A wedding is a wonderful and long-awaited holiday for lovers. The order of weddings in Russia, including the bride's ransom, is rooted in deep antiquity. In Russia, no wedding was complete without a ransom. This tradition has been preserved to the present.
Fundamental rules
This stage of the celebration is one of the most memorable, along with the painting of the young and their wedding. Redemption of the bride from a private house gives free rein to its organization. The ransom may be in an elegant classical style or, on the contrary, mixed with comic contests for guests and the groom, especially since the venue is not limited to the narrow porch and annoying attention of disgruntled neighbors.
A professional organizer or master of ceremonies can prepare a bride price, but it can be done for bridesmaids as well. The only thing - it is important to remember the basic rules of its implementation.
- Bride price should set a positive tone for the beginning of the whole celebration. This part of the wedding gives the opportunity to meet friends and relatives, to arrange the mood of each to a pleasant communication and festive atmosphere.
- The ransom must be quick so as not to tire the groom and, of course, the guests. It must be remembered that this part of the event is not a strip with obstacles for the future spouse, but for the most part the organization of a meeting with the bride. 15–20 minutes will be enough.
- Jokes, jokes and contests should be understandable not only to the main heroes of the occasion, but also to all those present, so that interest in the process of the holiday will not fade.
- It is necessary to determine the budget for the creation of scenery and the preparation of props.
- It is important to choose a person who will "command the parade." If the wedding budget is limited, then the bridesmaid can perfectly cope with this task.
- When planning a buyout in a private house, you must consider the time of year in which the celebration is held.
Scenery redemption
If the young decide to hold a ransom, then it must be bright and memorable, and for this, an important part of it is the decoration of the yard of a private house and, of course, the house itself.
The territory of any private house is fenced. You can start the decorating process with it: decorate with balls, flowers, ribbons. The gate can be decorated with a flower arrangement, a bride-shaped doll or a poster indicating that the bride lives in this house.
Comic redemption a priori implies unusual, bright and cool scenery.
In this case, the ideas for decorating the place of ransom can be limitless: lanterns, fancy figurines, bows and balls that can even be placed in trees.
Garland with photos of the newlyweds will be an excellent decoration reception. She is sure to attract the attention of all participants of the celebration.
Funny posters, cartoons can decorate the walls of a private house. Stengazeta made by friends, with all sorts of applications and drawings will be a great addition to the overall festive atmosphere.
Gentle and, even without exaggeration, decorations made from fresh or artificial flowers look solemnly at a wedding. The arch of them can serve as an excellent basis for a photozone. And, of course, we must take into account the time of year of the wedding. Decorations that can decorate the yard in winter can look ridiculous in the summer.
In winter, flowers can be replaced with fir branches, cones, garlands with snowflakes, and small bright lanterns will create a fairy tale atmosphere.
A ransom in a private house provides an excellent opportunity to organize it in a rustic style, therefore, decor with a touch of eco-style in the color scheme of yellow and beige tones is perfect.
Possible scenarios
Fabulous
The bride must be seated in the gazebo or porch at home. But for the groom will need a white horse, on which he will break into the courtyard of the house for his beloved. All the action is accompanied by beautiful music. The groom should present the wedding bouquet to the bride, and the girlfriends - symbolic gifts.
In the gazebo you need to organize a reception for guests.
After drinking champagne, the young and guests of the holiday go to the official part of the celebration - the painting of the newlyweds.
Rustic
Here, of course, can not do without a harmonist and funny wedding ditties.
To meet the groom at the gate should the bridesmaids to the music with themed funny sentences and sayings. It is necessary to make the future husband sing a Russian folk song and dance. And only then let into the courtyard of the house.
The traditional test for the groom is cutting logs. The newlyweds block the path with a log. He is given a saw to cut him and go to the bride.
The bride at this time can be hidden, and according to the signs, for example, from the bench hammers, he should find her.
Examples of funny and short ditties for bride price:
- Here came to us the groom
Oh, what a young,
So that the bride lived together
Straight before the wedding is golden!
- We are beautiful
We won't let go without money
And if you are rich,
Then run into the yard.
- And we have a rich groom,
But very economical,
For the bride of 100 rubles -
The capital is huge.
- Do not bargain, you are girlfriends,
After all, today is not the day!
100 rubles for fun
And to give something is lazy.
- Dear you are our fiance
Do not skimp you on gifts
After all, our bride will take
Euro, dollars, rubles!
- I wish you happiness, more children,
Replenish you country
Rely on in our lives
It is possible only on the wife!
With gypsies
It will be great if you organize the groom's entrance to the courtyard, where the bride is waiting, on three horses with Gypsy men. At the entrance should expect bright cheerful gypsy headed by the lead - "Gypsy Baron."
The groom must have bills and coins with him in order to “gold up the handle” to the gypsies. All the fair sex will have to distribute shawls and arrange gypsy-style music in the yard of the house.
At the entrance, the “Gypsy Baron” asks why the bridegroom arrived, and explains to him that without fortune-telling and money, he cannot take the bride. Gypsy should tell the bridegroom on the cards. For this you need to make a card with photos, one of which will depict the bride. Until the groom finds the right card, he must pay a ransom to the gypsies.
Behind the door of the room where the bride is waiting, bring out several ends of multi-colored ribbons, each of which is tied to the bridesmaids and the bride herself.
Until the bridegroom pulls out the bride's ribbon, he must pay a ransom.
In the style of bondiada
Surely everyone watched the movie "Casino Royale." The bridegroom needs to be tested and confirmed to everyone that he is no worse than agent 007. The bride is waiting for her liberator in the hands of gangsters.
To take her, the groom passes the test: shoots a toy gun to hit, raises the bar of inflatable balls, passes the lie detector. The groom on the detector will have to answer short questions about the bride: true or not.
Everyone who takes part in the ransom, to maintain the overall color of the wedding need to give out hats, create the appropriate entourage.
In the classic version
In this program, the main components should be severity and romanticism. As a rule, such a ransom does not imply comic contests. Groom with his friends should meet future parents. The yard can be decorated in vintage style using fresh flowers, ribbons in pastel colors. Must sound beautiful classical music.
The groom should expect the bride with friends in the decorated area with a wedding bouquet. The bride herself goes to the groom with her friends along a path lined with rose petals or decorated with beautiful decorations.
Tips for organizing a bride price in the video below.
