How to meet a girl on the street?

At the rapid pace of life, a person becomes accustomed to trusting computer technologies, therefore, ordinary communication or even acquaintance on the street can cause difficulties for many. Often, modern young people, if they wish to approach an unfamiliar beautiful girl, are embarrassed, insecure, afraid of being misunderstood or rejected.

The first thing to start with is the look. It is necessary to create an attractive image, because quite often a girl needs only one glance to understand whether it is worth starting a conversation with the approached guy. To do this, it is necessary to clearly identify the basic guidelines that will help you feel confident in any situation.

• Purity. Few people will like it if a shabby-looking man turns to him. We need to start with basic hygiene - that is the basis. An attractive man is always shaved, his nails are cropped short, neat haircut. Bristle is one of the repulsive factors - it is not always clear to the girls. Sweaty smell is unacceptable - it repels the representatives of the opposite sex.

• Neatness. Clothes should be ironed and clean - it is important to iron not only the shirt and pants, but also the shirt. Pills on a sweater, hat, spots or bruise on a jacket are unacceptable. Special attention should be paid to shoes that require daily care. Dirty shoes can spoil the whole picture, because for a girl, this figure is one of the sure signs of male negligence, so she will try not to keep up the conversation.

• Clothing size. All that is in the men's wardrobe should correspond to the size of the person. If the shirt or pants hang on the figure, then this will create the image of a person who does not take care of himself. This means that in the future such a task may lie on the fragile female shoulders. Girls such a layout to anything. In the same way, they do not like it when the clothes on a man almost burst at the seams - this guy not only does not emphasize the dignity of his body, but also creates an image of a narcissus that cannot live without constant compliments. The stranger in this case often passes by, not lingering for a single phrase.

• Style. Not every man knows that girls pay attention to the style of clothing of the opposite sex. This does not mean that you need to dress in expensive boutiques, choosing a set of a dandy - in most cases it is not valued in women's eyes. However, a large duo of t-shirts with narrow jeans will not work either. You should also give up the leather skinny and tightly buttoned shirt - these little things the girls have certain traits of the interlocutor, and not the best.
• Posture. Rarely what man will not pay attention to the women's walk. Girls also notice male posture, because male stoop looks ugly - it speaks of insecurity and, as a result, low status, as an insecure person rarely achieves something in life. If a guy has a few free hours a week, then you can go swimming or devote time to the gym.
• Perfume From a confident man always smells good. However, this does not mean that you need to pour perfume on yourself or use something sharp.Harsh aromas act on girls extremely negatively and repulsively - the subtle smell of perfume, mixed with the scent (not later) of the body, is important to them. Cheap aroma gives a sharp sea smell. If he likes guys, it acts diametrically on girls.

First of all, you need to be in the zone of visibility of the girl you like. In order not to frighten her, you should not approach from behind or block the road - these approaches are erroneous and doomed to failure. If there is no fear of dating, you can come to the side and ask about something. When she has already noticed you, you can catch her eyes and smile a little.

In a minute you can meet your eyes again, without gliding over your chest and thighs, she will notice it. You can not look at her for a long time, because it can bring a girl to bad thoughts, and in this case all the chances can be reduced to zero. Also, do not wink and try to shower it with compliments.

A feminine look clings to a masculine image that stands out from the crowd. Choose a better casual style - it is unofficial and at the same time quite attractive. It is easy to create it: you can use trousers, jeans, shirt, polo, but you need to choose the right clothes. Its elements must be combined with each other.

Rarely any girl will be delighted if a stranger on the go praises her ass or chest and offers to relax together. However, there are words and phrases that she cannot pass. It’s not worth believing that they will work 100%, but if the guy behaves naturally and relaxed, he will succeed. You can just walk up, smile and say the magic word "hello."

By answering your greeting, it is already possible to understand whether further conversation and acquaintance will take place. At this stage, the girl has already appreciated the appearance, tidiness, ability to apply themselves and naturalness. Her positive reaction to the male greeting suggests that you can continue dating.

Now is the time to say one of the phrases suggested below.

• “After your smile, I completely forgot where I was going. My name is (for example) Eugene. "
• "I liked you, and I wanted to hear your voice."
• "I could not pass by, seeing your smile."
• "This dress goes to you like this - I couldn't help but say it."
• “There is a cafe nearby. I really want to treat you to a cup of aromatic coffee. ”

It is not necessary to exactly repeat the phrases from the examples - you can say what you feel at this moment. If the girl really liked, then you can tell her about it. If a man noticed that he has chances, you can resort to a little trick, not giving her time to think. Having said just one phrase, he will be able to get the coveted number of her phone.

For example, you can use the sentences below.

• "Hello. I could not get past your eyes and smiles, but now I have to go. If you give me your mobile number, I will call you. ”
• “You are charming, but I have to go now. We could sit in a cafe. Let's discuss this later, just give me your number. ”

You can resort to the use of props. To do this, you need to buy a colored ball or a flower nearby and present it with the words: “I really wanted to please you this morning (afternoon, evening)”

The situation in which a normal conversation with an unfamiliar beautiful girl on the street can turn into an acquaintance can be different. If a man is attentive, he will notice such details. You can use it as a reason for dating, even a cool evening, by inviting the stranger you like to visit the nearest coffee shop. You can say the following: "Hello, you are probably cold in this thin blouse, take my sweater."

