How to meet a man?

Women are created for love, family and home. Loneliness oppresses even the most notorious career women, because behind the mask of an influential person is always a girl who dreams of pure and sincere love. Unfortunately, in the modern world it is becoming more and more difficult to find your soul mate in a circle of acquaintances, and therefore the question of how to get acquainted with a man is becoming increasingly relevant.

The reality is that the frantic rhythm of life of young people deprived them of the opportunity to walk regularly through the streets and parks. Phones and other gadgets direct our gaze to the Internet space, while real life and people pass by. However, in order to be the first to meet a guy, it’s enough just to look around, break away from empty correspondences and be ready to let something new and undoubtedly beautiful into your life.

The first rule that helps to get acquainted with a man for a serious relationship - to be ready to get acquainted. And this is primarily about bringing yourself up, because men, as you know, love with their eyes.

Stages of "external" training:

• the presence of the correct makeup;
• selection of stylish clothes;
• grooming hair, nails and skin;
• figure improvement.

It is worth noting that it is completely optional, and it may even be contraindicated to be every day with war paint and curls, hardened from excessive spraying of hair spray. You can send ultra-short outfits and uncomfortable studs to the far shelves of the cabinet. Lightness is the guarantee of natural female beauty. Natural, but neat makeup, healthy hair, collected in a simple but subtle styling, fresh manicure and pedicure - truths that can make any girl seductress of hearts. The image should be easily and independently supported by a woman.

The second rule for dating can be considered the inner content and the state of the girl. It is recommended to meet only in a good mood and focus on success. Walking through the park, you do not need to hide from the world behind the screen of your smartphone and turn away from it, wearing headphones on your ears. A person who is open to communication always finds it.

And, of course, it is best to plan an acquaintance for serious relationships by choosing a place in advance. Such preparedness will help you find common ground and common topics for conversation with the guy you like. Perhaps, for someone, the ideal place to meet would be lectures and master classes, a trendy club or restaurant, dating sites, and maybe a favorite park with amazingly beautiful views.

Times change, and in the past there are factories and mass production, filled with young people. Our mothers and fathers, grandmothers and grandfathers did not think about places of acquaintance, finding their halves in the neighboring shops and learning the details about them through their friends.Today, small firms do not provide such a large environment, and therefore have to look for a loved one in other ways. However, the options for this are more than enough.

The street is an amazing space in which you can meet thousands of people with different destinies, characters and preferences. Today acquaintance in its conditions can be met infrequently.

The reasons for rare dating on the street:

• lack of information about the desire or unwillingness of men to meet with someone;
• ignorance of marital status;
• lack of information about lifestyle and hobbies.

Consider the basic ways of dating on the street.

• Gaze and disarming smile. Even a shy girl can cope with this method. For its realization it is enough to chain your eyes for a few seconds to the young man you like and, smiling a little, look away to the side or down. An active young man will certainly solve a delicate hint and will be ready to send reciprocal steps towards the girl.
• Many girls know firsthand that when you are shy, even smiling is not easy, and besides, everything literally falls out of your hands. Wizards of dating and this, at first glance, the negative point of offer to turn in their favor. A bundle of papers, a book or a packet of mandarins, which happened to be at the feet of a young man you like, is a good way to get acquainted.

A polite man will always help to collect items dropped from his hands. The girl at this moment will fall a serious task - to interest the young man for a few seconds, cute and open smile, sincerely thanking and inviting his savior to a nearby cafe for a cup of coffee.

• When you have to act spontaneously, you can always call for help female defenselessness. Men love to feel like heroes, and therefore even a simple request to show the way can become an embryo for dating. A slight perplexity in the voice and the look will help position the "conqueror", and further gratitude in the form of a cup of hot drink will demonstrate initiative.
• Continuing the theme of defenselessness, you can experiment with dating in bad weather. The drizzling rain will allow you to politely ask yourself to take shelter under the umbrella of your chosen one and to sincerely speak at an intimate distance from each other.
• A good option for exploring a pet lover would be a compliment to his four-sided friend. A man, walking with a dog at ease, is ready to devote a few minutes to a stranger, which means that everything is in the hands of a girl.

