People are divided into four types of temperament: melancholic, phlegmatic, sanguine and choleric. I must say that in their pure form, they almost never occur. For example, a phlegmatic person is in some situations quite capable of displaying the properties of a choleric temperament. But the predominance of one type in the personality characteristics can be determined. In general, temperament does not affect abilities, it only determines the possibilities of solving life problems. Some easily pass barriers, for others there are difficulties.
As for women, due to the flexibility of the nervous system, instability of the hormonal background, some characteristics of temperament can manifest themselves much brighter than men. This applies particularly to women with a choleric type, which is characterized by speed of action, sudden mood swings. What is a choleric girl in different walks of life?
Character description
Considering the characteristics of choleric women, the main features are the following:
- have a high degree of mental activity, sharp and energetic movements, swiftness, but impetuousness;
- impatience and lack of restraint in any sphere are inherent in them, annoying monotonous activities;
- quick-tempered, but easy-going;
- due to exposure to a quick change of mood, they are energetic, but can quickly lose interest in the process;
- excitement, enthusiasm and quick learner for versatile disciplines distinguish them as scholars;
- have the ability to cope with the situation in critical moments and to neutralize conflicts;
- vigor allows you to manage several diverse affairs at once;
- they are characterized by courage, firmness and determination;
- such personalities are good speakers: they can speak fast and connected;
- instantly cool down to uninteresting projects.
In general, a choleric girl can be defined as a bright and ambitious personality. If such a person sees a benefit in the project, then he will take an active initiative to the matter.
We can say with confidence that the choleric person is a typical extrovert. It actively interacts with the environment and always displays leadership skills. Sociable, open to everything new. Prefers large companies and events. In reality, one can hardly find an introvert choleric - it is a completely incompatible combination. A self-contained and uncommunicative person cannot hide in the guise of an impulsive and active person with a violent choleric temperament.
Suitable professions
Success choleric awaits in professions related to building relationships and contacts. He also needs to feel the approval of his activities and interest in the work, otherwise working capacity will suffer from dullness and ordinariness.
From a woman with a choleric type of temperament you get a great head., as it is inherent resistance to stress, the desire to achieve goals. Such a person is easily trained and goes deeper into the origins if the process is interesting to her. A creative profession is more suitable for a choleric woman, where you have to contact a lot: designer, presenter, manager, creative specialist, guide, blogger, entrepreneur. The highlight of the selection is a free schedule. Leadership and ambition will not allow to define the framework for the choleric worker.
Temperament and love
The leadership qualities of a female choleric person manifest not only in their professional activities, but also in relationships with people and partners. However, as a housewife, she does not define herself, by right considering that otherwise life will pass by her. With regard to appearance, you can highlight the interest in short haircuts, comfortable clothing.
In partnerships, the choleric woman is the first to take the initiative. She will not wait for favor: her character will encourage her to take action. Inconsistency, quick temper, a kind of non-violence will determine the choice. Choleric personality is also characterized by impulsiveness, a bright expression of emotional experiences, which push her to constant intrigue and change of partner. To curb such a woman is difficult. It is possible, if only to be able to foresee her desires and discontent.
Difficult relationships await a choleric woman and a man with a melancholic temperament. Hot-tempered lady can often offend anxious melancholic. Yes, and two choleric probably do not get along. Their sexual relations are, as a rule, active, but short.
The best partnership is possible only with a calm and reasonable phlegmatic person. In such relationships in all areas they will succeed.
Advantages and disadvantages
From the qualities of a choleric girl who helps in life, one can single out energy, enthusiasm, and a certain obsession with the matter of interest. Creative activity allows them to achieve great heights in different areas. It is unusual for these people to hold a grudge in the soul for a long time. Due to the fact that they quickly forget an unpleasant incident, they are able to go far in their search and achieve a lot. Such individuals are able to withdraw from a conflict situation without prejudice to the parties.
However, they are characterized by character flaws, which sometimes can permanently poison all life. Suddenly appearing rudeness and irritability make of them intolerable interlocutors. In this state, the choleric leader turns into a tough tyrant. Striving for dominance in everything and demanding unquestioning obedience, he is waiting for the fulfillment of all orders. Because of the activity and ability to constantly move, the choleric person can simply get tired, because of this, emotional breakdowns often occur.
How to communicate?
To try to tame the obstinate choleric woman, you need to know its features and behave accordingly:
- Straightness does not hide anything. However, it should be understood that due to the emotional variability of moods, inference and secrecy can only be a fictional mood.
- Try not to dethrone it and in no way contradict it. Otherwise, you can expect a negative flurry of emotions in the direction of a possible "enemy".
- No need to put pressure on the employee choleric with terms and warnings. He and without it put a lot of energy into the work. Better to interest him and stimulate.
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