be comfortable and beautiful, designed in the style of the wedding itself, but not resemble the outfit of a young bride. Too wide sleeves will mask hand movements, and the narrowed silhouette of the dress will restrain movement.
Try to dance in such a way that the photo and video operators have the most favorable angle for shooting. The ideal option would be if you consult with them about it before the triumph.
A great idea would be a background design in the form of a slide show of your children's photos.
How to choose the right moment?
Sometimes the dance of a young spouse with mother is announced immediately after the dance of the newlyweds. Often the solemn wedding banquet is divided into three sections: the first is opened by the bride and groom, the second by the bride and mother, and the third by the bride and her father. Talk to the manager - the master of ceremonies, as he, who has a huge experience, should choose the perfect option.
What can be said in the end? Dare, create, choose what you like - it's your day! Express in dance all your feelings! And the bride and mother.
Beautiful and energetic dance of the son and mother at the wedding, you will see in the next video.
