True girl: what does it mean and how to find her?

To meet the faithful girl or woman is the dream of any man. That the representatives of the stronger sex invest in this concept and where to look for such girls is not always clear. Let's try to understand the loyalty from the point of view of psychology and tell you what they are - faithful wives.

Man in the process of evolution has gained a lot, but, unfortunately, has lost a lot. So, now it is not accepted to make a choice once and for all life, and it does not matter what it is about - about the car, profession or life partner. People admit the very possibility of impermanence, volatility under certain circumstances. The times of sacrifice, when one's own “I” could easily dissolve into “You” (wives of the Decembrists) or “We” (giving up one's life for the sake of a great idea, for example, revolution) were left behind, much to the regret of idealists.

Loyalty has also changed, but is still considered one of the main qualities of the world's best wife and girlfriend. With the progress of mankind, the attitude towards women's infidelity in men almost does not change - they are still overwhelmingly absolutely sure that a woman simply must be faithful. After the wave of emancipation and sexual revolution, women discovered a new world for themselves - a world of betrayal.

Sociologists who tried to study loyalty, came to the conclusion that about 20% of the fair sex keep real loyalty to their partners. Up to a quarter of all the ladies are cheated on men, and the rest at least once thought about adultery, flirted, kissed on the side, but did not reach sexual intimacy.

Every third woman says that adultery in marriage is unacceptable. Only 5% approve of extra-marital relations. Most believe that anything can happen in life, and no one, as they say, is insured. That is, a possible thought and even an excuse for infidelity subconsciously already exists.

What is she - the most faithful girl? She can be a blonde or a brunette, a prude or a mischievous bully.

A faithful girl is usually from a family in which there are certain foundations and traditions, but it is not enough to look at the relatives in order to understand whether the girl will be a faithful wife. This is generally quite difficult to understand.

Only one thing is known for certain - most faithful women are deeply unhappy in life. They are often abandoned. Men first want loyalty from the chosen one, and then they get tired of it, there is no fear of losing the beloved, because it is obvious that she is faithful and not going anywhere, there is no point in winning her, everything has already been conquered. Faithful women, by nature, often age and die alone, never finding happiness with men. Psychoanalysts claim that they subconsciously seek suffering, want to be abandoned, unable to do it on their own.

Still, loyalty is the greatest value, a diamond in the garbage of various human relations. There is nothing surprising in the fact that everyone is trying to find her, not really thinking about what exactly to do with it later.

You can often hear that representatives of certain nationalities are the most faithful or vice versa.So, levity and frivolity are attributed to French women, frigidity and lack of emotionality - to English women, they consider Italian women to be passionate, Chechen women and Kabardians are called modest. But the question of loyalty is not as simple as it seems. This is not a characteristic of temperament or national mentality. Therefore, it is difficult to unequivocally answer the bride of what nationality you need to look for in order to marry a faithful girl.

In every nation there are heroes and scoundrels who have gone down in history. In every nation there are faithful and unfaithful women. In those countries where religions are given great importance, where they try to fulfill the commandments, where in olden days a woman could be stoned for infidelity or stoned in public, the family memory is still strong, which also exists in the education of girls. Thus, the submission of her husband, obedience and loyalty distinguish representatives of the Caucasian peoples, Arab women. But there is another problem - the guys usually do not appreciate this fact and do not differ in their chastity.

The first thing that men need to remember is that the women who surround them have already formed as individuals, redrawing and redoing them for themselves is more expensive, and is it worth it, after all, this is real violence against a person.

Especially it is necessary to assimilate those who hope from any girl to create a faithful companion of life. Will not work. All the ladies for their 18 years already some - either good or bad, but completely solid, formed personality.

Where such girls live who will be faithful to their beloved, it is impossible to answer right away. They are everywhere. They are not grown in a greenhouse, they are not cloned in an incubator, and therefore the common myth that you can't find the right one in a nightclub is just a myth and nothing more. In a nightclub, a girl can come to a reunion meeting, for a friend's birthday. It is clear that among the regulars of entertainment establishments there are no such ladies - upbringing does not allow.

Experts in the field of psychology recommend to pay attention not to bright beauties with daring manners, if the task is to find the right spouse, and on more modest females. But especially you need to pay attention to the girls, with whom at first it seemed a bit boring to communicate. In this case, the man will not exceed the value of the girl because of fleeting enthusiasm, in this case, your assessment of her qualities will be the most objective.

Signs of future loyalty can be found not at the first meeting, but with closer communication. Observe how sincerely she is interested in you. The faithful girl rarely makes tantrums and scenes of jealousy, does not flirt with your friends and does not flirt, does not “like” photos of unfamiliar half-naked men on social networks. Usually she has a rather modest profession - educator, seamstress, designer, decorator. But there are exceptions, although professional deformation should never be forgotten.

If loyalty is the criterion that has the most important role for you, then the question of how to be convinced of its loyalty will be highly relevant. It is better to live together before marriage, in order to observe how her behavior and attitude towards you will change with the start of joint work. Her style of relationships with her friends and relatives can tell a lot.

You cannot become faithful by your own decision. They can be originally. It is easier to soberly assess the chances of loyalty than later checking a spouse for adultery, which is often reported in fact.