Taurus and Aquarius: features of the development of relationships
It is believed that Taurus and Aquarius - not the best combination to create a harmonious union. The elements of Earth and Air are opposites, and while one partner is standing tightly on his feet, the other is in the clouds.
However, such couples exist - both in family life and in friendship, work and business.
Characteristic
Before discussing the compatibility of air Aquarius and the earthly Taurus, let us briefly describe both signs.
So, Taurus. The element of this sign is the Earth, the planet that controls it, Venus. Of all earthly signs (Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn), this is the most "earthly" - his nature is whole, simple and healthy. But do not think that Taurus is primitive, no.
People of this sign are mild, perhaps somewhat carefree, not feeling stress and not able to work and make decisions under time pressure. For them, the familiar setting, daily rituals, and routine are very important. All that is not according to plan, knocks Taurus out of a rut.
For Taurus is characterized by a common feature - the difficulties of others, these people resolve much easier and faster than their own. They quickly and easily have others to themselves, causing their confidence due to their softness and optimism. Tips can not always be pleasant, but fair and rational. When communicating, Taurus exudes goodwill, has an excellent sense of humor and an amazing ability to listen.
The more representatives of this sign are happy in daily life, in a routine, the more optimistic, cheerful and kind they are. Such people are very easy to contact with others, can talk to anyone about anything. As a rule, Taurus - people with a very wide outlook.
At the same time Taurus has a realistic mind, very practical and sensible. They are not lyricists, but rather physicists, therefore they always think first of all about the material side of any question, and not about its emotional component. Taurus - always realists.
One of the weaknesses of this sign is the tendency to hoarding, that is, the acquisition of a large number of things. As a rule, these people love everything beautiful - bijouterie or jewelry, clothes, shoes, bags, perfumery. It must be said that the taste of Taurus, especially of women, is excellent, and the items purchased have both beauty and high quality.
Taurus woman is always well-groomed, she has a fresh manicure, beautiful and shiny hair, while she looks natural. Abuse of decorative cosmetics is not characteristic of her, makeup is moderate.
The bulls are stubborn, have an enormous amount of patience. Taurus is rather a tactician, not a strategist, but a very good tactician. The strength is a great resource of internal strength, which is why it copes with large-scale tasks.
People of this zodiac sign often work well with their hands, that is, they have the practical skills of one or more crafts. They cook deliciously, embroider, knit, possibly addicted to pottery art. Taurus houses are always cozy, and they know how to create comfort with small means.
Taurus is rarely avant-garde, more like classic, retro. They often keep old things that are dear to them - diaries, notebooks, wedding invitations, vintage jewelry and much more.
For Taurus, consistency is one of the main life priorities. He is afraid of change and takes it very painfully.It takes him a long time to accept and realize them. That is why this sign is heavy on the rise, for him even a vacation is stress, and such large-scale things as moving move Taurus into a stupor.
This leads us to the main disadvantage of this in every way positive zodiac sign - sluggishness. He is swinging for a long time, is going to do something for a long time. In addition, for many representatives of the sign, it is typical to think for a long time and “twist” the events that happened to him and the conversations that took place inside him. In science, this is called "psychological chewing." Often great witty answers come to them only when scrolling through conversations inside.
Another disadvantage is hoarding. It is difficult for him to give, although often Taurus people love to give gifts to their loved ones.
The substitution of emotional impressions for the acquisition of material goods turns Taurus from the most pragmatic sign into a hedonist, not burdened with thoughts of tomorrow. Greed can make him a supporter of his constant material desires.
When confidence turns into self-confidence, Taurus ceases to be a pleasant conversationalist and becomes a haughty egoist.
As a rule, people of this sign have an excellent memory. This does not always mean that they are vindictive, but not one never forgets about what a person said or did. It is just that in every situation Taurus decides whether to forgive or not to forgive. If he is hurt again by the same person, it will be difficult to earn forgiveness of the offended Taurus.
The anger of Taurus is growing slowly, he is able to ignore the offense for a long time, but knowledgeable people argue that in no case can you bring these "bulls" to an emotional outburst. Overflowing the cup of teltsov's patience may be an insignificant, in the opinion of an outsider, trifle, but the blast wave of indignation will sweep everything out of the way. The anger of the angry "bull" is terrible, and thanks to its excellent memory, it is able to list all the past "merit" of the offender, including those that he had long forgotten or did not attach importance to them in due time. After a flash of irritation, Taurus leaves for a long time, and his mood remains bad.
Taurus - creepy owners of both things and people. This can cause a lot of inconvenience in interpersonal relationships. He wants to know literally everything about his partner, and he has to control everything. This, of course, very few people like it - most people appreciate and protect personal boundaries. If Taurus is not interested in where and with whom his half is located, it only says that he no longer considers this man as his pair.
