How to meet a girl in a social network?

In the recent past, in order to get acquainted with the woman she liked, a man had to invent original phrases and start a conversation first. On the move, sharpness was shown to interest the fair sex. Now only brave guys can come up to an unfamiliar girl and have a casual conversation with her. For other men, communication in social networks becomes the standard of first acquaintance. Communication in real life is much easier to build than in the virtual world. Therefore, it is necessary to periodically edit your profile in social networks.

Many men have their own page on social networks. For example, “VKontakte”, where you can upload your photos, share impressions about your vacation, tell interesting moments from life and view other users' profiles, vote for their photos and repost other people's posts. The first thing a girl pays attention to is an avatar, that is, the main profile picture. The fair sex does not like empty frames, images of animals or super-heroes. It is better to use a real photo, but not in an office or street style. A male silhouette against a red sunset will be quite interesting.

No need to use images with compromising overtones, for example, with a cigarette in your mouth or with a glass at a club party. Of course, the photo should be bright, but its main task is to provide high-quality presentation of favorable external data of a man. After selecting the main profile photo, you can proceed to the design of the page itself. This is a manifestation of the character and way of thinking of the man, and the representatives of the fair sex show special interest in this. The erudition of a young man will increase the chances of a successful acquaintance doubly. For example, in the subsection about favorite films it is not necessary to indicate banal pictures of Hollywood.

A beautifully designed profile page is a user's business card. No need to enter specific data about their interests. It is best to replace the boring description of your favorite activities with a few jokes, which will cause pleasant emotions among the fair sex. Having edited records of his own interests, a man should look at the photos on the page. Compromising images are best removed. It would be nice to upload pictures that emphasize the status of a man and his success into a general album.

Mandatory adjustment is subject to the news feed. The page should be filled with interesting posts. Every single statement should be unique, but not too complicated, so that the general idea is understandable to any person. In no case can not write about serious problems. Sometimes you can point to a minor nuisance, but in a humorous form. Very often, for simple communication in VC, men choose their interlocutor from another country. But even in this case, the profile must be properly designed to arouse the interest and sympathy of the opponent.

After editing the profile, the man thinks about how to get acquainted with the person she likes and start a correspondence with her. A beautiful avatar will attract her attention, but, besides a bright photo, it is necessary to convince her of her positive qualities of character and life success. VKontakte social network is the most popular resource in which almost all Internet users are registered. A convenient search system allows you to easily find the person of interest - it is enough to specify the age, place of study or work in the search box. In order to meet a free girl in the World Wide Web for sure, in the same search it is necessary to set the parameters “Not married” and “Actively search”.

Having made your choice, you need to think about where to start a conversation. Here only psychological approach works. In the subconscious of each person in such situations, three questions arise: "Who are you or are you?", "Why do you write to her or him?", "Why did you choose or choose me?" That is why after the welcome phrase you should unobtrusively give answers to these questions.

• "Who are you?" The girl wants to understand that an ordinary cheerful guy is trying to get to know her, and not any friend of her friend who is trying to mock her and make fun of her.
• “Why do I write?” With the answer to this question can not hesitate. The guy should immediately lay out his goal.
• "Why me?" This item requires some caution. It is necessary to identify its attractive features, beautiful features of external data or description of interests on the page. It is important to notice common interests. In no case can not deceive or embellish the truth - one fine moment the lie will be revealed, and the girl will be very offended.

The first phrase in the correspondence should look original and cool. In this case, a man should show restraint and tact. In no case can not use jargon phrases or words, parasites. Inappropriate will be a direct greeting. Banal: "Hello, how are you?" - no girl is interested. Even to enthusiastic phrases about her beauty a positive response will not follow. It is important to interest the representative of the fair sex, to the question followed by a complete answer.

Next, you should consider in more detail how to get acquainted with the conclusion of direct communication.

• Girls love when their photos are treated with delight. If there is an original bag with an embroidered pattern on the image, you can emphasize the originality of the accessory, and then clarify whether it has executed the ornament itself and how difficult it is to make.
• If you look at the profile of the girl of interest, then you can "catch" on any small detail, thereby bringing the "sweetheart" to online communication. For example, if dogs are indicated in its interests, and in the photo album there are images with a pet, you can ask leading questions asking them to tell about pet care.
• Travel lovers always post posts about their trips. Here, men - full scope for fantasy.

