Libra is rightly considered one of the most mysterious and changeable signs of the zodiac, whose representatives are really difficult to predict, the more difficult it is to build long-term relationships with them. However, a good knowledge of the horoscope will help here, because such people, like everyone else, have certain typical features that somewhat dispel their unpredictability.
Characteristic
We should start with the fact that the Libra man is - not even in love, but in life in general. The easiest thing about these guys is to say that they are constantly looking for themselves and are difficult to predict. Like the object that gave the name to the sign, they can be in perfect balance, and even restrain others, but this balance can be lost - then Libra can go to extremes. In any case, such a person is always looking for an opportunity to achieve balance and appreciates everything that helps him in this.
The ideal state of Libra is complete calm, not interrupted by any problems. Such a guy loves balance literally in everything - even global justice is important to him. As for stressful situations, they too hurt such a man, because he always tries to act proactively, not sparing for this either strength or resources.
It is believed that Libra is quite sociable, but the width of their social circle can be very different. On the one hand, this sign is often attributed to the desire to be in the center of society, on the other hand, it is possible that individual representatives will deliberately avoid large companies. In general, Libra is not against new acquaintances, but can be quite picky about them.
For the closest people such a man is usually very caring, he tries to do something to increase their comfort, although it does not always seem so obvious.
If we talk about the positive aspects of this zodiac sign, then usually in most men the following features are distinguished.
- Sharpened sense of justice. No wonder Libra is a symbol of justice - apparently, from representatives of the sign of the same name would turn out to be a good judge. With age, this characteristic is usually only exacerbated, and often such a guy is ready to admit things that are completely unpleasant for themselves, if only they are true. Such a view of life is especially valuable due to the fact that Libra traditionally wants maximum benefits for itself.
- Intelligence and charm. Most of the guys born under this sign are well aware of their intelligence, and some deep down even despise people who are not close, unable to rise above the average level of society. However, the same intelligence does not allow them to express such thoughts out loud, and some even suffer remorse of conscience because of their own seditious thoughts about the unequal value of society. With his own mind and erudition, Libra can charm many, although their antagonists may find the encyclopedic nature of their knowledge of an opponent unwarranted reason for bragging.
- Diplomacy and tact. Increased justice for justice leads to the fact that such a man rarely keeps his thoughts in himself, and in fact sharp remarks to others could significantly ruin the life of his own author. Fortunately, Libra can even submit the most ugly information so that it is perceived softer, even without hiding any details.No wonder these guys are considered a good friend, who will not only defend the interests of a friend in society, but will also tell him face to face that it needs to be urgently corrected.
Of course, every sign of the zodiac has certain “standard” flaws, and although not all Libra are endowed with them, it is also worth mentioning potential risks.
- Unusual. Libra men often see in themselves a lot of differences from the surrounding crowd, and although they do not always exalt themselves above it, many may not like it. Such a young person can focus a significant part of his rhetoric not on general hobbies or topics for discussion, but on difference. At first, such communication can bring interest to an enthusiastic interlocutor, but over time, many people turn away from Libra, considering them excessively snobbish and fixated solely on their own understanding of the truth.
- Doubts. Libra as an object is a symbol not only of balance, but also of fluctuations, and representatives of the same sign of the zodiac quite often suffer from this trait of their own character. Such a person almost immediately sees the advantages and disadvantages of all the available options, but it is not easy for him to weigh them in a short time. The situation is aggravated by the desire to act proactively in order to avoid problems in the future - the guy begins to calculate everything too far in advance, and in the end may lose a unique opportunity, be it a career or relationship. Perhaps the presence of a close friend who can gently push Libra at the right moment will be the last good.
- Self-righteousness. With their eternal pursuit of justice, Libra quickly becomes accustomed to the fact that their opinion is considered authoritative and justified, and therefore they are often forgotten: in some cases, everyone can have their own truth. A man born under this sign is not always ready to accept an alternative point of view, in an attempt to defend his opinion, he may become overly harsh and even despotic. Being able to make a fair decision to the detriment of himself, he reacts rather painfully to the recommendations of outsiders advising to do the same.
As for work, here Libra has a vital position, located exactly in the middle between the absolute loafer and the avid careerist. Such a man does not refuse from work, realizing that without this material resources, which are important enough for him, cannot be obtained. A promotion for such a guy is joyful, he waits for him in advance and is always happy when he achieves success at work, especially since intelligence and justice often lead to an adequate assessment from management. At the same time, it is impossible to call such a person a workaholic - on the contrary, he tries his best not to rework. Libra does not believe that it is necessary to live for the sake of work, and if she takes too much time and effort, then such a man will gladly leave her - no bonuses in the form of an excellent salary or excellent career opportunities will help.