Most of the “bulls” are introverts, and therefore they converge with people for a long time, but when they completely trust someone, they become wonderful friends. True, it often happens that Tauruses fall into the power of delusions and entrust their souls to the wrong person. Disappointment makes skeptics out of them and makes them more and more withdraw into themselves. After each mistake made in interpersonal relationships, it is becoming more and more difficult for them to open up to someone new. Every disappointment in love makes them a little more pragmatists and a little less emotional.
Before you say something, Taurus usually ponders this for a long time. That is, it is not characteristic of him to say the first thing that came to mind. And if he made a decision on a certain issue and voiced it, he does not intend to discuss the above. He defends and argues he only on those issues that are fundamentally important for him.
The following features are characteristic of the man of Taurus:
- diligence and efficiency;
- love of coziness and comfort;
- desire for stability and clarity;
- good orientation in financial matters and their competent management.
The appearance of a man Taurus speaks more about the desire for convenience than the desire to look very cool and stylish.However, these male representatives appreciate natural fabrics and high-quality cut, which allows them to be expensive and well dressed.
As for Taurus women, they are inherent:
- the ability to easily and passionately fall in love;
- indomitable shopaholism;
- the desire for worship and the admiration of others.
In addition, they often have a charming low voice and a look that makes men's hearts beat harder.
Now let's talk about Aquarius. The elements of this sign are Air, and the planets are Uranus and Saturn. It is an easy, sociable sign, endowed with the ability to move away from routine, everyday problems, including financial ones. Its representatives think more about world peace than about daily affairs. This very often leads to the fact that close people of Aquarius are ignored.
Aquarians have a bad attitude to control, they are not very good with subordination and submission. Attempts to put pressure on a person of this sign are doomed to failure. In their youth, Aquarius often advocates free relations, many adhere to these views even at a more mature age. Often, they specifically refuse monogamy, fearing to be too attached to a particular person and to love him.
The nature of the representatives of this sign is rather complicated. Aquarius strives for independence by all means, suffice to say that such “blocks” as Bob Marley and Oprah Winfrey belong to this sign. Rebellious soul and eccentric nature often make Aquarius vulnerable to everyday difficulties.
Aquarians are great originals, they are attracted by everything new and unbanal. Routine is what the representative of this air sign is most afraid of. In addition, for these dreamers, even the very thought of the practical part of being is intolerable - minor repairs, buying products of daily necessity, replacing light bulbs and sewing buttons. They are always in thoughts of ideas, theories, concepts. Aquarius love to talk about all sorts of utopias, revolutionary opinions (and understand them quite well, it should be noted), but decisive action, “breastfeeding on barricades” is most likely not about them. Most of all, Aquarius loves to think and reason.
In search of eccentrics and attempts to hide from the surrounding routine, Aquarius often comes to the occult sciences, the esoterica, and makes significant progress there. It is their element, everything is clear and interesting. In addition, representatives of the mark are very successful in medicine, and also become excellent social workers.
The sense of humor of Aquarius is very developed. Perhaps people who are sensitive to words like this may seem too sharp and sarcastic. Aquarius tend to see the essence of people and, if necessary, they can touch the living of any person. Representatives of the sign are extraordinary insightful.
Forfeiting life principles for Aquarius is tantamount to losing oneself as an individual., therefore, next to the person demanding this, he will not remain for a minute. Aquarius is noble and honest, often with outward openness and sociability remains very reserved emotionally. African passion is not his trait, he is not inclined to experience this either in relation to himself or to others. In this regard, Aquarius is prone to make no mistake about himself, assessing his abilities and skills very highly.
Aquarius - rare dreamers. Their logic is non-standard, rather, they are intuitive. At the same time, these “dreamers” pay much more attention to the rational component of things, rather than the emotional one. Sentimentality and emotion are not their traits. Due to excessive rationality, “revolutionaries” sometimes tend to think one-sided, losing important details. However, their horizons are unusually broad. Aquarius has much more knowledge than many other people.
The life credo of Aquarius is the desire for change, the search for new information. Stability, balance - these are not the features that are peculiar to them.Routine kills them, makes them feel wingless. Aquarians love to travel, love to try new things, their hobbies are unusual and often change. Any unexpected adventure brings joy, they love to accumulate both knowledge and impressions.
Aquarians are completely devoid of such feelings as jealousy, both in love and in friendship. For them the community of souls is much more important than physical intimacy. “High relationships” often lead to the fact that Aquarius’s partner does not feel loved, necessary, while Aquarius himself does not understand what is wanted of him. He does not need too much affection for another person, she is frightened and frightened — after all, this way his freedom can be curtailed, and this is the main thing for representatives of the sign.
