The dance of the bride and groom is considered one of the important events during the wedding. There is no unambiguity in the question of which style is worth choosing, it all depends on the preferences of the newlyweds. Waltz is chosen by most couples, as it best describes the celebration.
What style to choose?
The first wedding dance of the bride and groom should be easy, laid-back. It is better to dwell on the one that will not be difficult. However, it can also be an incendiary tango, oriental dance or surprise dance.
As for the waltz specifically, both partners should feel each other, therefore choreographic training may be required. Under classical music, beautiful and unusual dance evokes pleasant emotions among the guests. He is trained with the support of several days, so that everything will turn out as it should. It is especially difficult for newlyweds who have to deal with this style for the first time, but with a good specialist, as a result, all difficulties can be overcome.
If both partners are not afraid to express their own feelings, which are very active in life, then it is better to pay attention to the fiery tango. In this dance there is so much fire and passion that the audience lights up this sparkle, and good mood reigns at the wedding all evening. No need to think that tango is just a few movements learned for an event. No, this is a real performance, where the young actors are playing the main actors. Modern stylish dance will surely cause a storm of emotions, and gentle and romantic will allow you to share your feelings and energy with others. It is necessary to dance as if nobody is around, so that everything goes well.
Latino is gaining more and more popularity, but it is suitable for temperamental people, as the expression and fireworks of emotions reign on the stage during the performance. But it is not so easy to learn independently to these movements, therefore it is better to turn to a specialist who will help to understand them. Guests will be delighted with this soul-igniting show.
Young couples want an event like a wedding to be remembered forever, so they are ready to sacrifice and choose not traditions, but something original for the guests. Therefore, increasingly, wedding dance is a real staging show. From the classics go to more ambitious ideas. You can start with a traditional waltz, and end with a crazy rock and roll.
In fact, there are many options - you can simply express your imagination or contact a specialist who can help. The most fun dances that could cheer up a wedding are:
- jive;
- twist;
- Hispanic;
- rock'n'roll.
For some, training becomes a test of strength, since most young people have never done choreography. It is necessary to understand that the traditional dress is not intended for active movements, that is why the waltz is chosen most often, or the newlyweds need to prepare additional clothes to perform the dance.
Any extraordinary production looks original, as long as the bride and groom feel happy and try to include the guests in the story.
How to choose the perfect music?
The song has a special meaning, as it is remembered for a long time by the newlyweds and guests.Depending on the dance, the choice of composition will differ, but there are no clear criteria, as there is a huge amount of music in the world, and it depends on the choice of the newlyweds only which melody to choose.
It can be offered as an option for Sin Ti - Olga Tanon samba, if it is an incendiary tango, then Tango Forte - Duplex Inc. The active couple, who decided to perform the rumba as the first dance, better turn their attention to the song Am Who I Am - Lara FabianI.
When you want to perform a waltz, you should choose between Sans voir le jour - Enrico Macias and Blut - Wiener. Angels - the Baseballs is the best fit for rock and roll dance.
Important nuances
When choosing a dance style details play a huge role. This is not only what the newlyweds will wear, but also the wedding venue, shoes and other important issues.
A place
For dance, you need space. If it is not enough, then you should not choose too active style, since it will be difficult to perform it. On a small platform, the waltz looks beautiful and organic, since in a pair both partners move in the same direction, there is no need to move too far from each other. If the room has a low ceiling, then staging with high support can ruin everything.
Absolutely not suitable for such a space latino and rock and roll. The bride will have to jump on his hands, there is a risk of hitting his head on the ceiling, so either this dance must be abandoned or the number of elements reduced. Be sure to pay attention to the floor covering. If it is too slippery, then move quickly will not work, there is a high risk of injury. Particular attention is paid to shoes. It is desirable that she was without a heel, but you need to understand that in this embodiment, it is not suitable for every type of dance.
If there is parquet on the floors, it is perfectly possible to perform a retro-dancer, a waltz or a latino, but before performing the shoes, be sure to rub them with a special composition that will not allow the shoes to creak on the floor.
Duration
You should not delay the performance of the wedding dance, because, although the guests like this spectacle, they will want to return to the toasts and fun more quickly. Two or three minutes is enough for invited friends and relatives to take a small video and take memorable photos. Moreover, the newlyweds themselves can get very tired, shortness of breath will appear, both sweat. The task of the wedding dance is to show your love and affection, and not win the baton.
Clothes and shoes
The bride always tries to choose beautiful shoes for a good dress, but it so often happens that they do not always fit the dance, so it is better to prepare a spare, more stable pair. It is better to pay attention to ballet flats, shoes on wedges or wide heels, but not to buy shoes with heels, because from inexperience during active movements you can get injured and the holiday will be remembered not by pleasant impressions, but by unbearable pain.
Too big heels make the girl taller, so if the young have a slight difference in height, you should be very careful about this part of the wardrobe so that the bride does not appear taller than her partner.
The guests
When choosing a dance, you must first learn how the tables with guests will be distributed in the room. If they all stand on the same side, then the couple should move from left to right in the dance so as not to turn to their back. If people are sitting in a circle, then they will have to move in the dance in a circle, since everyone should consider the newlyweds.