The ability to refuse high-paying work could have struck hard for Libra’s love for comfort items, but representatives of this sign will be saved by thriftiness and thriftiness. Such a person is able to temporarily refuse many costs if he sees what it is worth saving money for. Traction to the savings of finance in such men is quite large - they are almost always collected for something and are really able to achieve the desired amount, even if it was initially frightened by its size. To save money for such a guy turns out better if he does this not in the abstract, but for the sake of a long-thought-out goal that has overcome all doubts.
It is clear that such a person does not rush money to the wind, because usually, going to the store, he already has a fairly clear idea of what he will bring from there.
What girl does he need?
Libra - this is the guy who is interested in the woman in her zest. The external beauty of such a man, of course, will attract, but typical doubts for representatives of this sign will enter into the matter very quickly, because there are many attractive women.
Therefore, for a girl who wants to interest a young man, it is very important to behave correctly and be able to communicate on topics that are interesting for Libra.
Probably there is no concrete way to the heart of such a person, but he must be sure that his chosen one is the most. Here that Scales themselves do not see themselves as part of the crowd will play an important role, and therefore they certainly will not even want to pick up the girl from the gray mass for themselves. As a result, just a beautiful woman may be interested in Libra only as a fleeting attention, whereas the present lasting recognition will be given to that which is capable of catching on with something else — erudition, sense of humor, or at least a maximum understanding of the mental organization of a potential partner. In fact, these guys are among the few signs that are sometimes able to completely ignore the appearance for the sake of a woman’s personal qualities, although it’s also undesirable to go to such extremes - the problem will lie in the very same doubts of Libra, but couldn’t it be possible to find a companion more beautiful.
If relations are gradually developing and acquiring perspectives, it must be remembered that representatives of this sign are very critical of the problems in their lives and the people who create them. The ideal girl for such a guy should not rock the boat, but on the contrary, balance the mental state of her partner. Tantrums and scandals, especially organized out of the blue, will force such a man to very quickly put an end to his elect, who yesterday seemed to be the ideal. Now is the time to remember that Libra will not recycle because of someone's whims and will not be happy to spend a lot of money on a thing that seems unnecessary to them.
Considering all these circumstances, the meek girl seems to be the best partner, who in many respects will give the leadership to the young man, but at the same time she will be ready to push him where he doubts, and even be able to take on some of the responsibilities in the relationship.
What is he in love?
Scales, because of their notorious tendency to doubt, relatively rarely make the first step, often expecting too obvious “green light” from the side of the young lady. Often these men like ladies, but the latter may be somewhat scared away by what the guy is not particularly hiding - he may be interested in other girls.
However, if such a man loves, then it is easy to understand - he behaves quite concretely. A woman feels necessary, because such a young man usually has a very romantic nature and is inclined to compliment her lover, as well as to shower her with gifts. The chosen one will not experience a lack of time for meetings either - as already mentioned, Libra despises work that interferes with life, but they are ready to devote absolutely all of their time to the beloved.
Many representatives of this sign in love show poetic inclinations, which are manifested not only in beautifully formulated compliments, but often even in verses specially written for the enchanted charmer.
Separately, it should be noted that the Libra man is quite picky about his darling and wants her to be the best of the best. This is usually expressed in a certain universality of the partner, which should be beautiful in the photos, sexy in bed, interesting at the joint exits to people, an excellent housewife. With such significant demands, the guy is waiting for the girl to appreciate the fact of the choice in favor of her. Any manifestations of hysteria will be perceived by the young man with hostility.
Representatives of this zodiac sign are considered good psychologists and are always ready to help a person who complains about their problems, but a woman should be ready to voice any of those out loud. It is considered that Libra does not seek to guess what is wrong with her partner and why she is silent - this behavior either doesn’t bother them at all or annoys them.
In sex, Libra will try his best to keep his partner from being disappointed. - The obviousness of her pleasure becomes a wonderful bonus for the young man's pride. Many consider the representatives of this sign among the most advanced in terms of preliminary caresses. It is also believed that such a man would not mind at all experiments, sometimes even somewhat unusual ones, such as relations on the side. Many Libra are relatively unequivocal, and may allow an additional partner not only to themselves, but also their companion, although it is naturally unacceptable to generalize in this case.