If she carries a heavy bag, you can say: "I can help carry the bag, let me take it."

You can approach the other side.If you have a notebook or a notebook with you, then you should ask the girl for just a minute. Write something on paper - even if it is a phrase about how it looks good, or a description of its beautiful eyes. After that, giving her a pen, you can say: "Thank you very much, I needed to write down an important thought."

Immediately you should ask if she has this. If you want to take a phone number so that she does not immediately guess, you can ask her to help out in a vital situation. For example, we can say that the phone has sat down, but urgently need to call. At the same time, it is important to have your mobile phone put on silent mode. Then you just have to dial your number.

You can spread the phrase that in our time there are few sympathetic people, so I want to thank her for a cup of coffee.

Here own fantasy can already be useful. For example, you can capture yourself in time at the moment when she will photograph something, or suggest that she be photographed herself in such a beautiful place. Further conversation will depend on their own naturalness and confidence.

You can play on the general interest with the following phrases:

• “Good technique, I also like to take photos”;
• “I read it too, but I would like to know your opinion”;
• “I propose to discuss the ending for a cup of coffee not far from here”;
• “I would like to know exactly what attracts you to the photo”

It is important to submit yourself in an original way regardless of the place of acquaintance. For example, if you approach the question correctly, you can have time to get acquainted at the bus stop, while the girl is waiting for her bus. Approaching her, it is worth asking about which route leads to happiness. If she almost always refuses a banal question or ignores it altogether, in this case she will hold her eyes and smile. And this is a chance to continue dating.

We must not forget that time under different conditions may be limited. Do not delay and be afraid to go, because the bus can take away a stranger while you tune in to the desired wave. Choosing the right phrase should not take a lot of time.

It is necessary to understand that girls do not like it when they begin to touch them from the very acquaintance - from this their interlocutor instantly turns into a sex-minded maniac who cannot restrain himself. If the girl really liked, you need to have an excerpt. You should not play, showing your brutality - it is better to keep naturally and be yourself, because she will notice any falsehood. But confidence will be a good friend when trying to meet.

It is important to be calm and positive - this is the key success factors. A girl should feel open - it is conducive to communication. You can not complain about something, to portray a loser - this approach is doomed to failure. You can not allow notes of mockery or outright seduction - girls today very quickly understand what a man needs.

Having chosen the first phrase successfully, it is necessary to develop the conversation in this direction. In addition, one can, as far as a conversation goes, recognize the interests of the interlocutor, showing one’s own enthusiasm. Interest is important, but not intrusive - the girl will feel the difference. In no case can not pretend to maintain the conversation, if you do not understand the essence of any topic.

You can finish some of your phases inquiringly, thereby giving her a reason to answer. It is important to show cheerfulness - such an image like the opposite sex. At the same time, do not delay the acquaintance, so that she wants to continue communication. After receiving the phone, you can finish the acquaintance, leaving her with thoughts of you.If the time is evening, then you should spend it to the house.

If you are shy, then you should know a few rules.

Firstly, you do not need to convince yourself that the goal is acquaintance, because you can just talk to a stranger - this will allow you to relax a little and gain inner looseness.

Secondly, you need to understand that, in addition to normal people, there are also inadequate. If you got on such a girl, then do not despair.

Thirdly, no refusal is fatal - it only allows you to gain experience with the opposite sex. It should be noted that a girl can stop talking to a guy for several reasons.

For example, if:

• she already has a regular partner;
• she is married and not interested in a different acquaintance;
• the manner of communication of the guy is boorish and leaves much to be desired;
• the kind of guy seems sloppy to her;
• approach to acquaintance banal and boring.

In addition, she may refuse to meet because of her different social status and material status. In this case, you need to start with yourself. You should not expect that the girl will do everything herself - you can not wait, but you should not endure an internal defeat, because each time your own cowardice will grow complex.

It is important to get into the field of view of the girl you like. After the gazes met, you need to mentally count to three and go to meet her. You can come up and say a simple "hello." Further development of the situation will depend on its response.

There are various recommendations for successful dating. However, it is important to understand that it should not be a template. It is necessary to try to avoid hackneyed phrases and compliments - today it does not work.

Remove phrases from your speech about whether your mother needs a son-in-law, can you meet, how to get to the library or where the “nofelet” is located.

It is worth understanding that it is most difficult to get acquainted with a beautiful girl to someone who has complexes. And it can be connected both with its external data, and with the fear of female greed. To get rid of your fears, you need a long job, starting with the formation of a strong and strong-willed personality, because it will help to gain confidence both in terms of character and in terms of finance.

If you want to look beautiful, then you need to visit the gym, swimming pool, responsibility and the desire for self-development are important. Also, we must not forget that it is the man who plays the main role in the development of relationships - rarely when a girl wants to meet a man who will have to be developed and maintained.

In order for the girl to think about you before the next meeting, the farewell should be special. It is important to leave her a good emotion with which she can think about you. You can smile, offer to meet, discuss the place and day of the meeting. In addition, you need to give her the opportunity to decide what you will do. You should definitely say that you are glad to meet her.

Regardless of the result, you need to leave in a gentlemanly way - it will tell her about your gallantry. We must not forget to smile, because this approach has a favorable effect. It depends on you, in what way the beautiful stranger will remember you, and whether it will be possible to continue communication with her. Speech should be respectful, because these are elementary norms of etiquette, which should not be forgotten.

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