Unfortunately, many single men and women devote their lives to work, forgetting about rest and dating. However, you can get to know a man without leaving your workplace. Having forgotten about stereotypes and sad stories of girlfriends, a woman should try her luck, because, perhaps, it is that pleasant young man from the neighboring department who can become an ideal companion for life. In addition, working in one company, you can easily find out the marital status and clarify whether the child has a future elect.

Familiarity at work psychologists recommend to spend on several of the most favorable scenarios.

• So, having noticed a newcomer in a team, you can help him get comfortable or have a small tour around the office. Communication with this should be easy and unobtrusive.
• In the case when the elect works in the company for a long time, the woman herself can ask for help. Perhaps it will be working moments or banal computer repair.

• An excellent opportunity for dating are corporate parties. It is here that you can appreciate a man in an informal setting and show yourself in all its glory. Psychologists are advised not to hesitate to show their interest. Joint dances or one table - all this can help to get close.
• You can get acquainted and exchange a couple of phrases in the elevator and at lunchtime. Sit down to a colleague at one table - a good opportunity to escape from the working moments and enjoy a pleasant company.

Of course, teamwork is an excellent ground for building communication, however, try to affect working moments as little as possible, limiting yourself to fun and relaxed topics. Experts in the field of communication between men and women consider joint activities one of the excellent opportunities to establish contacts.

Many girls are increasingly complaining about the absence of men leading a correct life and not having bad habits. Of course, in reality everything is not as it seems. The “correct” future elects exist, however, they will have to look for them not in cafes and bars, but in the gym.

The gym is a place where positive young people and girls gather who love themselves and their bodies. Some of them come exclusively to the training, others - in a warm and friendly atmosphere. Having come there for the first time, you should carefully look around and understand which category your chosen one belongs to. A frequenter will be happy to talk about simulators and conduct a tour of the gym, while a person who comes only for training will not spend time on it, which means it will be somewhat more difficult to have a conversation with him.

It is worth noting that in any case it is important to look stylish and neat. A girl who wants to meet in training should:

• take care of a neat haircut, which is not terrible physical activity (stylish bun, horse tail, beautiful braid);
• make light makeup with mascara and lip gloss, giving up tonal resources;
• choose comfortable and beautiful sports shoes;
• pick a stylish tracksuit that can successfully mask some imperfections of the figure.

Thus, a woman in training should not cease to be feminine, because it always attracts men. However, combat make-up and styling here will be superfluous and will only amuse the male gender. So, when the outside is ready, you should enrich your inner world with a couple of sports terms, the names of the simulators and their functions. Being "in the subject", it is easy for a woman to start a conversation with an "object of adoration" by demonstrating her intellect. As noted by experts in the field of dating, seasoned athletes do not like annoying novices, and therefore it is important not to be an inept white raven.

When the simulators and their purpose are studied, you can unobtrusively ask for help from your chosen one, for example, for safety net, lifting large weights. Almost every man is pleased to help women. Asking for help is often not worth it, otherwise the young man will quickly see through your plan. In addition to studying subjects for training, it will be useful to receive information about the days of visiting a man. You can learn about this from the first hand, however, in the absence of an opportune moment, it is most reasonable to check with the administrator.

Psychologists urge not to pay too much attention to the man you like, forgetting about the original goal - to practice. You can talk on light topics and on the treadmill.It is worth noting that the first time to speak with a young man will help the lack of gadgets and headphones in ears, protecting from the outside world. Focus and attention will help to catch the impulses emanating in the direction of you from men.

When modesty or the lack of suitable men oppresses a woman, she goes on the search for her dream on the Internet. To date, there are several places for dating:

• dating websites;
• social networks.

Each site at the same time has its pros and cons. So, dating sites provide:

• large selection of interested partners;
• detailed questionnaire with the motives of dating;
• A convenient place for virtual communication, compliments and gifts by correspondence.

Advantages of social networks for dating:

• detailed information about the person;
• having common friends and acquaintances;
• the ability to track changes on the page for an extended period of time.