In general, Libra’s relations are largely based on intimacy, and often a man who has cooled to his lady in this regard will quickly lose interest in everything else.
Marriage behavior
With regard to marriage with a man Libra reviews can be found quite contradictory. On the one hand, such a husband can be an excellent party for almost any girl, since he usually considers his darling the best, and is ready to carry that one on his hands. He is romantic and tries not to fly too far into heaven, bearing in mind the same material well-being of the family, if not at a transcendental level. On the other hand, there are certain pitfalls here, since such a guy wants free space for himself, but he is not always ready to give it to his partner. Roughly speaking, a companion should at any time find time for him if he wants to, but he himself can sometimes insist that he would like to be alone or go about his own business.
However, the problem is solved relatively simply. Libra always carefully preserves inner harmony and searches for a muse, therefore the task of a woman is to become that muse without being too intrusive. If a man managed to get rid of any doubts about the correctness of his choice, he becomes an excellent husband and father. The only thing to remember is that he is still not ready to do this one hundred percent of his time, because from time to time he needs to be given a small outlet, and then the family idyll will last as long as possible.
With the right compatibility of the couple, such a husband will not rejoice - he may be responsible for the protection of the family and for its financial well-being.
Compatibility with other characters
Typical Libra needs a girl who has brightness and vital energy. Theoretically, a union is possible between any two signs, but in some cases certain concessions are required on both sides, while in others everything is obtained harmoniously without any additional efforts. Consider briefly all possible options for the Libran guy.
- Aries. In general, such a pair is very harmonious, but there is one thing that represents a significant risk - a woman is inclined to think that she is more important in this duet, but Libra imperceptibly pulls the blanket over herself that can provoke an explosion. The main advice for such partners is to focus on finding compromises, then the inherent romance of both will keep them together for a long time.
- Taurus. One of the most successful combinations is that a little woman is suitable for Libra as well. In most moments, their views on life coincide and mutually complement each other, the only thing that is very important is the timely distribution of roles in the couple. This is where the contradiction will play a role: she strives for material wealth - even if she takes on the role of a breadwinner, while Libra is the only man who will interest this lady not as a successful careerist.but a polite and gallant gentleman, to whom household chores are not alien.
- Twins. From the side of such a union is more like friendship than love - both partners can afford to flirt openly with others in the presence of the second half. The potential danger lies in the frivolity of the Gemini girl — she, according to the man, may not pay enough attention to domestic chores. Another difficult moment is the sharpness of the lady’s tongue and the apparent coldness of her gentleman, which comes with time.
- Crayfish. In general, such a pair is very promising, because sympathy between such people arises quickly and persists for a long time. Here everyone feels at ease - the girl likes to take care of her beloved, and he feels real satisfaction from it. The risk lies in the fact that Cancers are usually quite unsure of themselves - a woman often believes that a partner can easily exchange it for another, and jealousy scenes are exactly what Libra would have avoided with pleasure.
- A lion. And this combination will be quite unpredictable. On the one hand, a man likes the brightness of the personality of his partner, and she, being a representative of a selfish sign, is not indifferent to his romantic adoration. On the other hand, the Lioness does not like that her partner often doubts and does not show much zeal for work - in this she is able to detect his weakness, and such a strong sign will not tolerate anyone around him.
- Virgo. Usually Libra such girls are very interesting, because they have a certain unplayed sophistication - exactly the feature that can subdue such a man. Both are quite romantic, because at first the relationship will seem like a fairy tale, but everything can spoil the desire of the Virgin to live according to a predetermined plan, while their partner is inclined to a certain spontaneity.
- Libra. This is the case when the same zodiac sign is not a problem, quite the contrary - the partners have a lot of common interests and views on life. Even an unfavorable situation with finances will not destroy such a couple - both understand the unwillingness of each other to work hard. The main thing here is to remember about the partner’s sensitivity and own diplomacy when you want to tell the hard-hearted truth, otherwise the quarrel of such partners will be extremely stormy.
- Scorpio. The beginning of such a relationship is similar to that of a woman Leo - a bright, mysterious lady and her romantic craze for madness. However, Scorpio loves to play with a potential partner, because he loves courtship as such, and this only provoke a man. Such a union will require compromises on both sides: a man should pay attention to his career in order to meet the high requirements of his companion, and that should give the guy more freedom. If you like - let go, this is the perfect advice for the ladies in such a pair.