Shooting
Almost every wedding today has a photographer and a person with a camera, so you need to do everything in such a way that everyone has the opportunity to make the best shots that will later be remembered.
How to learn?
To get the maximum pleasure from staging, both guests and newlyweds will need to memorize all the elements well and work out each one.The sooner you start training, the better the dance will be, because there will be more time to eliminate errors. It is advisable to turn to the choreographer, because only a specialist in a short time will be able to teach how to move properly. In addition, it is a specialist who can find an individual style for a couple and a dance in which both will be easy. On average, rehearsals begin six weeks before the wedding. This is enough even taking into account the employment of both, to learn all the details. The original dance takes up to six lessons, but only if the newlyweds then repeat the movements at home.
If the budget is limited, you can try and learn a lesson yourself. Numerous video tutorials will help in this. Such activities have many advantages:
- no need to adjust to the time;
- no payment;
- no constraint;
- You can choose any of the complexity of the movement.
The only drawback is that no one can point out shortcomings, give advice and show how to simplify this or that movement. With an independent study of dance, both in a pair can feel confident, focus on the details. Especially do not like to look stupid men, so training at home - one of those options for pastime, when young people can become even closer to each other. Such an exciting creative process delays and fills the future dance with life.
Any room in the apartment will be suitable for rehearsals, you only need to maximally clear the space and remove excess furniture. If we talk not only about the pros, but also about the minuses, the couple should be as motivated as possible in order to complete the work. It’s not so easy to calculate your powers, sometimes it happens that a couple chooses something very difficult at first, but after a few weeks understands that it’s impossible to perform a dance due to poor preparation of both. As a result, both are upset, time is lost.
Not easy and with the selection of songs, it takes a lot of time to search for it. It is not always clear from the video how this or that support is performed, turns. If difficulties arise, not every pair comes to an end and most often simply gives up. If one of the partners has at least some experience in dancing, then everything is easier, it takes up to two weeks to study the production with constant rehearsals. But it is not enough just to pick up good music, it is necessary to put all the movements together so that they look harmonious. Eliminating complex supports and other elements from dance, the time for learning can be shortened.
It becomes clear with time how and when to practice dancing, but it is not always easy to understand for yourself which style is best for the couple. Partners must take into account their temperament, physical fitness, the nature of each. It will be difficult for a man who has a bigger woman to catch her in flight, it must be remembered and always put in the first place.
If there is not much time left before the wedding, then it is best to master the waltz, it is always well combined with wedding clothes, it can be done in almost any room and no extra effort is needed. You can choose any waltz:
- slow Viennese;
- Boston;
- figured.
If the couple had once been engaged in dancing, it is better to take the Vienna version as a basis, since it will require flexibility, flexibility and good hold from partners. Romantic ideal Boston, which is very elegant and discreet. For those who want to remember the dance forever, a better option than tango is simply not to be found. As for the figure waltz, it can be described as a dance with amazing, but simple movements. It is suitable for girls who are planning a magnificent outfit with a wide skirt.
If you want to triumph turned out incendiary, then all the attention to rumba, salsa or cha-cha-cha. These rhythmic movements can be remembered by everyone, and for their performance no special preparation is required. It is these dances that are able to demonstrate the whole range of feelings that newlyweds have for each other. The most important thing is that if one of the couple suddenly forgets one of the elements, you can easily improvise, and no one will guess about anything.
There are no special requirements in this case as well as shoes. Enough elegant loose dress, comfortable shoes and clothes for the groom.
Couples who want something unusual, we can offer classic styles and retro, the movements of which will be combined in one statement. Mix always surprises and pleases with its originality. If you make a selection of music, then the dance will turn into a real performance for the guests, bright and exciting. Active and sharp movements are especially good for those couples in which the girl is small and tiny, and the man is big and strong.
Major mistakes
If you want to learn a dance, have time for the date of the wedding and do not forget it, you need to hold rehearsals at least once every three days. If you do less, then every time you have to go back to the beginning. As clothes and shoes, you will need to choose the most similar to the wedding dress, as both partners will get used to feel the other half and coordinate their own actions. If there is a train in the dress, then it is necessary to train the performance of the dance, constantly holding something in your hand. Beautiful dance is always a great job, including over mistakes. Of course, none of the guests will require a perfect performance from a couple, but I want everything to be as harmonious as possible on the video and photo.
If there is a possibility, each rehearsal should be filmed so that later at home you can correct the shortcomings yourself. Analyze not only the turns, but also the quality of support, the location of the legs and arms.
Almost all the newlyweds make the same mistakes while learning the wedding dance. In order not to deal with them, you need to listen to the following tips:
- if one of the partners does not like something in the dance, then it is worth thinking about choosing another element;
- you need to not dwell on the guests during the performance, but enjoy the interaction with your partner;
- Do not make a speech longer than three minutes;
- just before the wedding, they must be trained in the clothes in which the dance at the celebration will be performed.
If the couple react responsibly to the rehearsal, the dance will turn out beautiful and spectacular. Then he will be remembered by guests and relatives, and the video can be shown to children. No need to try to surprise those who came, the most important thing is that both in a pair should feel comfortable and not constrained.
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