However, getting acquainted with VKontakte, Odnoklassniki or Instagram is also possible failures, since not in all cases the elect page can reveal its aspirations and focus on acquaintance. One way or another, it’s worth getting acquainted, which means it’s important to learn a couple of secrets of seduction on the Internet. The main and key point - a good photo. A good photo is a beautiful frame, not processed by filters and reliably showing all the advantages of appearance. Looking for him should "catch", because dating sites are full of beautiful rivals.

When the photo has done its job, and the chosen one is ready to begin communication, it's time to recall the originality. So, answering questions with monosyllabic phrases, you can easily lose the interest of the interlocutor, while the correspondence with the motto “originally” prompts you to write in social networks again and again. In addition, it is important not to forget to compliment and note interesting features, because in the Internet space it is much easier to make it.

Another place for real meetings is an educational institution, be it a university, a school or a college. Today, men receive several higher educations, and therefore, while studying, one can meet not only a “snotty” classmate, but also a respectable man. It’s not for nothing that school years are called the best years of life, and therefore it’s time to get to know young people.

Places to meet in college:

• lecture hall;
• library;
• canteen;
• student club;
• student disco.

The easiest and easiest way to start communication in the audience. Handsome from the stream, sitting alone at the table - this is a great reason to keep him company. Crouching close by, it is important not to forget to introduce yourself and ask something about the lecture or a spare pen. The acquaintance has begun, and it will be possible to continue it under other circumstances.

So, going to eat after heavy steam, you should look at the tables. Perhaps a newcomer is having lunch alone and is waiting for a pleasant company, which a girl can become. Wishing bon appetite, discussing cooked meals and flirting is all you need to make a good impression.

The library is a place where you can meet a modest and decent intellectual. The situation here seems to have an acquaintance, because thousands of books live on the shelves, and finding the right one is almost impossible. To ask for help in her search is a good start. Thanking for the help and sitting with the books in front of the guy, you can occasionally throw interested eyes in his direction.

Another interesting acquaintance about which it will be possible to tell friends and acquaintances is in transport. Every day, while on the bus and on the subway at the same time, one can be surprised to see the same people and that pretty boy with headphones in his ears. It is easy to get to know him, if at the right moment to catch his eye and smile. Perhaps it is this smile that he has been waiting for a long time, and therefore he is afraid to take the first step. Speaking of steps, one can inadvertently step on the foot of the chosen one in the crowd, and then, looking up, full of guilt and sympathy, apologize and smile sweetly.

A proven way can be a request for help. To open or close a window, to lift a heavy bag on a step is all so difficult for a fragile girl and so easy and flattering for a strong young man. The reciprocal gratitude and charming smile will be the beginning of a new acquaintance.

It is worth noting that such acquaintances are often not beyond the verge of transport, because a young man may simply be ashamed and not ask for a phone number. A couple of ready-made business cards waiting in the pocket for their time - salvation dating. Give the card to the young man before leaving the vehicle, and the call back will not take long.

Relaxed atmosphere reigns in cafes and various bars and pubs. Pleasant music, light drinks and delicious food require a supplement in the form of live communication.

The easiest option is to sit down at a table or bar counter to the chosen one and talk about pleasant music. For more courageous girls, an invitation to dance is suitable, which a polite man will never reject. Leaving the cafe, it will be useful to leave a business card to the guy you like and continue to communicate in a more relaxed atmosphere.

Young age is a huge advantage for girls over women over 40 years. The light character and changeability of views broadens the circle of ideal elects. However, established solid ladies deserve to find their happiness.

Places of acquaintance for women in 45-50 years:

• dancing;
• special sections and art cafe.

Psychologists are sure that today a woman can easily get acquainted with a man if she is determined to be positive and not fixated on acquaintance.

Simple truths from experts:

• be sincere;
• Do not reveal all the cards when you first met;
• not be obsessed with the constant search for a partner;
• be able to make compliments and unobtrusively give signs of attention.

In the next video, four ways are waiting for you to meet a man in a public place.