- Sagittarius. Here, relationships often begin with friendship, which not only does not count as a minus, but also strengthens mutual understanding in a couple. Such a union is equivalent, since the representatives of both signs are able to truly love and vividly express that they like both. The potential danger here is that such a woman is very susceptible to changes in mood and is prone to constantly try on masks that completely confuses her partner.
- Capricorn. Such a couple may have very bright feelings for each other, but the main problem in the relationship will be an excessive desire for leadership on the part of the woman. Libra is not opposed to cede a number of responsibilities to a partner, but they still want a certain freedom, and also to be interested in their opinion. The question of the success of a couple is how quickly a woman can understand and accept these simple truths, and whether the young man will wait for this moment. If so, he will make his darling the queen.
- Aquarius. Almost the only common feature between the representatives of these two signs is the ability to easily get involved in everything new, which can destroy a couple at the very beginning of a relationship. The feelings of such people to each other are often very light - so much so that the girl sometimes seems not completely absorbed by them. The situation is somewhat aggravated by the fact that her sex is much less interesting than his, because the lady will have to more actively demonstrate that she needs it.
- Fish. Communication begins with certain common interests - for example, with a mutual hobby for the beautiful, and only after some time develops into something more. A plus for relationships will be the general desire to avoid scandals and tantrums, although she is often disappointed by his lack of desire to work at home, and he can hit her with coldness. The man will be the leader of the couple, but in everything except the financial sphere, he will voluntarily agree to share responsibilities with his wife if she accepts the role of the classic keeper of the hearth.
Tips
Girls wishing to build a fruitful relationship with Libra should be prepared for the fact that the young man will be unpredictable, and of all the things described will have two-thirds of the strength, in the remaining third being the complete opposite. However, some "basic" features do not disappear, because it is worth considering the tactics of building relationships with such a man.
How to fall in love?
Winning the attention of a man born under this sign is quite simple, but it’s more likely just to like or seduce. If you want to attract and conquer forever, you should have certain signs that fall in love with these guys. Numerous reviews indicate that most of them are not so original and look quite logical, given the characteristics of typical Libra.
Originality is the first and obligatory feature, without which the girl risks to remain a fleeting passion. It is important to find a fine line so that the unusualness does not resemble an outrageous one - for Libra, who is looking for inner balance, such an image will become more likely to cause irritation.
It is also important to be original not so much outside as inside.
Scales are not looking for an iron lady, but a girl must have a certain strength of mind - for her it is unacceptable to be a "weak". Since the young man himself is rather indecisive and in life he doubts in many respects, he needs a companion who can sometimes make a choice for him.
The chosen one of Libra is not necessary to be a beautiful woman, but the lady should be at least minimally well-groomed - such a man is looking for a lady, and other options will not suit him. External well-being for such a guy plays another role - he does not pursue money, and therefore the content is usually not ready to take on someone, but he will not pull too “expensive” woman.
Libra men are those people who love to joke and joke, but the intelligence and sharpness of the mind make them invent jokes that are not understandable to everyone. Consequently, a gloomy lady would not suit such a man - he would like to find a cheerful companion who can understand his jokes and joke back.
How to hold?
Libra is indecisive, and therefore such an important step as parting will be thought out to them a hundred times before the man goes into action. Another thing is that in the process of thinking such a person gradually convinces himself in one of the solutions, and if it turned out to be detrimental to further relations, it will be difficult to reconcile with the guy. For this reason, the relationship should never slip, reduce the requirements for yourself in relation to what was at first after meeting.
Hysteria, as we already understood, only aggravates the situation, but logical arguments are the only thing that can affect such an intellectual. At the same time, it is necessary to recognize all the existing shortcomings and point out that there are much more potential advantages.If there is a specific reason for separation, it is necessary to propose very specific steps to eliminate it.
Here it is important to remember that the representatives of this sign are quite demanding of their companion, therefore no trifles can be ignored - Libra will easily give up the almost ideal partner in favor of unpredictable, but free searches for the real ideal.
How to return?
Scales rarely part on impulse, because their decision is almost always fully weighed, so that after parting on their own initiative, they often completely disappear from the life of the former partner. It will be difficult to return such a man, since he is always looking for his ideal, and, once disappointed, will draw certain conclusions. Only a significantly changed situation can make it change his mind when, after a while, the former passion not only eliminated the reason for parting, but also acquired some advantages that it did not possess before.
There will also need an initiative for reconciliation on her part, only you need not to push or bother, but to convince with logical arguments.
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