Turning to the advice of Aquarius, you need to be prepared for a somewhat paradoxical logic. In addition, remarkable intuition and insight inherent in the representatives of the sign, allow you to see in a situation that which is not available to others. But to ask him about the physical intercession is not worth it - the character of Aquarius is not fighting. If you talk rudely with Aquarius, cause it to conflict, then the likelihood that all communication with him will stop is very high - your “dreamer” will simply evaporate, having stopped responding to calls and SMS.
Men Aquarius are distinguished by the following features:
- the rare gift of diplomacy and respect for people;
- a keen research mind and a craving for new knowledge;
- craving for change of places and desire to travel.
Aquarians are charming and easily conquer women's hearts, no matter how old a lady is. They love to flirt, often change attachments. In any team, Aquarius is trying to take a leading position, to attract everyone's attention.
As for the women of Aquarius, they tend to:
- flirty and unique charm;
- ease of communication;
- having a sober mind;
- readiness to support other initiatives;
- ability to communicate with any person.
If a stranger on the street became ill, the first girl who rushed to help was likely to be Aquarius. She has a lot of friends and good acquaintances, as this young lady is responsive and sincere.
Pros and cons of union
Traditionally, astrologers hold opinions about the disadvantages of the Taurus-Aquarius union. The first is too mundane, and the second is too dreamy, and this does not bring peace to the relationship. However, if both partners learn to put up with each other’s shortcomings and value virtues, the union can mutually enrich both. Taurus will be able to provide the material component of the union, while Aquarius will be able to inspire a partner and engage in general spiritual development.
How compatible?
In friendship
Making friends with these signs is perhaps even more difficult than entering into a relationship. This applies to both sexes and same-sex friends. Taurus and Aquarius are very different signs both in communication and in behavior. With this they can unusually annoy each other. Aquarius is too superficial for Taurus, not serious, immature, and Taurus in the eyes of Aquarius is a kind of young "old man", too thorough, heavy, boring, sane. Therefore, the representatives of these signs are unlikely to make friends, they are very different.
If Taurus and Aquarius are familiar from childhood, then the likelihood of their strong friendship is. Aquarius will generate ideas, and Taurus will embody. Sense of humor is inherent in both, and a strong long-term attachment to each other will reconcile with the existing shortcomings.
In love
Taurus will run for Aquarius to the other end of the world only at the very beginning of the novel. As soon as the relationship has moved to a stage that is more or less stable, the “bull” will not jerk anywhere, nor will it allow the partner. Homebody calves, for them the statement “my home is my fortress” is not an empty sound.
Aquarius can outwit Taurus by luring his beloved from home to where this hedonist will like - to a new restaurant with an interesting cuisine, to an exhibition of jewelery or to open a perfumery brand Corner. The “bull” will not give up on these pleasures for anything, on the contrary, will go there with joy and will not reproach the partner that the evening is spent outside the house.
The Aquarius girl can attract a young calf man with her lightness, “airiness”. She is like a breath of fresh air. For Taurus, it is surprising that the air fairy does not “load” those around them with its experiences, emotions, and bad mood. For the girl, the same guy, Taurus, is a guaranteed way out of the most difficult situation, he is a man of action, this is a comfortable, carefree, fluttering dragonfly. As a rule, their acquaintance is from the category of those stories that are told again and again at various events as a legend or a fairy tale. If there is a girl whom the Taurus guy can fall in love with at a glance, then this Aquarius is an airy ephemeral, beautiful.
The feeling of lightness emanating from the girl Aquarius, would be ideal if the guy was not a Taurus. However, since he is an earthly person, in loving relationships, a feeling of stability and complete clarity is very important. This Aquarius can not give, so Taurus is always in suspense - because it is not known what to expect from it tomorrow.
Changes are hard for him, so the girl has to put a lot of effort to get him out of the house and make her try something new - from the restaurant to the cinema. This can quickly annoy both.
If Taurus is a girl in a pair, and Aquarius is a young man, everything becomes even more complicated. The guy is too frivolous for her, seeking stability and clarity in relations, and she, on the contrary, is too thorough and heavy for him. Relationships will be developed only if the young man somehow depends on the girl. If there is no calculation, the couple has no future, because the man of Aquarius is greedy for new impressions, diversity, and the Taurus woman lives according to a schedule, any change in the schedule knocks her out of the rut.
For Aquarius, who met a woman Taurus in a difficult life period, this meeting can be a real salvation - a homely girl, comfortable, able to listen like no one else. But as soon as consolation is received, Aquarius replete with a quiet life and rush off into the distance for new impressions. And only if a girl really wants to maintain this relationship and closes her eyes to the frequent absence of her beloved, can a couple survive for a while.