A beautifully designed profile of a girl can confuse a man, but in vain. No self-respecting woman will not post incriminating photos, posts and statements on a social network. Ladies with an excellent sense of humor try to put on their page a lot of interesting and unusual information that promises a pleasant chat in advance. To understand which “thread” to cling to, a man needs to carefully study the personal data of the lady she likes. Girls when filling out information try to give more extensive answers. Even famous quotes of famous personalities can unite people in a long conversation. Users of the VK social network often have common friends. And not necessarily a real person - this could be the page of any shopping mall or famous restaurant. In fact, this is a bright and obvious reason for dating. The main thing - to show imagination.

The main and most important rule for every man is to correctly pose the question. To the question: “Maybe we’re going to the cinema?” The answer is not always positive, besides it is not supported by any arguments. The same question should be worded differently: “I propose to go to the cinema, will it be fun there, at the same time, and get to know each other?”. In the question itself, a direct speech is heard that directs the girl to a positive response. And not just “Yes”, but a more complete and open explanation of consent.

Quite often, the guys in the online dating with the girls use the standard templates that are pretty tired of the fair sex. It is best to approach this issue creatively, and not to look for samples of correspondence on the Internet, but to invent a phrase for the start of an interesting dialogue. Under the photos posted girls guest can leave a comment. Why not try to get acquainted in this way? For example, find in her album a photo taken in an unusual place and ask the question: “What should a guy say so that you want to meet him in that particular place?”. And then the girl begins to get lost in the pool of their fantasies. She will unwittingly tell you the most desired way of dating, you will only use the hint.

To emphasize the talents of the fair sex, a man can ask her for help in a small matter. For example, translate a small text from English into Russian, but only if she knows a foreign language. For writing a message to a girl, a man can be guided by any topics, as long as the answer to the question is extensive, not single-word.

• “Tell me, please, where can I find a dance partner?” Immediate response will not have to wait, she should think a couple of minutes. During this time, a lot of incomprehensible thoughts are scrolling in her head, the main ones being: “Why does he ask me about this?”, “And what am I not fit for this role?”. And the answer question of the girl will be either the first or the second. So, the "fish" got hooked and you can continue to communicate with it.
• “I bought a chicken, and how to cook it - I'll never know. Tell me, please, an interesting and tasty recipe. ” The answer immediately again will not follow. The girl will begin to remember unusual dishes from her arsenal, to show how good a hostess she is. Although men just enough to carve the bird and just fry.

• “I am writing an article about original ways of dating. Please tell us about your most unusual acquaintance. ” And again, the answer will have to wait some time. Unfortunately, not all girls can boast of bright acquaintances with men, and quite often embellish reality, giving the desired for reality. This could be the starting point for future online communication and a first date live.

Getting acquainted with a girl on the Internet is not so easy. It is necessary to interest, intrigue and bring to communicate with the help of detailed questions. The key to success will be the decisiveness and humorous focus of written messages. Unfortunately, not all men adhere to these rules, and on the first attempt they are unlucky. The point here is the banal incorrectness of the first question. Primitive phrases: “Hello, how are you?”, “Let's get acquainted”, “Why are you silent?” Have not inspired women for a long time. It is especially unethical to find out the marital status of the girl you like at the very beginning of your acquaintance or to ask where she works.

It should be remembered that perseverance when meeting you can repel, rather than attract. You should not constantly write a girl a message if she did not respond to the first one. Having asked one question, it is important to wait for an answer, and only after that to continue communication. Having caught a “common wave” with a girl, you should not immediately demand her phone number. And even more meetings. Events should develop gradually, and at the right moment the question of the exchange of numbers will sound natural and unobtrusive. The same goes for the first date.

It is important to remember that virtual acquaintance can grow into real love, which means that it is impossible to write absurd stories and tell stories about your life. All secrets will become obvious and may negatively affect the relationship as a whole. It happens that a girl is not interested in communication with guys in social networks. She periodically comes to the page to count the number of new fans - this raises her self-esteem. But to respond to fervent appeals to her just too lazy or no time.

You will not take such an "impregnable fortress" at once - you will have to try. A girl can be interested in something out of the ordinary, but not passing the permitted limits. For example, a guy can draw her portrait (if you can not draw, you can order it from the artist). Then, in the process of communication, a favorable moment will come when you can admit that the portrait was drawn by another person.

It also happens that a man made a mistake and believes that normal relations with a girl can no longer be returned, because she has a complex and uncompromising character. But there are no people who would not be mistaken. There are those who give up without even trying to change something for the better. And there is always a way out of any troubles of life. The main thing is to look at life with wide eyes. And the saving “magic wand” will be in the palm of your hand. It is important to be able to put yourself in the place of another person, to feel what he feels. Then the answers to complex questions come to mind by themselves, without tedious experiences and unpleasant reflections.

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