In family life
If the couple he-Taurus and she-Aquarius still got to the registrar, the husband will always take care of his wife. He will automatically assume the role of a senior in a relationship, no matter whether he is actually older, of the same age or even younger than his spouse. Taurus deals with the material side of life completely - purchases, repairs, investments - his diocese, and he does not consider it necessary to coordinate this with his wife. If Aquarius is satisfied with everything, she will not argue and interfere. If not, the couple will face constant disputes and scandals.
Paradoxical as it may sound, but the marriage of Taurus and Aquarius, concluded by calculation, will be the most lasting. Well, if the family is united by a common goal, then there will be fewer conflicts, and more qualitative and harmonious interaction. If the couple entered into a marital relationship for love, the lack of stability for Taurus and the complete ignoring of Aquarius in material matters can very quickly kill feelings.
Husband need to remember why he once fell in love with his beautiful carefree and easy wife. With this fairy, the earthly nature of Taurus never gets bored, because it will not allow family life to turn into a boring swamp. And if we consider that the representatives of this sign, being airy and fluttering, are by no means stupid and superficial, but, on the contrary, have a sharp and sometimes sarcastic mind, the family life of this couple can become turbulent, interesting, non-standard, but in no way trivial.
As for the marriage in which he is Aquarius, and she is Taurus, he is also complicated. In fact, spouses live different lives under the same roof. Husband is more interesting to think about the fate of mankind than about what wallpaper to glue in the bedroom. His wife wants to be alone at the weekend, and her spouse wants to be social and active.Over time, the wife Taurus will begin to wonder who is more important for her husband - family or numerous friends? Compromise is possible only in the case when none of them will try to remake the other. Accepting the interests of the partner and, if possible, sometimes following them will save the couple.
For example, Saturday to spend at the request of his wife, and Sunday - her husband, will help to establish harmony in marriage. For Aquarius, narrowing the social circle to one person, even if it is a beloved wife, is unbearable, and for Taurus, a husband is a whole world. Changes are impossible, but compromises are completely.
A Taurus woman will have to accept the fact that she is the custodial partner in this relationship, but in no case should she remind her husband of this. The proud Aquarius knows so well on whom this marriage rests (including often financially), but he cannot bear it if he is poked with it. And Aquarius must take into account that the introverted wife leaves most of her experiences in herself and does not want to share them with her partner.
The sexual compatibility of the Aquarius and Taurus spouses is not the best. Aquarius expects from a partner in bed relaxedness, diversity, fantasy. Taurus, on the other hand, adheres to traditional sex issues and the demands and requests of the spouse are sometimes surprising and alarming.
The sexual experience of Aquarius in the vast majority of cases is much more extensive than that of Taurus. If Taurus is young, there is a high probability that he or she has not yet lost her virginity. But even if this is not the case, the partner’s quantitative and qualitative experience is several times greater than his own.
In any case, in order to save the marriage, Taurus will have to become more relaxed, otherwise Aquarius will begin to look for new impressions on the side. And since a representative of the air easily acquires sexual partners (and a woman is partners), a permanent one may appear - one or the one for which the desires of Aquarius will not seem strange or incomprehensible. And then Taurus will be difficult to save matrimony.
Strangely enough, children can become a unifying factor in marriage. The representatives of both signs have a similar approach to the education of offspring. Both Taurus and Aquarius madly love their children and seek to spend as much time with them as possible. For their sake, both parents are ready to make compromises, planning joint leisure, taking into account the interests of all family members.
In work
Oddly enough, in working relationships, these signs can achieve the greatest mutual understanding if they accept each other’s strengths and weaknesses. A smart, stable and financially oriented Taurus will take over finance and purchases, and intellectual Aquarius will become the ideological inspirer of the business, captivating clients in negotiations and applying innovative methods to conduct business.
What is worth working in a relationship?
So that Taurus and Aquarius could coexist harmoniously, astrologers give a number of recommendations.
- Aquarius should not criticize Taurus, it does not tolerate. It is especially dangerous to do it in the presence of other people, for Taurus it is like a knife in the back.
- The air sign loves freedom and does not tolerate being forced to do what he does not want. He will not resist loudly, as his earthly partner does, but the stubbornness of Aquarius is no less strong.
- The more the couple will have common interests, the more they will do together, the stronger will be their union. Provided that the interest or hobby is really mutual.
- Representatives of both signs are crazy about subtle compliments.
- Taurus in no case can not be silent if he does not like something. Aquarius suffers if there is no communication.
- Accepting the interests of a partner makes any union harmonious, even if astrologers do not give favorable forecasts and argue that representatives of signs do not match each other. This should be remembered by all the signs of the zodiac.
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